What if I don t have anything to say to my grandparents?

It is recommended to talk to grandparents about daily life things, such as what to eat, household affairs, or listen to grandparents reminiscing about their past, and listen carefully to yourself.

We have a lot of age differences with our grandparents and grandparents, and it is normal for us to have no common language together, but this does not prevent us from spending more time with them and chatting with them more.

In fact, what the elderly need most is the company of children, the older people are, the more lonely they are, they can't keep up with the pace of children, and they can't keep up with the development of society, so they need young people to stop and accompany them.

When the landlord and grandparents are there, they don't have to ask for something to talk about. It is enough to listen to what they have to say, ask them what happened when they were younger, and then tell them about their daily lives.

It may have something to do with your introversion, and it's much better to try to have more contact with people. It's going to get better slowly, and be optimistic. You want to talk to them too, don't you?

It shows that you are also quite filial. Don't be afraid, it's all a family in the cold field, and it's not a way to avoid it all the time, right? If you want to find a way to play the round, I don't talk much at home, but I have to figure it out myself in order not to get cold.

Find a topic to find yourself to buy some fruit when you visit them. Ask the old man's body or something, even if he doesn't say too much, the old man is happy! I wish you success, communicate with others more, improve your introverted personality, and you will be much better ......Have a great time with your family.

You can say more caring words to your grandparents, or talk to him about their work and life outside the home, let them be a listener, and if they are willing to interact with you, you can follow his topic.

With elders, if you really don't know what to say, then wait for them to talk to you, after all, they are elders and have rich life experience, so they won't make you too embarrassed.

As a junior, you can care about their body, ask them how they are doing, whether their blood pressure is high, and tell them to take medicine on time, and good health is a blessing.

This is very normal, I have a generation gap with my parents, not to mention that the generation gap between my grandparents should be beaten, so it is normal to say that there is no common language.

If you don't have anything to say, don't say it! But there should be respect! Grandparents will shout when they meet! Eat delicious life and give them some time! That's enough!

It's normal to not have a common language together, but that doesn't stop us from spending more time with them and chatting with them more.

Seniors, you don't need to say what you want to say, you can say something that they want to hear at their age, or something that is appropriate for them to hear.

Summary. Hello, according to your question, the answer to you is that if you dislike grandma and don't want to talk to grandma, it is impolite, and the advice to you is that if you are afraid that grandma's saliva will spray on your face or body, you can stay away from grandma when talking to grandma.

Hello dear, I am glad to answer for you, and according to the questions you asked, we provide you with the following answers for your reference.

Hello, according to your question, the answer to you is that if you dislike grandma and don't want to talk to grandma, this is impolite behavior, and the advice to you is that if you are afraid that grandma's mouth chakra water will be sprayed on your face or body, you can talk to grandma when you stay away from grandma.

No, what if grandma spits into my meal?

When you eat, you can make a small bowl of food and eat it yourself.

Summary. Hello dear, in this case, it may be.

One, grandpa is a macho person who speaks at home. <>

Second, maybe grandma's ability to do things is not as good as grandpa's, and the decisions she makes are always wrong.

Third, now that the grandparents are older, grandpa knows that if he doesn't listen to grandma, grandma won't <>divorce him

Fourth, grandpa is a face-loving person, and he doesn't want people to know that he has to listen to grandma outside, so grandpa doesn't listen to grandma in front of people, and he <>

Why didn't Grandpa listen to Grandma.

Hello dear, in this case, it may be. One, grandpa is a macho person, and he is cautious or polite at home. <>

Second, maybe grandma's ability to do things is not as good as grandpa's, and the decisions she makes are always wrong. Third, now the god suspects that grandparents are old, and grandpa knows that if he doesn't listen to grandma, grandma won't <>divorce him

Fourth, grandpa is a face-loving person, and he doesn't want people to know that he has to listen to grandma outside, so he doesn't listen to grandma when he is in front <>of people

Dear, if you have any questions, you can continue to ask questions, I will answer them carefully and patiently.

