My husband is determined to divorce, what should I do

1. Learn to balance the relationship between husband and wife: one party takes, one party gives, and in such an unequal relationship, the marriage will only be on the verge of breakdown. If you want to save your marriage, you should understand that marriage is the status, responsibility and obligation of the two people, and they are all related to each other, so that you can maintain a good marriage for a long time;

2. Recognition and praise in marriage: Everyone has their own life and life trajectory. There is a secret of your own soul that you need to taste alone, so please give each other some space, know how to agree with what the other party says in life, and praise each other in time when the other party is doing well, so that the husband has a sense of being recognized and worshiped by his wife.

If the husband agrees to divorce during pregnancy, both parties can enter into a divorce agreement and jointly apply for divorce registration, and after the divorce cooling-off period, they can receive the divorce certificate in person. If the woman does not agree, the man shall not file a lawsuit for divorce unless the people's court deems it necessary to accept the man's request for divorce.

[Legal basis].

Article 1076 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

Where the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079.

Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 1082.

The man may not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy; However, this is not the case where the woman files for divorce or the people's court finds it truly necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce.

Marriage is not a constant layer, and there are many risks associated with it. For example, what if my husband wants to divorce me?

First, be trusting and calm.

If it is because the husband filed for divorce during the quarrel, the first thing to do is to calm down, and the second thing is to trust him. may only say divorce because of a moment of anger, we have to be clear that every relationship is not easy.

If your husband files for divorce, it is likely that in this marriage, he lost himself and found that there is nothing he needs in the marriage, at this time, don't be busy making noise and blaming him, otherwise it will make him more determined to leave.

Then, don't stress your relationship.

No matter what the reason is, my husband filed for divorce, and you must not use the method of dead skin to save your face, your repeated entanglement, crying, and abuse will only make the other party more and more annoying. Don't use threats to force him to retract the idea of divorce, and don't threaten him to stay with assets or children, so that he will only feel that you are not the person who understands him, and he will be more disheartened.

Finally, find out what is wrong between you.

If you are usually living happily and happily, your husband will definitely not talk about divorce. As long as your husband has the idea of divorce, there must be a problem between you, and only by finding the root of the problem can it be solved, otherwise it is useless to do more.

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As the title says, if your husband is determined to divorce, my opinion is: any solution you think is not a solution, just let it be. There may be a rebuttal that there is still affection between husband and wife, and the whole family cannot be ruined because of impulse, and there is nothing wrong with the statement, but things have developed to this point, there must be a reason for it, and it is better to find the root of the knot than to be hoarse.

When encountering such a big event, it is very necessary to reflect on and self-knowledge, and carefully ponder what my husband needs and what we have given him. Whether it is in family education or economic expenses, we may be from the perspective of the family, modestly and even carefully, but when this unavoidable fact appears, should we reflect on being too persistent and forgetting to deal with material accidents, there are still many between husband and wife.

Only by understanding the position ideologically can we do something practical. But you still have to analyze it carefully, if it is not about the unforgivable problems in your life style, your husband divorces you with iron heart, which proves that you really hurt him. Here, all verbal explanations will be of no avail, and the quarrel will only add to his disgust with you, and after getting to know him and her husband again, agree to his request.

My husband was determined to divorce him, and he wanted to pull him back, so when he asked for the most intense, he agreed to him in the opposite way. Unexpectedly, he will not be so arrogant, and it is possible to take a serious look at his wife. In the coming days, you can use some groups of friends or family, or you may not use them.

But the divorce process is very long, you can still appeal in the first and second instances, and in this long time, if there is affection, it is enough to make him change his mind.

To redeem your husband's stubborn heart, your words and feelings are the most important and the least important. Because, once disgust or even resentment arises, any justification is just adding fuel to the rupture.

Everything was done, and I changed. The husband is still determined to divorce, proving that this person is no longer worthy of your trust, and decisively chooses to divorce and pursue his own happiness.

You just divorce your husband, since the other half of you choose to divorce, it proves that your marriage is irretrievable, and you don't have to work in vain.

Since your husband is already determined to divorce, then leave him, keep his person, you can't keep his heart, you can never keep a man who is determined to divorce.

Then let's leave, there must be no love between them, and it is in vain to try to keep it, it is better to separate and pursue their own happiness again.

Then don't force it anymore, otherwise although they live in the same family in the future, two people don't even say a word like strangers, it's really terrible, just leave, you will meet better.

