If you want to be online, should you be cautious?

There is a certain gap between online dating and reality, it's not that we shouldn't invest in real feelings, as long as it's love, it's a kind of emotional investment, but we have to think twice, whether this emotional investment will pay off, if there is no return investment, it is a painful effort. Maybe you also feel that the distance between you seems to be getting farther and farther, that's not your fault or his fault, don't say that you are the people after marriage, there is a ten-year itch, it can't be anyone's fault, but its occurrence is inevitable, because people can't just rely on the Internet to live, people are still more realistic, things that can't be touched still can't meet people's needs, in fact, this is not absolute, some lovers are divided into two places, but their love is sweeter than honey, not for anything else, just for that true love, So, friend, do you think the love between you and him can withstand such a test? If you think you can't do it, then you should give up, this is not your true love, so whether it is online dating or something else, it is not suitable for you, friends are still looking for your true love by your side, if true love appears, you will understand what love is, love is willing to give everything for each other including your life.

You can give up him for him, and wronged yourself for him. This is true love, and only this kind of love will have a good return, because there will be a harvest if you give. Friends wish you to find your true love soon!

Look at your personal point of view, as long as you feel realistic and in which direction to work towards make it a reality, that's fine. If the person you like also likes you and is willing to work with you to make it a real problem, then why not? If you like someone, you should pay and sincerely work hard to do whatever you can for the person you like, as long as you work hard to do it, even if there is no result in the future, at least it is a good memory.

Maybe it may be much harder to turn online dating into real love than direct love in reality, and it may be more to pay, but as long as you do it sincerely, no matter what the result is, at least you won't regret it.

In fact, for online dating, you shouldn't be beaten to death with a stick, and you shouldn't believe it blankly. Online dating, sitting opposite you is also a person, people are the same, there will be a return if you pay, you are sincere to others, and people will be sincere to you, but online dating is a certain mystery, so you should be cautious.

I understand that I have traveled thousands of miles for him, and I flew from Shanghai to Beijing the day before yesterday to his city, and I don't feel very scared, on the contrary, I feel so happy. I walked past every bar in Houhai, fantasizing about whether he had ever been here to drink and chat; I walked across the streets and footbridges of Sanlitun, listening to the old man singing, wondering if he had ever come to listen to it; I sat in a taxi in Beijing, listened to the enthusiastic driver talk to me, and thought that he had been living in such an environment all along. If you love someone, come to his city, and you will find that you will be more understanding and tolerant of him.

In fact, online dating can't give real feelings, are you tired now, right, for example, (he hasn't ** for a long time, what will you do, no, you won't live, my netizens have told me before that it's not realistic to leave anyone who can't live online) I don't think you should be insisting but going back to before you didn't know him.

I suggest you find something else to do, such as playing a game, or spending too little time online, that may reduce your love for him, I don't know if I'm right, in fact, I have had the same experience as you, and now! I'm lonely every day.

Don't be too extreme about online dating. In fact, in real life, there is no so-called perfect love, only the process of unremitting pursuit with their respective sense of responsibility for the sake of perfect love. I believe that true love is based on mutual trust, mutual responsibility and mutual compromise, which can entertain each other in happy times and support each other in painful days.

It's up to you! Personally, I think it should be paid! Because in the vast network, you meet and fall in love, that is a fateful word!

On the afternoon of the third day of the Lunar New Year, I took the train to her hometown, she didn't want to see me, she soaked for two days, and after seeing her for the first time, she took her two girlfriends and dispersed after a few words. The second time we met, she took a girlfriend, and then she hugged her when she was leaving, and the third time we met, it was just past Valentine's Day, she was alone, I took her hand, slipped away for a while, I hugged her when she left, kissed her forehead, and the fourth time we met, she came to the station to send me home. We got together for three thousand miles, and I liked her very much, and she said she was a little afraid of me...

I know to be cautious, but I've changed myself, I've become so selfish, and I want him to be there for me all the time. What am I going to do? I felt like I was overdoing it. Should I stick to it?

Online dating must be cautious, and it is best to understand it.

Online dating, probably only believe once.

Be sure to confirm your gender first, and remember to !!

The 6 yuan Malatang is a joke on the Internet many years ago, and it has a lot of connotations in it now, used to describe cheap and low-cost dating; or secretly invite the hotel to go on a date; I have used this to prove that I am in good health many times, and the most important thing is to keep quiet in front of people who don't know the truth.

At that time, the joke in the post bar was like this, the two met on the Internet, and then fell in love, the girl flew all the way from Qingdao to Chengdu to meet her boyfriend on the Internet, and her boyfriend didn't bring money.

Then the two went straight to the hotel, what was it until dawn, and then after the girl went back, she felt that she had lost a lot, and she was a thousand miles away from B, so she complained in the post bar. Then netizens frantically followed the post and **, and since then, the 6 yuan Malatang has become a stalk.