In this scenario, we can guess that Grandpa Zaosong did something, but did not express or explain it. If you want grandpa to express himself, there are a few ways to try:

Direct inquiry: Communicate openly with your grandfather and ask him what he did and why he didn't speak. This is the most straightforward way to get to know grandpa's thoughts and feelings. If the grandfather is reluctant to speak, you also need to respect his choice and don't force the question.

Provide a safe environment: If grandpa is reluctant to speak, it may be because he doesn't feel safe or comfortable. You can create a safe environment where he feels relaxed and at ease.

For example, you can find a quiet place or serve him food or drinks that he likes.

Use non-verbal communication: Sometimes, language isn't the only way to communicate. You can use non-verbal forms of communication, such as body language, facial expressions, eye contact, and more. These ways can help you better understand your grandpa's feelings and thoughts.

All three of the above methods can help you better understand your grandfather's thoughts and feelings, but be careful not to force your grandfather to speak or express himself. If he doesn't want to speak, his choice also needs to be respected.

You can try to ask your grandfather if he needs help or express his gratitude, which may be out of humility or not good at words, and the conversation will not express his feelings and needs.

But as grandchildren or family members, we can take the initiative to ask Grandpa if there is anything in need of help or express gratitude.

In our daily communication, we can listen to and pay more attention to Grandpa's words and deeds, and discover and understand his needs and emotions.

At the same time, we can also express our care and love in a suitable way, and help Grandpa establish good communication with his family.

If you usually chat with the elderly, you must talk about the topics that the elderly love, the old man generally likes to talk about fishing, health, playing chess, etc., and the grandmother likes to talk about housework, TV series, etc., if these are not interested, you can enlarge the tricks, desperately praise the juniors, such as grandchildren, great-grandchildren, etc., nine out of ten old people love to listen to <>

If you haven't seen you for a long time, you want to know what grandma will talk to you? Generally, they will care about your current situation, how is it at work, are you busy? Are you tired of going to school? I don't think about my grandmother and other topics that I miss and care about every day.

What do you want to eat, grandma can make it for you, generally the older generation will talk about their hard years at that time, you can listen carefully, the most lacking thing for the elderly is to accompany them, say some homely things, increase your emotional communication, family harmony is very happy

You've been with the old man since you were a child.,It should be very close.,Personally, I'm also the right to grow up next to my grandparents.,I'm quite concerned about my old man.,Every time I hit **, it's quite kind.。

Living with the elderly should not have any habits that they hate, and it is very common for you to soak in a hot spring, and they should not care.

I guess so"The old man hopes that you can be by their side to spend more time with them, and whenever you go out, you will find all kinds of excuses or reasons to let you stay with you as much as possible. "This desire is not directly stated, they just want you to stay at home and see you more. That's why it's against you going to the hot springs.

It's in someone else's house all day long, don't come back, I'm going today, and he said that if you go in the future, don't come back" This sentence is obviously a rhetoric. Either you stay at home or you go out. Do you think he's going to keep you out of the door when you come back?

No. You're just letting you stay home and be with yourself.

By the way, do you usually spend a lot of time at home? Do you contact them frequently?

The above is purely a personal opinion, and I still hope that you can have a relationship with our elderly grandparents. There is a word called "intergenerational parent", I don't know if you have heard of it!!

I hope you all have harmony!!

Everything lies in communication, and I am a du

From the perspective of a bystander, you and your grandparents live in an era when they can't get along, but you can answer that there are problems in some communication conveniences, and now you are also living in a single-parent family, and the care of family affection is not as good as that of other children, maybe they are really in a kind of care! If you really grow up, I have to learn to understand and learn to be harmonious, so that you will mature and grow up!

This usually requires communication.

Sometimes it's okay to be coquettish or something.

I like my grandparents a lot, but they're no longer there.

