Every time he quarrels with his boyfriend, the other party is absent minded, what is he thinking?

When we were younger, we were inseparable from our friends and talked about everything. But over time, we grew up, went to different schools, and had our own development. Gradually, our connection became less and our feelings seemed to fade.

So what is the reason for our feelings to fade away? A long time ago, friends were in the same city and school as us. It was easy and convenient for us to meet.

We could go out and play at will during the holidays, go shopping together and swim in the mountains. But slowly we grew up and went to different universities, each in a different city, and the distance separated us from each other. We can't hang out as often as we used to, and the only time we can see each other is during the winter and summer vacations every year.

There is less time to meet, and gradually, the relationship will be a little lighter. When we were young, we were carefree and didn't have to think too much. It's enough to have fun every day.

But growing up comes with a lot of troubles.

The older we get, the more things we face and take on. We are crushed by work, life, marriage, and so on. All sorts of pressures followed.

We are physically and mentally exhausted. We run around every day and come back and just want to be online and sleep. We don't really have the energy to spend time outside.

Since then, the contact with friends has gradually decreased, and the relationship has faded. The bigger the three concepts, the more mature and stereotyped our three views will be. When we are young, we don't have any views on right and wrong, but when we grow up, we have a strong view of right and wrong, and we gradually mature.

When we talk to our friends, we find that we have different topics and different perspectives. Naturally, we unconsciously distance ourselves from each other.

Four new friends will meet each other in a new city. Friends keep coming one after another, and they unconsciously forget old friends when they are usually accompanied by others. As they come and go, their feelings for old friends can easily fade.

Lives overlap. Everyone has a different life. When you meet friends, you find that there is no common topic, and the scene is even a little awkward, and everyone's psychological distance will be alienated, and the feelings will be diluted.

Finally, I still hope that everyone can sincerely contact good friends, cherish them, and don't wait until the relationship fades to lose friends.

Your boyfriend just doesn't want to face the problem of fighting. He felt that quarrels were not good for the relationship between the two parties. That's why I chose to escape.

The main thing is to avoid some problems. He doesn't want to face these problems, and he doesn't know how to solve them. It's mainly due to his personality. Don't want to take on that responsibility.

He may not want to quarrel with you anymore, and it is very happy to have someone who can tolerate you in the relationship. When you meet someone who can tolerate your temper, then you should feel very content.

Every time I quarrel with my boyfriend, he shows that he is absent-minded, which means that he is very disgusted with the problem in the quarrel, or that he does not care about this problem, so he feels that he is very unconcerned about you, and does not care about your thoughts and your feelings.

In fact, this is very normal, and many boys will be like this, because boys think in a straight line, and in their opinion, quarrels may not be a matter at all, and there is no need for you to be angry there, so he will be absent-minded.

He's absent-minded, which means he probably doesn't want to quarrel with you. It is possible to wonder if this will affect the relationship between you, or whether you love him or not, so he will be absent-minded.

Because your boyfriend doesn't want to quarrel with you, so he sits there alone and stays absent-mindedly, he may think that it is useless to talk to you when you are angry, and wait until you are angry before talking to you.

Maybe your boyfriend doesn't love you that much.

So every time you quarrel, your boyfriend acts more indifferent and absent-minded.

At this time, you must self-reflect, or separate from your boyfriend for a period of time, and the two of you should calm down and self-reflect.

When the two of you quarrel, the other person is absent-minded, proving that he just doesn't fly. He doesn't want to quarrel with you, so he may be absent-minded. Because after all, if two people quarrel together, if they continue to quarrel at night, then the contradiction between you will become bigger and bigger.

At that time, there is a possibility that it will lead to a breakup. So at this time, the other party is calm and calm, so that it can be reduced.

If you always quarrel with your boyfriend, the man will lose the patience to coax the woman and choose to be absent-minded. Because they know that even if you don't coax, they will slowly reconcile after a long time, so there is no need to worry about it all day long.

He doesn't want to fight with you for a win, but just wants to end this senseless quarrel as soon as possible. So when you quarrel, when others are here, your heart doesn't know where to fly for a long time, and you don't take the quarrel between you seriously at all. Friction between the two is inevitable, and if it is not a matter of principle, it is better not to quarrel, and if it is discussed over a large and small matter, a lot of quarrels may be avoided.

If every time you have an argument with your boyfriend, the other person is absent-minded. It just means that I don't want to quarrel with the two of you, and I hope you will end this quarrel quickly If your boyfriend is like you and quarrels with you, the two of you will be very emotionally sad, in this case, he will ignore you and be absent-minded, and you will feel very bored after arguing for a while, and then you will not continue to quarrel.

I think it's better for him to be absent-minded when he quarrels, it's better than him arguing with you seriously, which means that the other party doesn't want to quarrel with you, so it's better to calm down and have a good discussion.

If every time you quarrel with your boyfriend, the other party is absent-minded, then he may have two thoughts, the first is that he doesn't want to continue to make a big conflict with you, and the second is that he doesn't care, anyway, you can do whatever you like.

When the two were quarrelling, the man showed absent-mindedness, indicating that he was essentially unwilling to solve difficulties well, did not want to listen to your thoughts, and always took into account his own experience, which I think is the main manifestation of selfishness.

Not necessarily every boy will comfort his girlfriend when he sees her crying. Maybe he can't find a way to comfort you, and sweet words are not his forte. But at the same time, you also have to examine yourself, whether you are too willful, and you need to know more about him.

There are many ways to care, and you need to understand it yourself.

