I m old and divorced, can I find my own happiness?

Hello, I am the sheep teacher of the flash marriage network. Some of our members are in the same situation as you. Divorce and old age do not mean that there is no right to pursue happiness.

Being single does not say that you have to be single, your income of 100 may also be single, and your income of 10,000 may also be single.

Look how old you are!

At the age of 30, there is a 50% chance of being lucky.

At the age of 40, there is a 25% chance of being lucky.

At 50 years old, there is a 40% chance of good luck.

After the age of 60, you will be lucky enough to find someone with whom you will spend the rest of your life together.

In fact, after divorce, when starting a family, there is more or less a little gap between the two people, and there is no way to bridge it. When you are about 30 years old, the child is still young, and if the two of you are together wholeheartedly, the chances of happiness are still quite large. Around 40 years old, the children are all cardamom years, and there is a generation gap with their parents, and if there is no blood relationship, there must be a lot of contradictions.

Around the age of 50, the children are basically married, and if you support you, you will be happy, otherwise, you will be uncomfortable. After the age of 60, the children are in their 30s and understand things, unless you are unlucky. Generally, there are single number results.

In remarried families, conflicts due to children are the first, economic reasons are second, and other factors are third.

I wish you to find happiness soon.

Find it with your heart, and communicate with sincerity and strength!!

Hope for success!!

Yes, as long as you have a positive and optimistic childlike heart, I believe you will be happy.

There is always a flower that is truly yours.

It is entirely possible to live happily after a divorce, and it depends on your post-divorce mindset and self-regulation ability.

If you just blindly complain about others, have an extremely negative attitude towards life, and are always immersed in the sorrow of divorce and are unwilling to come out, then the possibility of you achieving happiness is too small, because your three views, that is, the world outlook and outlook on life, and the values have collapsed because of a divorce, so you will live extremely unhappy, because you have lost the pursuit of happiness, and the blow of divorce has overwhelmed you.

On the contrary, if you see this divorce as just a small episode in your life, no big deal, and a new life after the divorce, and pursue happiness with a positive and optimistic attitude, you will continue to reap happiness.

Therefore, there is no need to regard divorce as so important, do what you should do, cherish the people in front of you, cherish the things around you, and embrace life with a positive and sunny attitude, so that you will have more happiness and joy; There is no need to immerse yourself in the grief of divorce all the time, it is not worth it, whether it is because of the person you can't forget, or those things you can't forget, you shouldn't continue to dwell on it.

We should continue to stride forward with our heads held high.

You can still find true happiness after divorce, and you must be full of longing for life to be right.

If you haven't been divorced yet. Don't get divorced, and don't believe that you can find true happiness after a divorce. If you are divorced, then pray that you will find true happiness!

No one's life is smooth sailing, can not be self-denial because of a momentary setback, it is completely possible to live happily after divorce, focusing on your mentality and self-regulation ability before the divorce.

If you just blindly complain about others, have a very negative attitude towards life, and are always immersed in the sorrow of divorce and are unwilling to come out, then your possibility of happiness is too small, because your three views, that is, the world's outlook on life and values, have collapsed because of a divorce, so you will be extremely unhappy, because you have lost the pursuit of happiness, and the blow of divorce will overwhelm you.

On the contrary, if you see this divorce as just a small episode in life, it is not a big deal, and after the divorce is a new life and a new life, and you pursue happiness with a positive and optimistic attitude, you will continue to reap happiness.

Therefore, there is no need to regard divorce as so important, do what you should do, cherish the people in front of you, cherish the things around you, and embrace life with a positive and sunny attitude, so that you will have more happiness and joy; There is no need to immerse yourself in the grief of divorce all the time, it is not worth it, whether it is because of the person you can't forget, or those things you can't forget, you shouldn't continue to dwell on it.

We should continue to stride forward with our heads held high, why are we stagnating in one place when the road of life is so long. If you have been stagnant, you will miss out on other scenery on the road of life, and there are better people and better things waiting for you ahead.

Then it depends on fate, fate comes, then you can get a happy bucket type, if not, then you will not be lucky. If you don't want to guess, you have to be brave enough to pursue.

Although you are divorced, you will have happiness, but you have to rely on yourself to grasp it, and you will cherish it when you meet a good one.

1. Impulsive marriage is never durable, every woman must be cautious about her brother's marriage, her happiness can not be pinned on others, she must think carefully and calmly before getting married, especially this kind of divorced man with children, you must know more, not only to understand his personality, but also to understand his previous relationship with his ex-wife, to understand whether the children will accept themselves, and then consider whether it is suitable to form a family.

Second, if it is not the flesh that fell from his body, there is no blood relationship, and there is no trace of cordial feelings, how can a person who remarries treat each other's children as his own? People who remarry, in the matter of treating children, as long as in general, on the surface, the past is okay, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, which one? So, don't expect the other person to treat your child as if it were their own.