Your grandparents have also imposed their expectations of your father on you, tell them, understand them more, and hope that Sun Jackie Chan!! Let them know that you love them and will not leave them.

Grandpa is old, his thinking is different from ours, you also have to understand them, we are still young, there are opportunities, but grandpa they are old, we should let go of ourselves, think more for them, you will not regret it.

I have to come to your grandfather.

Grandparents talk more about themselves.

Communication, it may be that your grandparents are too much, or maybe you are too extreme on some issues, and they have never talked about your ideas properly, because of your situation, it is recommended to discuss with your grandfather when encountering some things, if you do not agree with their views or suggestions, it should be used as a reference, and do not conflict with them. My grandparents are the same, sometimes they manage a lot, but I have to follow their hearts, even if things don't do it that way, after all, they think of us, even if sometimes it's not right.

Understand more, you have to know that they love you because they love you, and you have to put yourself in their shoes.

Be more considerate of the elderly, the elderly need someone to accompany them, in fact, they also want someone to talk to them.

I can understand your feelings.

In fact, you are now in a stage of longing for independence and freedom, and your grandparents are still continuing to protect you, which requires a process of running-in, adjustment, and adaptation for both parties.

Actually, your grandparents are also good for you, but you also have to talk to them.

Your grandparents are good to you, but they are not what you want, understand the two old people.

Between the thinking of grandparents and you, there is indispensable.

The difference in blending. This difference, commonly known as the generation gap, is the root cause of your current troubles, and there are only two ways to solve this problem.

1.You can try to communicate effectively, the so-called effective communication, is not as simple as you say to them, including the tone of your voice, choose the time, etc., the tone should be kind and not arrogant, and the time should be chosen when they are in a good mood, and talk to them heart-to-heart.

2.If the communication is ineffective, this is very possible, please do not be discouraged, within the scope of allowable, accommodate the feelings of grandparents, in the background, you can do what you think is right, since the contradiction is irreconcilable, and can not be avoided, it can only be a dead knot, can only ignore this contradiction.

You can choose not to listen to it, but remember not to talk back to your face, really!

Home and everything is prosperous! Any problem in the family can be solved, take your time!

I guess you are.

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Is it afraid that something will happen to du, from the perspective of a bystander, it is for your sake, and I am afraid that there will be any mistakes, their thinking is not wrong, I have good suggestions, you can discuss with friends to go somewhere else to play, it is best to be closer to home, and apologize to your grandparents first, this is mainly to let them lower their anger, not to be angry, and then, if you know how to cook? Just cook a meal for them, and then chat, and when they are not angry, tell their grandparents and say, grandma, I have a distant classmate coming, he is near home now, I go out to play, I won't run far, and say what time to go home, do what you say, grandma and grandpa will let you go, do you understand? Don't be afraid of Mom's problems, because Mom is not really angry, she is also worried, you see that day Mom was in a good mood and told her that Mom will let you go, hoping to help you.

Summary. Kiss, you can write down what you want to say on a piece of paper, fold it into a boat and drift with the waves, well, for example, the soul will leave the body and go to a higher dimensional space, and the soul is immortal. Even if you can't see Him, you can see you and hear your voice from His dimension.

It's been a year or two since my grandparents died, and I want to say a few words to my grandparents, but I don't know what to say.

Good. Hello, dear, as the saying goes, there are thoughts in the day, dreams in the night, did your grandparents dream of them after they died?

No. Well, you can say a few words when you sweep the grave or to **, in fact, when you raise this idea, you are already communicating.

I'm going to release them today, and I want to say a few words to my grandparents, but I don't know what to say.

Kiss, you can tease Qin to write down what you want to say on a piece of paper, fold it into a boat and drift with the waves, well, for example, the soul will leave the body and go to a higher dimensional space, and the soul is immortal. Even if you can't see him, you can see you and hear your voice from his dimension.

If you really miss them, you can go to the temple and pray for them.