Your boyfriend may just not want to quarrel with you, he doesn't want the relationship to fade in endless quarrels, he just wants to use this way to make you retreat and stop arguing, he doesn't quarrel with you, and you won't continue alone!

It may be that your boyfriend has quarreled with you many times and knows that it is useless to say anything to you now, so he is absent-minded, or it may be that your boyfriend is very tired of you and doesn't want to pay attention to you, or it may be that your boyfriend doesn't take it to heart and doesn't take this matter seriously at all.

It shows that he actually doesn't want to quarrel with you, and he doesn't spend too much time thinking about quarreling with you, maybe you want to quarrel, so he won't know what to do, and he will be a little absent-minded, in fact, quarreling is really bad, you must be calm.

Every time you quarrel with your boyfriend, the other party is absent-minded to explain that your boyfriend doesn't like to quarrel and will deliberately avoid quarrels, so your boyfriend should be a sign of love for you.

Every time you quarrel with your boyfriend, your boyfriend is absent-minded, maybe he doesn't want to worry about these things with you, he is thinking about work, he just wants to be tolerant of you, he wants to be nice to you.

The boyfriend wondered whose fault it was that had the quarrel. I will also want to quarrel with you about the countermeasures or which words are suitable to say and which ones are not suitable to say, so I will be absent-minded.

It means that he doesn't want to quarrel with you, or just thinks you're being unreasonable, so he doesn't want to bother with you.

But I think this kind of hurts people, and I don't even want to quarrel with you.

Every time I quarrel with my boyfriend, he behaves absent-mindedly, maybe he quarrels with you, he feels too tired, it is better to ignore you, so that you can't quarrel yourself, maybe it is some kindness from him.

Maybe your boyfriend just doesn't want to avoid the argument getting worse and wants you to calm down, that's the guy's thinking. The boy's silence during a quarrel is because he doesn't want to hurt you, and he is trying his best to maintain his dignity, you can try to coax him in the next quarrel, it will be better to communicate.

Maybe he thinks that you are making trouble unreasonably and doesn't want to argue with you, which will get more and more out of control, so he shows absent-mindedness. In fact, the most important thing for a quarrel is for two people to calm down and talk about it.

I said it yourself, every time you quarrel, so you have quarreled more than once, he may feel that this kind of life is not his, and the whole person who wants it feels very tired, so he doesn't want to go on anymore. Absent-minded, to put it bluntly, I don't care.

Every time I quarrel with my boyfriend, the other party is absent-minded, this guy is already very tired of you, no matter what you say, how to do it? He didn't have much interest anymore.

The two of you are already on the verge of breaking up, and this guy is thinking, when will you break up?

Every time I quarrel, I am absent-minded, and I don't know what the other party is thinking, but I think he may just be unwilling to quarrel with you, or has been avoiding problems, I hope you can communicate more.

It's normal for couples to quarrel with each other, but if you just quarrel and don't communicate, then the quarrel becomes meaningless, and you always quarrel with your boyfriend, how do you know what he's thinking? I think that on the one hand, you can directly communicate with your boyfriend and let your boyfriend say what he thinks, and on the other hand, you can also judge your boyfriend's behavior and psychology through observation, and then I will explain it to you in detail. <>

1.Communicate directly with your boyfriend.

I often quarrel with my boyfriend, which is a normal thing, but we will communicate after the quarrel, so as to find the problem, so that next time I will not quarrel for this kind of problem, for example, once my boyfriend did not pick me up**, so I got angry, and my boyfriend quarreled, my boyfriend couldn't think of being more angry, the two of us had a direct cold war, and I communicated with him directly afterwards, it turned out that he was under a lot of work pressure, so he collapsed, It was through this kind of communication that I learned that my boyfriend ignored me because the boss was chatting with him at the time, and he couldn't answer **, so communication is a good way to solve the problem. <>

2.Judge by observation.

If you don't want to communicate directly with your boyfriend, you can also choose to observe to judge, for example, you quarrel with your boyfriend, and your boyfriend behaves very inexplicably, then something must have happened, otherwise your boyfriend wouldn't do it. You can also find out what your boyfriend thinks through observation, but it's not accurate. <>

All in all, it is a very normal thing for couples to quarrel with each other, they should be calm, and they should actively find problems after the quarrel, so that they will not quarrel over the same problem next time, and secondly, they can communicate directly with their boyfriends, or judge what the boys think in their hearts by way of observation.

In fact, if you always quarrel, it is because there is a contradiction, two people's ideas are inconsistent or they can't understand each other's ideas, in fact, to understand his thoughts, you need to talk to him clearly, ask him what he thinks, ask his thoughts, and then think about this problem from his point of view.

In fact, you can understand what he thinks in his heart in a quarrel, because a quarrel is a kind of emotional venting, and at this time he will definitely say some excessive words, some of which include the thoughts in his heart. Because he may not be able to say many things in ordinary times, and he does not dare to say anything to you, and he can say anything when he is hot-headed during a quarrel. So what's in his mind?

Think about what he said to you in the middle of your fight?

Don't quarrel when you have a problem, it's a cold war or something. The problem needs to be made clear. Then the two of them go together to negotiate and solve the problem. In this way, the relationship can be long-lasting.

You can't quarrel with your boyfriend if you want to know what's going on in your boyfriend's mind. Because he won't tell you his thoughts when you quarrel, so you have to communicate with him calmly, and he will tell you everything in his heart.

When you want to argue, you go into a room by yourself, do what you like, and wait until it's quiet before you go to your boyfriend.

Calmly ask him if he is unhappy at work and has problems that he can't solve, and you are willing to solve them with him, so that you can avoid quarrels and know what he is thinking.