The third grade is a turning point

How to help your child get through the turning point of third grade.

The first, third and sixth grades of primary school have always been the three "turning points" in the learning and life of primary schools, especially the third grade, which is a polarizing stage, and many children with excellent grades have their grades declining as soon as they enter the third grade. Why.

Children who often score 100 points in the first and second grades, and the lowest score is more than 90 points, but after entering the third grade, they only score more than 90 points or more than 80 points? There are several reasons for this.

1. Language changes.

Grades 1 and 2 are mainly focused on words and phrases, and in the third grade, reading comprehension and composition are added. Different from the word and word question type, reading comprehension and composition belong to the open-ended question type, the difficulty of answering the question is significantly increased, the student's personality begins to be reflected, only rely on rote memorization, mechanical training can not get a high score, the student's comprehension ability, the amount of extracurricular reading, and the appropriate learning method are the key to future Chinese learning.

2. Changes in mathematics.

The third grade mathematics knowledge is more fragmented, more difficult, and the way of thinking is very different from that of the first and second grades.

3. Changes in external factors.

1. Increase in the amount of homework: no homework in the first and second grades, and 30 minutes of homework in the third and fourth grades.

2. Changes in evaluation: 90 points or more in the first and second grades are excellent, and 85 points in the third grade are excellent.

3. Changes in the curriculum: The English course has been added, which is required as the same as mathematics and Chinese.

4. Changes in homework content: Chinese homework has increased composition, diaries and extracurricular accumulation.

5. Writing changes: It is required to write with a fountain pen, and the homework book has changed from the original small book to a large book.

In short, the third grade is a turning point in primary school learning, because there is more learning content, it is more difficult, and children need to spend more effort and effort to maintain high grades, and if they are sloppy, their grades can easily drop significantly. However, as long as parents and I work closely together to grasp this critical year, cultivate children to develop a down-to-earth and diligent learning attitude, generally the grades will not decline, and if the results are maintained in this year, the learning in the following years of primary school will become smoother. On the contrary, if the grades in the third grade slip, the foundation will definitely not be solid, and it will be more and more difficult to study in the future.

Therefore, I hope that our parents will help them to study smoothly this year and insist on the following:

1. After school, let the child complete the homework in the first time, and supervise the child to ensure the quantity and quality of the homework. [It is better if you have the ability to check your child's homework].

The third grade of the child is a turning point, parents should communicate with the teacher diligently, understand the child's learning in school, as well as various aspects, go home, parents should also care about the child, tutor the child's learning, communicate with the child, understand the child's psychological situation, so that the child has a good learning environment, I hope that every child at this age is healthy, grown, safe and happy every day.

The third grade of primary school is a watershed year for achievement.

There is a very special and common phenomenon, called the "third-grade phenomenon", the third grade is a hurdle, and it is also the watershed between the top students and the scumbags. Some children always take the double hundred test when they are in the first or second grade, ranking among the best, and they are proper school masters. After entering the third grade, my grades dropped rapidly, and no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't run ahead.

Some children are always naughty in the first and second grades, do not listen carefully in class, are always criticized by teachers, and their academic performance is mediocre.

In the third grade, there was an increase in the number of years of study. Many schools don't learn English in the first and second grades, and they don't start learning English until the third grade. If you don't have a listening foundation before, and suddenly learn English, your child will not be able to keep up.

Not only will the number of subjects increase, but the difficulty of learning will also increase. The depth of Chinese texts and the difficulty of words will increase, and the test will pay more attention to reading comprehension questions, requiring the writing of a more complete composition. Reading comprehension is divided into two parts, in-class and extra-curricular, and the in-class is relatively simple, and children are already familiar with the class.

But the difficulty of extracurricular activities suddenly increases by an octave, which will stump a large number of students.

It is necessary to explain the meaning of words, understand the connotation of sentences, form sentences with specific phrases, and analyze characters.

