Why some people are reluctant to change in their relationships, and what do you know?

These people are more self-conscious, they feel that they are doing the right thing, they are the best, and they are in a very comfortable situation, so they are not willing to change the status quo and make new adventures and attempts, so they often hurt the people around them because of stubbornness, and finally do not get a happy ending.

This is because these people feel that there is no need to change, they feel that they are very good now, and they feel that it will be very troublesome to change in the future, so they are not willing to change.

Because these people are very selfish, they put themselves in the first place, they don't want to be wronged, they feel that they are always right, so they are not willing to change.

Because it's just my own contribution, and that person doesn't cooperate at all, there is no change, and it takes two people to pay if you want to change.

Because you are in a passive state. You are limited to the other person, you don't have any dominance, so you can't change anything.

It may be because of the personality itself, or it may be because I haven't experienced a lot of things, so nothing can change in the relationship.

After getting married, Josh and Knight worked hard not to believe that their married life had long since deteriorated. Even if they don't like each other's daily habits, they try not to be harmed by each other. It seems that many people say:

Don't have to try to change your significant other. In fact, the harm of married life to a person should not be underestimated, but this harm is often referred to as "change". After trying to get along, Josh and Knight seem to have found a way to change the way they get along with each other.

Josh will no longer press down the garbage bin, but when he subconsciously holds down the garbage bin to remove the plastic bags of the indoor space, the interruption and suspicion at that moment conveys not Josh's sense of accomplishment of change, but a kind of "resistance" and self-struggle. In Josh's opinion, if the waste is almost full, order it again.

Nate doesn't like it very much, so he uses her, otherwise the girl will be unhappy. Josh wasn't heartache that Nate would be angry, but a strange respect. Is this the same as their wife telling her husband to do something in our lives, and her husband is just doing it mechanically?

In different situations, he still follows the "whole process". In their eyes, this is only to keep their wives from being angry, not to make them happy.

But after being stunned for a moment, he smiled at Knight, he bravely melted into his wife's love, but every frame of her doing these things was intentional, and this kind of intentional submissive, aggrieved, and repressive elements were there, and it looked extremely stiff. The harder they try to unite, the more sad they will become. The most useless thing in a relationship, the most deserving, is to suppress yourself.

It is much braver to realize the problem than to look for a solution in confusion. This kind of bravery is not just about doubting oneself, but also about acknowledging one's own shortcomings. When we don't find a solution to our marital problems, the most easily overlooked point is that apart from your mutual needs, there is only "sameness" left.

As we all know, when two people are coldly related in terms of earnings, it is very difficult for them to love and kill each other. Naturally, what you mean is not simply the identity that establishes you in terms of material wealth. We often say that when some couples get together for the first time, they don't think about their relationship.

As time goes by, they will also find that the two of them are becoming more and more like husband and wife, and husband and wife do not simply refer to looks, but more often, body language and tone of speech will feel especially co-acting. Mainly because these people have long been accustomed to each other in the process of getting along. Under the observation of artificial intelligence, couples with couples are more natural than couples without couples.

Naturally, this is based on big data technology, and there is no "definite error" in the subjective aspect. Therefore, in order to deal with marital problems for a long time and improve marital problems, we must take the initiative to shape the "common personality". There are many ways to create a co-personality among couples.

Mainly because human nature is difficult to change, even if you realize the mistake of self-annihilation, it is difficult to correct your existing habit of wide search, so it is always easy to let your feelings go to the end.

It's because you don't want to change yourself for the other person at all, and you feel that you have to be proud in love.

There may be a lot of practical problems faced, and it may have been reversed, but they are exhausted and don't want to recover anything.