What should I do if I can t roll up and roll up in college, and I can t lie down and lie flat?

For many college students, the main reason why there is a situation of involution and rollup in college, but lying flat and lying flat, is that they have not found a real direction of effort that suits them, so first of all, they should combine their own reality and formulate a correct goal and direction of effort.

In the four years of college, there are indeed many students who are admitted to the graduate school of famous universities, for their own four-year college goal and themselves, at this time do not blindly follow, to combine their own reality, if they themselves do not have such ability, then it is better to change the direction to make themselves work hard, for example, you can choose the major you are interested in, you can learn such professional course knowledge well, so that at least you can ensure that you can have an obvious advantage in the job search and employment process after graduating from university. In the four years of college, it is true that you can not lie flat, because four years of college, lying flat will waste four years of precious time, and may even affect college graduation, so there is no doubt that there is no benefit to your future, at least in the four years of college, you should ensure that you can graduate normally and get your degree certificate, and then use other time to fully carry out some social practice activities, enrich your life experience, and will also make your four years of college gain.

Then you have to work hard. You can't win on campus, what will you do when you work in society? It is impossible to lie flat, and if you can lie flat, it is impossible to post the matter of whether you can lie flat here, so you can only choose one way, which is involution.

Roll them up, young man, and roll them up into nowhere. Know that you can do better with your potential.

That's because you don't have the determination and perseverance to persevere. Didn't do it to the extreme. Otherwise, you can roll it over. If you relax and see through life, you can lie flat!

You should explore your strengths and interests, and at the same time, you should try your best to make up for your shortcomings, so that you will have a very fulfilling university life.

Of course, we must also learn to relax and combine work and rest.

Then roll when you change the volume, and play when you should play.

Combine work and rest, play when it's time to play, and learn when it's time to learn.

Circles are very important, if you want to be motivated, make friends with people who are trying to improve, they will influence your thinking.

If you have your own goals, work hard, and university is a place to learn. If you don't learn at this time, you will wait for when.

Choose one of the two, or accept yourself as inactive.

Involution is competition, but it is becoming more and more intense. When an industry is seriously involuted, it is advisable to change to an emerging industry. Lying flat is cheating, irresponsible to oneself and one's family, that is, extreme selfishness.

The competition in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou is fierce, and I feel tired, in fact, China not only has Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, but also opportunities. No one can lie flat when they are alive, and now it seems that there are more successful people who lie flat, after all, they have accumulated. Lying flat at a young age is just joking about his life.

Don't listen to fools, stand up, and take responsibility for your parents, your lover, and your children. After all, people live for others, and gain self while working for others.

Those who live only for themselves, extremely selfish, are not as good as animals, and do not believe in the animal world.

First of all, you have to have the qualifications to talk about involution, and then talk about involution, but now people who talk about involution are often lying flat and mocking people's involution. 985 students, filter out the words involution and lying flat in your mind, and please replace them with the two groups of words of hard work, excellence and lack of progress, and eating and waiting for death. I can enter 985 school.

You have already surpassed 95% of the people in the world, and the country has invested a lot of resources in you, looking forward to you being able to show your strengths, and not to be full of anger by those who are full of anger.

The words are delayed.

Being able to enter the 985 school in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou is the result of winning the paper, not the result of lying flat, you must know that in the mainland, no matter what province it is, the only people who can be admitted to the 985 school are selected after the college entrance examination. If you go to the workplace, you can see how many people are just ordinary colleges, or even just two or three colleges or junior colleges.

You go to find out how many individual employers only go to 985 colleges and universities.

To do corporate presentations, only 985 students' resumes are accepted. Because you win others in the college entrance examination, your chances of winning others in the workplace have greatly increased.

985 colleges and universities in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou.

Are you embarrassed to say that you can't win, and you can't lie flat, isn't it hypocrisy? In addition to the workplace, even if you want to go to graduate school after graduation, there are more 985 opportunities in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou than others. If you work hard, you can get the chance to get a graduate student.

And the two and three books, there is no option to send them at all, except to bury your head in the preparation for the graduate school entrance examination, there is no other choice. Finally, when it comes to where to go, isn't it fragrant that you have a better platform, better classmates, and better teachers in 985 colleges and universities, and work hard yourself?

In a word: the mentality is flat, but people can't be flat. Since you have entered the 985 college, you are already one of the elites in this society.

The current involution is an elite game after most people have been eliminated, and it is a stage that many people can not hope for, so let go of anxiety, do your best and wait for the opportunity to come.

It should be struggled. Work hard so that you can live a better life.

Calm your mentality, keep working hard, the starting point is much higher than others, I think there will still be a lot of opportunities.

These students should keep a normal mind and do what they can so that they don't get too anxious.

I think I can consider returning to my hometown after graduation and contributing to my hometown, which may be better than in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou.

Many students in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou 985 choose to go back to their hometowns for development, so that talents can develop well in any city, and there is no need to worry about it.

When it comes to involution, it is often accompanied by negative emotions such as pain, powerlessness, and anxiety, and many people will eventually show a helplessness in the face of the major events of the times. But involution is not necessarily a disadvantage, it also has its positive effects. So as college students, how should we face involution?