The third grade turning point is the right way to educate the child.

1. The changing role of parents.

Parents in the third grade need to learn to change, not to be like that again.

In the first and second grades, the child will feel very tired. It will also be very annoying, and parents at this time should be half-supported and half-released. For example, in the first and second grades, you may urge your child to do homework every day, and in the third grade, you may want your child to urge herself, and if the child can't do this, let the child bear the consequences.

Second, the change of parents' mentality.

Parents of the third grade can no longer be as anxious as the parents of the first and second grades, shouting at their children's mistakes, or being harsh and unreasonable, they may wish to be patient, be their children's friends, listen to their children's voices, in addition to caring about their children's learning, care more about their children's physical and mental health, take their children to sports, to read, to see the world, and broaden their children's cognitive world and spiritual world.

3. Cultivate good habits in children.

The focus of third-grade education is to cultivate children's habits, the habit of completing homework on time, the habit of writing homework conscientiously, the habit of checking homework, the habit of reading and endorsing books carefully, the habit of going to bed early and getting up early, the habit of exercising on time, and the habit of packing up school supplies by themselves. If you cultivate a good habit, you will benefit for life.

The third grade is a very special stage, the third grade is also a watershed, there is a phenomenon called the third grade phenomenon, the child is naughty, the sense of autonomy is enhanced, the celebration is even rebellious, many parents call the third grade children too difficult to bring. In this regard, we give you the educational secrets of third-grade children based on the experience of those who have come before. Let children make a smooth transition and even stand out during the critical period of third grade.

After entering the third grade, you will find that the quality of children's fitness exercises has become more regularCoupled with the expansion of learning pressure and the increase of the difficulty factor, the time for children's games and entertainment has decreased, and in the long-term study, school students will cause a sense of fatigue. At this time, the child will try his best to vent his feelings, the student is very easy to become more and more impetuous, learning and training is not practical, the test results come and go, fluctuate greatly, it is not easy to calm down to learn and train, and the work should not be done incorrectly, which shows that the child's self-control ability is lacking, and the lack of consciousness of the student has also aroused everyone's attention.

The third grade is a very important and critical period for junior high school, which has great harm to the child's life, so where is the "turn"? "Turn" has a significant change in physiological and psychological characteristics, and it is the best time to develop self-learning ability, mentality work ability, belief work ability and learning attitude. "Turn" as the child grows from a child to a teenager, slowly becoming assertive.

"The trend of emotional development in children is connected from variability to reliability. From emotional exposure, easy to understand, unconsciously to internal control, in-depth, active development trend. "Turn" is changing from passive skills to active training actors.

Some of us have attached great importance to this change, some have just felt it, and some have not yet cared about it, please parents of all of you do a good idea, in order to grasp the special period in which the children are located, you can integrate the characteristics of your own children, vigorously support and teach, talk to your children more, talk about your heart, and grasp the real thoughts of your children.

Parents should pay special attention to their children's learning and understand their children's learning status, congratulate their children on every development they have achieved, and also give appropriate criticism when they are mainly underperforming. Let the child establish the importance of learning, and link the training with their own idealization and social security, this idealization is not necessarily the child's future work, but the child has an overall goal of hard work, which will cause long-term and positive learning motivation.

Children are young, they don't understand many things, they don't understand the importance of learning, and they don't want to work learning. Therefore,It is important for people to increase the pressure on their children to work moderately, and not to allow them to do things completely and arbitrarily。We should use a variety of methods to make children understand the importance of learning, and try to arouse children's consciousness of understanding from the opposite side.

Because in the third grade, the knowledge that children learn in kindergarten has been basically exhausted, and they will be exposed to some more difficult and new knowledge, children's learning tasks will be aggravated, and there will be more subjects to learn. Parents should help their children to write homework, when the child encounters no problems, parents should correct in time, when the child does not score well in the exam, parents should timely appease the child's emotions, do not blindly beat and scold the child.

