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In fact, the promise itself is not important, the important thing is the mood of the person when he promises, grasp it well, so that his mood does not change with everything that is changing all the time, and the promise will be fulfilled... We should not wait for the fulfillment of the promise, but cooperate with the other party, help the other party to fulfill the promise, and do not let the promise become a burden to the other party... Take 10,000 steps back and say, even if all promises are credible, we shouldn't live by our promises, you say...
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Love is a feeling of loving and being loved, a tacit understanding of the heart, an unforgettable thought, a kind of willing to give without reciprocation.
Seed. Luck for lovers.
Fu strives to build.
One. A piece of the sky, a desire to be cared for, respected, understood and tolerated, a kind of dependence and kindness to each other. Journey. A.
Heart. Move (think. Read.
Time. Heartbeat (phase. See time).
The feeling of heartache (when parting and hurting).
Love someone, to.
Understand and explain, apologize and thank, and admit mistakes.
It also needs to be changed. Wrong, to be considerate and considerate, to accept rather than endure, is to be tolerant.
Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.
When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.
There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.
They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.
In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.
If you find.
If there are such people around you, please cherish .......
Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.
the world. on, each.
Everyone has one. Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.
If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.
Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.
The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.
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Love can be produced in a second, but love takes a lifetime to complete. Love: to understand, but also to unravel; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate, accept, not endure, be tolerant, not conniving; It is support, not domination; It is a condolence rather than a question; It is to pour, not to accuse, to be memorable rather than to forget; It's about communicating with each other, not about everything:
It is to pray silently for each other, not to ask for many from each other, it can be romantic, but don't waste it; It's okay to hold hands at any time, but don't break up casually If you do it all, even if you don't love someone anymore, you will only miss it, not hold grudges.
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It depends.
If you can't do it because of some external factors.
Why force yourself.
But it is recommended that you. Before making a promise.
Think about it. Anyway, if someone made a promise to me and didn't do it.
I'll be unhappy.
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Commitment is always the rope that binds us.
The promise made brings us the flower of happiness.
But behind the flowers is indeed pay and harvest.
For the law. Commitment is a condemnation of conscience.
People without a conscience.
Not a perfect person.
For friends. Commitment is the companionship of solitude.
There are no real people.
Not your friends.
For love. Commitment is an umbrella in the rain.
There is no ability to protect.
There is no ability to give it happiness.
Our love can't last.
For our commitments.
What is promised must be fulfilled.
It's called.
Don't break your word.
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No amount of promises can escape a goodbye. A goodbey!I also left what I promised, saying that I didn't fulfill it, and I couldn't fulfill it because of the separation from each other. Therefore, promises cannot be kept, if you want to promise her or his, please do it!
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If a promise is fulfilled, it is really a promise, and if it is broken, it can only be said to be a lie.
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What is a promise, in fact, a promise is a promise made by a person, a promise represents a person's responsibility, an obligation, a love, the promise is intangible, is silent, a promise is worth a thousand gold...
On the contrary, what about those who have made such promises? It will also disappear, the promise is nothing to those people, it is illusory, a person's commitment is just an excited mood at the time, just to confess a wish of oneself, can not represent the real love and eternal future, real love is without vows and promises, no love vows and promises are worthless, no credibility, do not easily believe in those so-called promises of the sea vows, that will only hurt yourself. The edifice of love built with vows is just a mirage of spiritual ideas, and the promises that come everywhere are just a glimmer of night breeze gently caressing the face in summer...
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Promises and vows are unintentional, and don't expect it to be fulfilled ...
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Agree with what the man said above... But I feel like I should try to do it!
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A promise is a debt ...... owed
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Make a promise for love, and I believe that most people have received it and given it. But how many people will keep the promises they made? Will the person who accepts the promise always give for love?
When love exists, the promise of love has always warmed the hearts of both parties, but when love does not exist, when love is on the verge of pain, who cares what the weight of that promise is? Begin to make a commitment to love, will bring a sense of security to the marriage, let each other give wholeheartedly, the person who made the promise, the words he said actually only represent that moment, can not represent forever, he simply did not think that there will be some unexpected situations in the middle of the long road of love, so the party who accepts the promise should not be obsessed with the brilliant and unforgettable promise. Carefully, rationally, and clearly analyze this relationship, if you don't love, you don't love, whoever doesn't love first leaves first, the promise made is like a blank check, meaningless, and then it disappears.
In fact, true love does not matter whether the promise exists or not, if there is, please abide by it seriously, but do not believe in eternity, it will decrease in value with the change of time, environment and mutual understanding, the lost love can not be exchanged with the promise of the past, and the day of love cannot be replaced. Oh.
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Commitment that has not been adhered to often begins with doubting the necessity of persistence, and you may both hope to bring new life and insights to each other when you are together, but persistence is a mere formality, and the feeling does not come as expected, and it seems that the distance has been widened again.
Don't be obsessed with complaining about the past, what you bring her is not only a promise and an agreement, she needs you to give you a new life, and all the dissatisfied complaints about her lie in your own lack of initiative and lack of strength to fight for your ideals.
Her performance to you is the epitome of your own lack of ability, in fact, no matter when and where, the improvement of your own ability is the most important, strong you don't need to change for her to adapt to her, but she will change for you to adapt to you. It is also the embodiment of a man and not a boy.
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Hehe·· Sympathy·· Time can recognize people and forget everything.
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We make a floor or a million, and that's what we do. But everything will change, mostly.
Things will change, so it's better not to make any more promises.
It is understandable that people who have come have pain in their skin. It's just that everyone who vows no longer to believe in promises, when they fall in love again, they will forget the previous pain and ask for commitments again'There is nothing wrong with believing in promises, but the mistake is to think that promises are the main meal.
The promise in love is nothing but desserts, afternoon tea, snacks, and nights. Without this, life would be monotonous. For example, we want to eat desserts even though we know they are not beneficial.
Seeing the sun shining on this day, knowing that we had to work, we still sneaked out to enjoy a beautiful afternoon tea, knowing that many things would change, and we still believed in his promise, like desserts.
We want to promise, but because of greed.
A person who only eats meals, does not eat desserts, does not eat snacks, and refuses to waste time enjoying an afternoon tea must be a boring person. However, if you eat desserts as a meal, sooner or later you will become obese, and if you treat snacks as a meal, you will be malnourished.
The vows in love are just snacks other than the main meal, and we feel disappointed, because when we are loved, we think that these mountain alliances and sea vows are just a meal. When I was hurt, I thought it was poison, but I never noticed it, and the promise was nothing more than a dessert.
You should have known long ago that it's nothing more than embellishment.
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You seem to ignore a question of time between making a promise and whether it can be achieved in the end, in the face of time, sometimes the promise is not able to compete with it, but I believe that he should really love you when he made the promise, because of love, so he is willing to promise, but in the face of time it also becomes helpless. Please don't delve into what will happen in the end of the promise, believe that he really loved you at that time, but the time was not right.
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If you don't want to make it, why admit it?
If it is not realized, it will not only be dishonest to others, but also cause regret to oneself.
That's the consequence.
But if it really can't be realized, confess to others as soon as possible, and the long pain is better than the short pain.
Be sure to stick to it, think about what your ** might become if you don't do it, and what reason is there not to persevere.
Definitely, otherwise what kind of promise is that!! What is a promise, a promise to the other party, something that must be achieved. You can't break your trust with others! lz, you can take a look at Zheng Bangbang, you will know what commitment is.
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