How do you deal with people who are ruining your reputation everywhere?

Such a person should be tortured and given a lesson. Let the other party know what is the good end of ruining the reputation of others. After that, find an appropriate time to grab the other person's handle and drive them out of my sight. It was the other party who was unkind first, and Hugh blamed me for being unjust.

This kind of person needs to clean up thoroughly, otherwise he will keep doing this, find the right opportunity, hit the key point once, it is best to have the handle of the other party, or the things that the other party cares about, or a critical moment of the other party, clean up completely at one time, and never intersect again.

To deal with the villain who speaks ill of you behind your back, you only need these 3 tricks, and you won't dare to mess with you in the future.

I have met such a person, because of a little festival he is very hateful to me, everywhere to say bad things about me, I endure it again and again, after all, there is no evidence, once I seized the opportunity, I heard it, I went up directly and kicked him off, and since then it has stopped.

For small matters, if they have not caused great harm to their own vital interests, they can choose not to care. If it is true that it has harmed one's own reputation, harmed one's own interests, and caused certain adverse consequences, one must clarify right and wrong in a reasonable and restrained manner, and when necessary, one can also adopt legal means to restore one's reputation and safeguard one's own interests.

People are self-purifying, don't have to fight back, let alone retaliate Be yourself There are no fools in this world Everyone has a balance in their hearts Justice is at ease in the world If you can easily be provoked by others and destroy the relationship between you, it means that your relationship is not in place.

Those who are pure are self-turbid, and those who are pure are self-turbid, believe in themselves, and don't want the prince to care about other people's opinions, so you can completely ignore those who ruin your reputation; At the same time, everyone can see how you behave and behave, and it is impossible to affect your impression in the minds of others through the corruption of one or two people, so you can treat it with a normal heart.

When we meet such people, we must do the following:

1. Adjust your mentality and don't care too much about other people's opinions, otherwise it will also affect your mood, so it will not be cost-effective.

2. If it hurts your self-esteem, I think it is necessary to clarify, otherwise others will only think that you are a good bully, and it will be even more difficult to deal with it when the time comes.

3. Let him also try the taste of being ruined by others, so I think it is also a kind of education for him, so that he can put an end to this kind of thinking.

It's best not to ignore it, you can't stop him, it's good to have a clear conscience, it's good to be yourself, no one is perfect, no matter how good a person is, people are said badly, this is just a small number of people's bad taste.

After all, no matter how you explain the people who believe, they will still believe the rumors, and those who don't believe will still believe you no matter how others slander or slander you. As long as you do what you do.

Many times when we are abused, we will also fight back, but usually the emotions are exposed and resentful, and when the anger is extremely corrupt, we do not choose to speak, and we scold when we step on the pain points, and often the posture is ugly and both loses. Calm and relaxed, elegantly resolve the deadlock, can make the other party lose wonderfully, and win beautifully, why not? What do you do in the face of someone who slanders you and ruins your reputation?

1.Retreat.

This rule is that no matter whether you are wrong or not, you should reduce your position to a position that cannot be lowered again, and then scold others, so that you can have a fair and bright attitude. If there is a mistake, admit the mistake first, and if it is right, you must be humble and self-deprecating, and the other party's face will be so bright that the other party will have nothing to hide. Otherwise, if you scold him for a sentence or two, he will ridicule each other on your personal matter, and a scolding will turn into a private quarrel between the two, and there is no way to judge the merits.

2.Calm attitude.

Fighting back is the most taboo impetuous. A word of disagreement, red tendons, irritable like thunder, this shrub scolding seat, shrew scolding the street, can not be called Ya. Those who fight back gracefully must be calm and act as if nothing had happened.

When you wait for him to get tired of scolding, you gently reply to him and let him roar again. When he is irritable, you might as well sneer at him a few times, ensure that you don't have to make any effort, make him angry to death, and scold him to the point.

3.The most elegant way to fight back is not to fight back.

Of course, scolding the enemy by a thousand and hurting oneself by eight hundred. No matter how elegant the counterattack posture is, it is still exhausting and emotional. When you have experienced a hundred battles, you may find that the most elegant counterattack is not to fight back.

When Su Dongpo was once degraded to Huangzhou, he often participated in Zen and meditated with Buddha Yin. Foyin was born honest and was always bullied by Su Shi. One day, Su Shi asked the Buddha seal:

What does my meditation look like? The Buddha seal said, "Like a Buddha."

Buddha Yin asked rhetorically, but Su Shi said, "Like a pile of cow dung." Su Shi was complacent about his answer, thinking that he had won another verbal battle, and went home to show off to Su Xiaomei. When Su Xiaomei heard this, she said:

The heart is like a Buddha, so look at people like Buddhas. The heart is like dung, so look at people like dung. Brother!

You really can't compare to the realm of the Buddha Yin Zen Master! In the face of Su Shi's slander, the Buddha Seal, which seemed to have no fight back, was even better. Born from the heart, the situation appears according to the heart.

The best way to deal with this kind of sowing discord and slandering you is to stay away from him and not take him seriously. After all, people who have come into contact with you know your character, and they will not have a great prejudice against you because of his slander.

Taking care of ourselves is the most important thing, the more some villains like to slander and slander, the more we have to build ourselves better. When he sees it in his eyes, he will be angry and anxious, so he will suppress you even more. His actions are tantamount to self-destruction, focusing on destroying others every day, and in the end he achieves nothing, but destroys himself.

When you encounter this kind of person, it's best not to come forward and argue with the other party, because the person who can ruin your reputation behind your back will basically not reason with you, so it is useless for you to quarrel with him. You know someone who has ruined your reputation, say that you have to know how the other party ruined your reputation, and you will find out after a little inquiry, and then find evidence to prove your innocence, and if you feel that your reputation has been seriously damaged, you can consider suing the person who ruined your reputation and let the law punish him.

The last thing to say is to stay away from villains, stay away from people who ruin your reputation, so that you will have a lot less unnecessary trouble.

The problem is that there are no other people's rumors, which lets others know that you are very casual.

Ignore it, those who are clear will clear themselves. My friend was also said very ugly things outside, and was misunderstood by many people in the middle, and it is not an exaggeration to say that he cried for a month, and he was depressed during that time. But she now looks back and thinks that time is the best antidote, and the most important thing is that there are people around you who support you, and those who spread rumors will eventually be kept away.

Ignore him, surpass him, and be thousands of times stronger than him, no matter how bad your reputation is, others will only say that he is a villain, and others will teach him a lesson for you, otherwise you can't do it.

First of all, the person who spoils your reputation, Chun Chunsheng, must be jealous of you. Two special hate! You are outstanding and excellent in some aspects, and you have endless fun fighting with others, but I told you that the villain wants to pick up the old man Yixing told him, either stay away, seize the evidence and remember not to be soft, and secondly, don't pay attention to it, time can best witness all the truth.

There are two teachers' words for reference: first, hide in a small building and become a unity, and manage his spring, summer, autumn and winter. Second, there is endless fun with the sky, endless fun with the earth, and endless fun with people.

You choose.