Will a woman find an ex husband if she has a need after divorce, and what is everyone s doing?

Many men tend to be prejudiced against second-married women, due to the fact that second-married women have many safety risks.

One of the biggest safety hazards is the problem of children, and because of children, second-married women are easy to contact their ex-husbands, and their own women are in love, so many men often avoid second-married women.

In that case, can a woman really find an ex-husband if she has needs after divorce? Three people give.

I'm sure it's not easy to find, the simple question is that I don't have a relationship with him anymore, and he is domestic violence against me.

This is something I can't tolerate, and since we've been married for a short time, so we don't have any children, so I don't have anything to worry about. Now I just hope to find a reliable man to divorce, even if I can't find it, I won't find my ex-husband, I am a stranger to him, and it is not easy to see him again.

This is something that can't be helped, those who have experience in second marriage must understand, and not only women, but also men who have children in their ex's house, or whose ex's children seem to have children, is it not possible to say that they are not in contact? Therefore, there will definitely be contact with the ex, just saying that the contact is in contact, it does not mean that something must happen, which physiological needs have to be dealt with with the ex-husband, is it so important? For me, divorce is a new starting point, and the contact is also for the children, and I have nothing to do with my ex-husband, and I will not have sex.

People have feelings, so having sex with your ex-husband is not a big deal, and there is no way to do it. I'm a weak girl, even if I leave my ex-husband, I want his help, the woman doesn't agree, and before I meet a new man, it's good to contact my ex-husband as a ladder, and then if there is indeed a new man, I will definitely lower the contact with my ex-husband.

I think I'm going to find my ex-husband, after all, it's also a husband and wife, and you can still ask for help when you encounter something, and there's no need to die of old age and not get along.

Probably not. If a woman chooses to do this, she may leave a very bad impression on her ex-husband and will make herself fall off.

A woman's mentality is difficult to figure out, and if she has difficulties, she will ask her ex-husband for help, because he knows her ex-husband's character and thoughts, and he still owes a lot of favors to ask for help from others. It is not unreasonable to say that these are the mentality of divorced women.

In terms of the situation, the first is that the woman has a compound psychology, and the second is that the woman does not want to break up the relationship with the man (mostly refers to the relationship of interests in money), and the subject is screened according to the actual situation!

Many times, divorce is not the same as breaking up, because after a breakup, two people can break up cleanly and continue to live their own lives. But the divorce is different, after the divorce, the husband and wife will involve the division of property, involving the custody of children, even if the two are really divorced, it is inevitable that there will be a time when they need to contact again in the future. Can a woman who is in constant contact with her ex-husband have it?

In fact, it depends on why she broke off the connection with her ex-husband. Generally speaking, it is not surprising that a woman contacts her ex-husband after divorce, the key is the frequency of contact between the two, which cannot be too frequent.

There are many reasons why a woman contacts her ex-husband after a divorce, sometimes for children, sometimes for other reasons. For men, if you happen to fall in love with a divorced woman, and this woman has been in a disconnected relationship with her ex-husband, then at this time, the man should figure out what she is in contact with her ex for.

If it's because of the child's problem, then the man can't take it lightly. If the child is already old, and the woman still contacts her ex-husband frequently, is this kind of woman really contacting her ex-husband because of the child's problem? Perhaps, the child is just a front for her to contact her ex-husband.

If she contacts her ex-husband because she still has no feelings for her ex-husband, then this kind of woman, it is best for men not to be easily emotionally attached to her. Because she still has other men in her heart, even if you pay more, you may not be able to touch her heart.

If she contacted her ex-husband for other unspeakable reasons, then men should stay away from such divorced women. This kind of woman, even if she has no other feelings for her ex-husband, but she uses her ex-husband as a tool to vent her loneliness, they still don't mind satisfying each other after divorce, there is no conjugal love, and a woman who still doesn't mind having a husband and wife is very dangerous, even if she is with you, the possibility of betraying you in the future and cuckolding you is also very high.

If after the divorce, when she learns that her ex-husband has a future, then in this case, the average woman will regret it very much. Having left his ex-husband at that time, he is sure that he is now thinking about how to return to his ex-husband again. After all, if the ex-husband has a chance, in this case, the woman will definitely regret what she did at the beginning, and she will definitely regret why she was so irrational and chose to leave her ex-husband, and she will definitely think about how to contact her ex-husband for the first time, and how to talk to him better.

After the divorce, what did the woman think when she learned that her ex-husband was promising? Listen to what she has to say.

Care, it's a must! In my opinion, the key is whether the word "too" should be or not!

If both parties have not remarried, it is no problem to be "too", and even because of this "too", they can be reunited and return to the children a complete home!

As a divorced woman, since she already has a current husband, if the current husband also has children or has children in common, then she must grasp a degree in the word "too"!

First, we must care about equally, otherwise we will take care of one and lose the other.

The care of the current husband and his ex-wife's children, himself and his ex-husband's children, whether it is spiritual, material, economic, etc., must at least care fairly, and one cannot favor one over the other. If you care too much about yourself and the children of your former husband, it will not only cause dissatisfaction between your current husband and his ex-wife's children and your own children with your current husband!

Second, pay attention to the feelings of the incumbent, otherwise it will endanger the family.

cares about the children of yourself and your ex-husband, and you must not care too much about them without principles and scruples. If you want to care about your and your ex-husband's children, you run to your ex-husband's house to "meet mother and son" "anytime and anywhere", and only consider the feelings of your personal "parent-child", and do not consider the feelings of your current husband, which will seriously and directly endanger the stability of the new family!

Third, we must focus on the happiness of the child, otherwise it will affect the child.

A mother's concern for her child cannot be to satisfy her "maternal love", perhaps because she cares "too much", which leads to the unhappiness of her child.

The child was originally more forgetful and lived well in her ex-husband's house, if the biological mother ran over to reunite in three days, she invisibly told the child that there was no mother in this family, and she had seen a lot of this situation, and the child cried heartbreakingly when parting, isn't this constantly sprinkling salt on the child's wound?

As the current wife of the ex-husband (the stepmother of the child), she may be very good to the child, if the biological mother runs over to reunite in three days, and invisibly tells the stepmother, "This child will always be mine", it is estimated that the stepmother's goodness to the child should be greatly reduced!

Personal opinion: It is necessary to care about your children in your ex-husband's family, but you must grasp the scale of the word "too", otherwise you will lose sight of one or the other, endanger the family, and harm the children!