The reason why the third grade of primary school is a turning point is because for the third grade, his knowledge points will be gradually deepened, and it is also the formation stage of students' good study habits; If you want to effectively help children cope better, you should pay attention to children's emotional changes, appropriately give children effective talks, ask children about new ideas, and adopt relatively effective methods or incentive policies to effectively help children establish a correct outlook on life.

Because in the third grade, the child will mature when he understands more things. Parents should change their attitude towards their children, should care more about their children, should also talk to their children more, should make a detailed study plan for their children, do not put too much pressure on their children, and help their children solve problems when they encounter difficulties.

To improve children's interest in learning, we must first make children taste success and let them find a sense of achievement. Some children feel that they have not improved much after learning for a long time, so they give up. It is precisely because of this lack of accomplishment that children find learning boring and meaningless.

One of the reasons why many children like online games is that in games, children will experience a sense of accomplishment that they once had. If the child is discouraged and disappointed, he will never improve. Teacher Liu of Pingmeng, who is good at cultivating children's independent learning ability, said that parents should encourage more, and parents should not be stingy with praise for their children's good performance and good grades, and do not criticize their children's mistakes too much, because too much criticism will make him depressed and make more mistakes.

The praise-based approach also plays a role in improving children's interest in learning. In order for children to be interested in learning, parents must be role models for their children, first of all, let them know that they love to read, are very curious, and are constantly learning.

It is recommended that you talk to your child so that he can discover the joy of learning and fall in love with learning. I hope my experience has been helpful to you.

In fact, it is a primary school, there is no need to pay too much attention, just lay a good foundation.

Yes, the general study habits and thinking habits of children have been formed before the third grade, and it is difficult to adjust and change bad habits.

1. Develop the habit of loving labor.

The reason why some children hate to do housework is because they have not been trained since childhood, and of course they do their own things, and they have to help the family do things, and tell them to do it seriously, not casually.

Develop a serious attitude that no matter how big or small, you must do it well, and you will benefit immensely for a lifetime. It will develop a child's sense of responsibility, coordination, patience, concentration, self-confidence, and more.

Helping with household chores helps develop a child's ability to learn.

Children who love to work from an early age and are able to do things have good relations with all kinds of people when they become adults, and they have twice as much income, five times more income, and 16 times less unemployment than children who do not like to work.

2. Develop the habit of active learning.

The habit of active learning is the best gift parents can give their children, and it is the basic project to complete the heavy academic work of junior high school and high school in the future.

It is necessary for children to develop a good habit of active learning and conscious learning as soon as possible, just like babies can stand up and walk on their own, be able to work their own, and think and solve what they don't understand;

With "self-learning ability", you have the driving force for lifelong progress, which is also the most important "self-cultivation ability" in education, so that children will work hard spontaneously and autonomously, and they will not feel that learning is very hard.

As a parent, you should pay attention to praising your child, encouraging your child, and letting him slowly develop the habit of taking the initiative to learn alone, which is the best gift from parents to your child.

3. Develop the habit of doing things seriously.

Some children are not focused enough, and parents can use this method to cultivate the habit of listening with their eyes

In a quiet place, put your hand on your child's shoulder, look each other in the eye and talk, no matter what the topic, once a day.

As long as the eyes are connected, the child has to concentrate on listening, as long as it continues every day, it can cultivate a child who is very good at listening to "words".

In addition, parents should note that at the beginning of the study time, they must concentrate on studying, neither allowed to leave their seats, nor do any chores, and adults should not disturb their children if they have something to do, you must know that the study time is sacrosanct.

4. Develop the habit of writing quickly.

If a student does not read fluently and write quickly, he is like a half-blind person. In the third grade, students are trained to write long sentences quickly and fluently.

Semi-automation of writing is an extremely important condition for the full mastery of knowledge. At this time, it is only possible for students to think about the meaning between the lines if they do not have to spend energy thinking about how to write that word.