Let's not talk about the authenticity of this matter for the time being, but the enthusiasm of netizens is really unexpected, I think everyone is holding an attitude of entertainment, everyone complains together, and has fun together.

Regardless of whether this matter is true or not, platonic spiritual love on the Internet is originally quite pure and beautiful, and it is also a way for many lonely people to comfort their emotions. But this kind of high-purity love is hard to come by. When people encounter a true spiritual relationship, they will become more dependent on love.

But many people act as traitors under the guise of spiritual love, which tarnishes Bi Shu's first impression of online dating in the minds of the public. So to speakOnline dating needs to be cautious, don't be cheated of money and sex.

We don't know each other's real situation through the Internet. So if you want to continue this relationship, you must meet, and only by entering each other's real-life circle can you really know each other. You need to be cautious in online dating, otherwise tragedies can easily happen.

Don't easily disclose the identity information of your handcode until you know the real situation.

You can't covet each other's sweet words, and you can't indulge in each other's beautiful words on the Internet. If you want to meet, be sure to choose a crowded place, such as a shopping mall, a park and other crowded occasions. Bring a companion with you if necessary, and don't go to the meeting alone.

The intimacy between the two must not be started the first time, and it is easy to be hurt.

Finally, if someone says to you, "I want to treat you to 6 yuan Malatang!" "You must go back!

In this era, it has to be said that there are indeed some men and women who have found their other half through the Internet, but there are two sides to everything. While many people are really happy, others are just cheated out of their feelings and money. Sometimes, behind the Internet, you really don't know if the other person is a man or a woman, you don't know if what the other person is telling you is true or not, and you don't know if he is sincere with you.

Therefore, you can trust online dating, but you must be careful when entering online dating. What do you think you need to pay attention to when dating online?

1. First of all, you need to get to know each other and make sure that the other party really chooses to fall in love with you through the Internet. The premise of two lovers falling in love is to understand each other and attract each other. Only by understanding the real situation of the other party, such as age, body type, appearance and other real information, the Internet is a good social medium, but some people who are willing to use the Internet to cheat.

Second, when they come to the real peak, they don't feel like they're left behind.

2. Meet first, and then talk about development.

Very interesting. Too many people who fall in love online have established a relationship in reality before they have even met. They became especially affectionate and even began to talk about marriage.

Maybe it's because I'm really lonely, or maybe it's the feeling of chatting with each other, and it seems to be really good. However, in either case, it's not a good thing to be so casual without seeing each other. Not only because the feeling of meeting may be different from the feeling of chatting online, but also because it is too easy to confirm the relationship, it is easy to become passive, obsessed with the wrong payment, and threatened by the other party's emotions.

A lot of people are like that. They get your feelings first, then let you prove your love, constantly ask you to lower your bottom line, do things that are very bad for you, and make you lose your mind in that relationship. Don't worry, online dating is a thing.

If the other party really has a heart, you are both sincere. From the internet to reality, you can definitely make it happen. At this time, it will be more reliable to look at the other party with your own eyes, check the information of the other party, and then talk about other things.

3. Take care of your own money and don't give it easily.

In real life, some people are really sincere, while some people are just cheating on their feelings, especially in relationships. There are really many people who don't want to work hard to make money, but hide behind the Internet, make up a false identity for themselves, and then go to those single men or women, take advantage of the other party's psychology of wanting to fall in love and get married, and then cheat each other out of money. These people cheat money, of course, not to ask you for money at the beginning, but to cultivate a relationship with you first, and then after you are emotional and begin to trust him, you will be asked to take out your own money for various reasons.

As for the reason why you take the initiative to pay money, it may be that you want to follow him to invest, it may be that he needs capital turnover, it may be that he has difficulties at home, or it may be that he wants to take you to make money. In short, no matter how good the other person is, please don't be greedy and don't be gullible. When you love someone, it's okay to trust that person and give for that person, but the premise must be that you have really met it, you already know that person very well, that person has practical actions to love you.

When dating online, you must pay attention to having a correct connection with the other party, and you can't do something out of the ordinary, you can't just go to the show, you must determine the conditions of the other party, and after having the corresponding conversation, you can't transfer money to the other party casually, and you can't have any economic exchanges.

You must be cautious when dating online, and then you should also understand the character of the other party, you should understand the actual situation of the other party, you must be vigilant, you also need to be vigilant, and don't believe everything.

We must pay attention to sincerity, and we should also pay attention to the trust between each other and believe in each other, so that we can make the relationship more long-term and appropriate, and we should also pay attention to retaining our own hearts.

When dating online, you must protect yourself, and then you should also be vigilant, don't trust each other casually, and then you should also examine the other party's character to avoid being deceived.