I hate what my dad does, even hate

Updated on psychology 2024-08-05
3 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Hehe, I believe that you are willing to share your thoughts, indicating that what you say should not be false. And the father in your mouth does make us feel frightened and helpless, to meet such a father, indeed, quite unusual, it can be said that you are both pitiful and lucky. Sadly, you have met a special father; Luckily, you can appreciate the badness of human nature, and if you can convince yourself to be rational, you will be a good child.

    Fortunately, God has also blessed you with a gentle, capable, and self-reliant mother. From your mouth, I admire your mother! I think you should want your mother to learn that when she meets such a nuisance husband, she still loves him and takes care of him very much, which shows that your mother is a very generous and intelligent person.

    In the face of reality, she did not choose to escape, but lived bravely, and won quite brilliantly, which is not something that ordinary people can do!! You should also understand that many things in life will make you uncomfortable and miserable, and if you keep complaining and worrying, then things will not get better, and you will be miserable because of it. Therefore, you have to recognize the reality, be strong, even if you see your father every day, even if you see his vexatious troubles every day, you must live bravely.

    In addition, you must see that in fact, your father is also a pathetic person, and in your mother's body, he naturally cannot find a sense of superiority, so he has low self-esteem. And maybe he has something unspeakable hidden in his heart, so he complains about life everywhere and is always dissatisfied, which is the sadness of human nature! In addition to ignoring them, we must also sympathize with them.

    If you have the ability to communicate with him, it is not impossible to improve him, it's up to you! But at the very least, don't torture yourself, and don't lose hope in him, maybe time will tell! Try to convince yourself, change your own concept, get to know him better, and give your child warmth if necessary!

    It's difficult, come on! Hehe, it seems that don't expect him to improve, such a person who doesn't know why, it's hard to get better, or I sympathize with you! But it's enough for you to have such a mother!

    I hope there will not be a day when he will pass the legal route, and I hope that God can give him appropriate punishment and improvement! Alack!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    If it's bigger, it should behave better!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Don't have such thoughts, because for parents, they may have their own pressure, have their own ideas, so at this time it is better to try to understand them from their point of view.

    Compared with death, "old age" is a long process that better reflects the cruelty of time.

    The former is just a momentary break, while the latter is slowly invading your life without you noticing. In the age spots on the hands of their parents, in their thinning bodies, in their fainter voices.

    The change starts out as a subtle and silent change, then becomes a big fanfare, and finally comes out in a shocking way when you're not caught off guard.

    So you are not ready to be patient, and parents have begun to get used to nagging; You haven't learned to take care of everything on your own, and your parents have had to rely on you; You don't know where to put the real estate certificate at home, and your parents have forgotten where to put it; You want to consult them, only to find that they are more flustered and less decided than you are.

    You want to be comforted, but you find that they need it more than you do. Even before you have learned to cook a dish that your parents love to eat, and you haven't even thought about which health insurance to enroll them in, all kinds of geriatric diseases have suddenly ......

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