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In the face of the threat of a boyfriend, I think you should figure out what you think in your heart, and if you are not prepared, you should not sacrifice your marriage easily. A person who loves himself will not force himself to do things he doesn't like, and he will not use marriage as a reason to threaten the other party.
On the question of marriage, you need to ask the other party about your thoughts about marriage, and let the other party give you real answers, rather than the other party dominating the relationship. If the other party really wants to marry him and go home, it is understandable, if the boyfriend gets married for the sake of marriage and regards marriage as a task, this will definitely bring misfortune to himself.
You need to figure out your feelings for your boyfriend about this relationship, and if you really like each other, you can understand this relationship. However, if you don't want to get married or your feelings for your boyfriend are uncertain, you must not marry the other party at this time, even if the other party threatens to break up, don't easily agree to the other party. Marriage requires that you really like each other and want to establish your own home with each other, but when you are not sure, don't gamble on your happiness, and you will eventually get hurt.
Marriage is not child's play, it requires two people to think seriously, and they can't get married for the sake of getting married, so they will definitely not be truly happy. If one of them does not want to get married, he cannot force the other to respect each other's wishes, so that a happy ending can be achieved. Marriage is a lifelong guarantee, and you need to think carefully about it, so that you can get a happy ending.
In the face of your boyfriend's threat, don't make a decision lightly, ask your heart and the other person's attitude towards you, so that you will get the answers you want. Don't make decisions for your happiness lightly, otherwise you will bring yourself a lifetime of harm and affect your life.
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Marriage is a big event, can't be a child's play, so at this time can not be a child's play, willful, if the two can really be together, then marriage is a matter of course, so you can't compromise or be in a hurry, you have to follow your heart.
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At this time, you should calm down and discuss it with your boyfriend, ask the other party why they are in such a hurry to get married, if the discussion fails, the two of you will break up, the two of you are not suitable.
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At this time, you must not be led by the nose by the other party, you must think clearly, if you don't like the other party, you should break up immediately.
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