1. Continuous learning.

The formation of involution lies in the extreme competitive means adopted in the face of scarce resources, and the extreme competitive means come from the lack of our ability, so the top priority is to improve our professional ability. We must recognize ourselves, understand our own character, temperament and ability, give ourselves appropriate cognition and positioning, and figure out what we are suitable for doing and what we are not suitable for. In the usual professional study, you should take every course seriously, listen to every class, complete every homework, and take some certificates with relatively high gold content, which is also a stepping stone to the workplace.

2. Create resources.

Involution is a zero-sum game of intra-organizational competition. We should dabble in more philosophies, history, political science and other disciplines, further expand our knowledge horizons and disciplinary thinking, and provide unlimited possibilities for our future cross-industry development.

3. Treat it with a normal heart and maintain a positive attitude.

The four years of college are fleeting, so for college students, they must cherish the current college life, maintain a healthy attitude, and do not blindly complain about study and life, but study and do things in a down-to-earth manner. In addition, in addition to looking down at the book, but also looking up at the road, career planning is to plan the vision of life, paint the blueprint of life, and give full play to your talents, in order to write and write a good script of life.

In the future life path, what kind of career goal to establish determines the direction of our future efforts, so we must establish a clear career positioning, establish career goals, and make adequate preparations.

It is true that there are many people who roll for the sake of the roll, but the involution in the university has not only a bad effect, but also a good side. As long as you take advantage of the opportunity and seize it, you will definitely achieve your goals well.

The involution in the university is mainly divided into two categories, the first is that there is no ideal goal of oneself, but it is just that everyone is rolling, so there is no way to follow the roll, this is a blind roll, it is a passive roll, and the second type is that you have the motivation to roll, which is a spontaneous roll. And we have to do the second way, we have to learn what we want to learn, not because we compare ourselves with others.

In the face of this kind of involution behavior, we should not feel anxious, but to change the fixed mode of thinking, get out of the blind homogenization and integrated competition, combine our own characteristics and reality to take the road of differentiation and individualization, and understand what kind of person I want to be, so as to shape myself into a different me.

<> "I'd rather exhaust myself than my classmates."

I'm a cabbage, and the oil rolls other people's hearts, but I'm a cabbage. ”

Everyone can roll, everything can be rolled, and only after experiencing the volume can be a master".

Presumably everyone has heard the word involution and experienced it personally, so how painful is involution?

It mainly affects from the following three aspects:

1) Mental internal friction.

Mental internal friction is also called psychological internal friction, which refers to the need for self-control to consume psychological resources, and when psychological resources are insufficient, individuals are in a state of internal friction.

Specifically, it will make people feel that they have not done anything, but they are already tired, and they have something to do on their own, but they will be irritated when they think about it. Therefore, in this era of involution, internal friction may be more terrible than involution.

2) Anxiety sensitivity.

Involution can also cause people to frequently fall into anxiety and meaninglessness, and will focus too much on others. This phenomenon is manifested in:

I feel that I have worked hard, but I always fail to reach my goal; And I can't stop treating myself harshly, and it's also painful when I blame myself, but I still blame myself for my conditioned reflex when something goes wrong.

3) Blind conformity.

Many students who do not have a clear goal are involved in the involution after seeing that most of the students around them are involved in the involution. In the spirit of not falling behind, I also rolled up with them. But the consequence of this can be that you graduate and find yourself seemingly busy every day without any significant results.

How painful the involution is, how cool the revoltion is!

When the senior sister first entered the university, she was very confused, and she also rolled up with the flow.

But the feeling I had during that time was that I was naturally busy in high school, and I was inexplicably busy in college. Every day, I am either dealing with class information, dealing with club tasks, or busy with insignificant competitions.

And all of this has made me a more authentic version of myself!

So how do college students reverse roll?

1) Be clear about your goals.

You can use the time saved after recurring to cultivate more hobbies. Cultivate your core competitiveness and strive to become a compound talent.

2) Reduce external attention.

We are all independent individuals, and we must have our own thinking, rather than others to verify and you to intervene; When others take the UGC exam, you also have to intervene.

Hello classmates! In today's society, ubiquitous competition is inseparable. Appropriate competition is the driving force for personal and social progress, but excessive competition is not a good phenomenon.

College students are a very serious group of involution, one person learns in order to progress, and a bunch of people involution study not for progress, but to surpass this person. In this way, we will slowly lose ourselves, and after a long time, we will feel very tired and lose the meaning of our efforts. From my experience, I think that college students need to find a way to escape from the involution but have the meaning of effort, get out of the wave of involution, and at the same time receive the fruits of their own efforts, I think the following points need to be considered:

First of all, focus on what you do, only focus on the work you are engaged in in front of you, and have a craftsman spirit, which is a powerful tool to overcome involution. By focusing our attention on what interests us, the anxiety of the outside world will not affect us. At the same time, enough focus will make you unique in a certain aspect, and you will have unique value in the eyes of others, so that you will become an excellent talent in the eyes of others.

Each of us will be exposed to many things, but not everything needs our energy to study, we need to let go of some useless needs, so as to reduce our anxiety. This is not an escape, but an effective endeavor.

Secondly, everyone is involuting, just to get benefits for themselves, and the efforts and gains in the end are often not proportional. The cake is small and not enough for so many people, so we can make the cake bigger. Involuted college students don't have time to think about their own lives, they spend most of their time competing, and we can find our own way to discover new cakes.

We can look at the direction of life from a higher perspective, choosing one possibility and choosing multiple possibilities, and I think the latter is more conducive to our development.

All in all, opposing involution requires a rational mind and a calm mind.