Parent-child relationship also needs to be cultivated, and the child can only be kissed when he is raised by his side.

In fact, it is normal to think about it, if the husband and wife divorce, the child only lives with one party, and the other party does not see the child for a long time. After the divorce, the party who does not have children will only get farther and farther away from the children, because the children are not around, and they have not brought them up.

In addition, if this party has another child, the time and energy are focused on the child in front of him, and the more he pays, the more he loves, and his heart is full of the child in front of him. How can there be time to think and love the child who is not around?

Generally, the more you pay for your child, the more it hurts, the more you see your child, the more it hurts, and the less you pay and often don't see it, the less distressed. Human nature is like this, not to say who is good and who is bad, but all feelings need to be managed, even if it is their own children, the feelings that have not been contacted and managed will gradually become strange over time, and only when they are often together can they have feelings. The reason why people are affectionate is that there is no replacement, and once there is a replacement, they can be forgotten.

Divorce is still very likely to reap happiness and joy, whether it is a man or a woman, divorce does not mean that you have failed in life, on the contrary, get rid of the previous failed marriage, you have the opportunity to embrace a happier life.

There is no need to be decadent because of a failed marriage, after a woman divorces, you can choose fitness**, improve your temperament, expand your range of friends, have nothing to ask friends to travel, read more books to learn to forget the troubles through reading, and use books to cultivate your sentiments.

In this way, when you meet someone you like more, you will have the ability to get acquainted with him, and you must not be decadent, so that you will miss your own happiness again; If a man is divorced, there is no need to be discouraged, thinking that he is not capable, in fact, you are really just not suitable, not on the same channel.

Divorce can be equal to happiness; Because it may be because of divorce that you have gotten rid of the clutches of the devil and the shackles of the previous failed marriage, and only by getting rid of the previous failed marriage can you have the opportunity to pursue your own true happiness. So, divorce is not terrible, what is terrible is that you lose the ability to pursue happiness.

Although it is more difficult to remarry, it depends on your conditions, and your net worth and appearance are directly proportional, the probability is still quite large, but next time Blind Oak must see the right person to remarry. If you marry the right person, you will be very happy, and if you marry the wrong person, it is better to be a pig or a dog. After divorce, a woman can still be happy as long as she has feelings after remarriage.

You can still find your own happiness after the divorce, and you must be better to be right.

Of course you can whenever you want.

I am confused about this problem, the woman's last marriage failed and divorced, so the most I feel on the emotional road in the future is confused, and the emotions I have paid have been in vain, almost exhausting all the enthusiasm and hope for the emotion. A failed marriage is still a very big blow to women, and in this case, few divorced women can be happy. Because a woman's trust in emotion and marriage is already very low, she doesn't know what kind of attachment she can have to happiness, and she feels that she can't get what she is pursuing, so she feels very lost and doesn't have much happiness at all.

According to economic conditions.

Women are very happy after divorce, and economic conditions occupy an important factor, because their economic conditions are not good, their monthly income is rarely unable to meet the material conditions they are pursuing, and they cannot reach the level of wealth they want in life, so they will not feel happy. In fact, many women have a better mentality after divorce, and they are not forced to be in love and marriage, and their lives always have to go on, and they can't live because of divorce, so women are also strong and work to earn money to support themselves. Some women have high requirements for the quality of life, but her own economic hall is not in good condition, and she has not found a lover with excellent financial means, in this case, she feels unhappy.

From the partner's point of view, if a woman can't find a suitable partner after divorce, then she will feel unhappy when she lives alone, this kind of single life is very hard and tiring, and there is no lover to care for herself and take care of herself. I lack a real support, I feel that this kind of life is very tiring, and my heart is tired, and a woman in this situation is not happy.

Work on your own to earn money.

Divorced women have to work their own to earn money, then this kind of life is unhappy, because the work is very hard, and the life is not rich or even embarrassed, in this case, the woman needs to work hard and bear a lot of pressure, all in order to earn money to fill the needs of life, and work hard for life. So much so that she gave up the happiness in the ideal she was pursuing, and the divorced woman in this case was very happy, and she was suffering by herself.

Therefore, every marriage needs to be managed, and not divorced does not necessarily pretend to be happy, and divorce is not necessarily happy. Careful consideration is required.

Divorce is a very unfortunate thing, how to get married is not for the sake of divorce, of course, since the choice of the group choice of the wrong cause of the two people parting ways and goodbye, then finding new happiness is your starting point, if you give up, then of course you are unhappy, if you are really a person who is looking for happiness and pursuing happiness, and working hard to make yourself happy, you will definitely be able to get happiness.