You're ready for divorce. Because your husband has an iron heart and wants to divorce you, it means that there is no way for your marriage to continue.

Then divorce, even if you succeed in retaining it, he has no feelings for you, and the person who should leave will always go. Needless retention and pleading will not work.

Agree to divorce, because at this time your husband's attitude towards you is already in a state of death, and no matter how much you try to save this marriage, it will be useless.

Then don't keep it hard, his heart is no longer in you, even if you stay in the end, what can you do? If you are divorced, you have to do better than you are now, let him see, you will live better without him, and let him regret his original decision.

Then divorce. A person who doesn't love you, you can't keep it. I kept it for the time being, and I will leave it in the future, so there is no need to keep it.

Then divide it. The other party is already so tough, it's not interesting for you to continue to redeem it, it's better to divide it as soon as possible, the twisted melon is not sweet.

If the other party goes to the court to sue and does not want to divorce, they can communicate more or ask a lawyer to help mediate. If the defendant is summoned by summons and refuses to appear in court without a legitimate reason, the court may make a judgment in absentia.

According to the Civil Procedure Law of the People's Republic of China:

Article 143:Where a plaintiff is summoned by summons and refuses to appear in court without a legitimate reason, or leaves court without the court's permission, it may be handled as a withdrawal of the lawsuit; Where the defendant counterclaims, a judgment may be rendered in absentia.

Article 144:Where the defendant is summoned by summons and refuses to appear in court without a legitimate reason, or leaves court without the court's permission, a judgment may be rendered in absentia.

Article 145:Where the plaintiff applies to withdraw the lawsuit before the judgment is announced, the people's court is to rule on whether to approve it.

Where the people's court rules not to allow the withdrawal of the lawsuit, and the plaintiff is summoned by summons and refuses to appear in court without a legitimate reason, a judgment may be rendered in absentia.

Your husband is determined to divorce you, which shows that the contradiction between the two of you has reached the point of irreconcilability, you have to analyze the reason, if it is caused by your reasons, your husband really doesn't love you anymore, then don't force it, if it can be saved, you can admit your mistake to your husband, ask for his forgiveness, if she can forgive you, you can reunite, if you can't forgive you, then you will divorce, there is no need to be entangled again, if you want to be together, They will not be happy with each other, and the twisted melon is not sweet.

After many years of marriage, the relationship between husband and wife has always been good, and there are no major contradictions. But in an accident, the husband suddenly filed for divorce, and the wife was unwilling to continue. Because I am afraid that my children will have no one to take care of, I can only be a full-time wife.

1. Analyze your own financial situation.

Before divorcing, you must analyze Lakuanzheng's financial situation. If you have the financial resources to take care of the family, then you can consider becoming a stay-at-home wife and leaving the children in the care of your wife. If you are unable to provide financial support and assistance to the other person, you may also consider giving up the marriage.

Why do men file for divorce, it must be that they have lost confidence in marriage and have no courage to continue.

2. Find out your own problems.

Although it is said that a man's divorce is because he no longer loves his wife, it does not mean that a man wants to find a woman who doesn't care about it. If, at this time, the husband files for divorce, then an in-depth analysis of the problems of both parties is required. After all, divorce is a painful thing for both people.

If there is a problem between the husband and wife, then the man may also be disappointed in the divorce initiated by his wife because he loves himself. Therefore, at this time, it is necessary for wives to find their own problems or psychological demands and solve them.

3. Communicate with your husband.

If you are still reluctant to divorce, then don't put too much pressure on him, he will find his own reasons. But at this time, you should not dwell too much on him, you should talk to him well. Let him understand that the idea of divorce is absolutely impossible, so that he will cherish this relationship even more.

Of course, if the husband really wants to show his determination to divorce in front of his wife, then try to tell him what he thinks, and he will work with you to take care of the children and the family.

4. Change the past.

In fact, many women will have a lot of concerns and problems after marriage, and they are afraid that they will not be able to take good care of their children. If it is really because of these problems that the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down, then you should find a way to change the status quo! First of all, we must change our work style and lifestyle, because many women can't adjust their mentality in time after getting married, so that they are always in a state of mental exhaustion.

In fact, whether in life or work, you need to have a good heart chakra attitude, only in this way can you keep yourself alive and energetic!

If you don't agree to leave, if the other party sues, you are not at fault, and the court will not award the divorce for the first time, mainly because you negotiate and communicate with yourself, If one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may mediate or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court, and the people's court shall conduct mediation when hearing the divorce case; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.