What are the reasons why you love someone deeply but can t be a husband and wife?

If the person you love the most finds true love, then you won't have a chance whether you love it or not. Just like Jin Yuelin and Lin Huiyin. When Lin Huiyin was studying in Europe, he met Xu Zhimo, who fell in love with him at first sight, and when he visited the sick Lin Huiyin, Xu Zhimo often kept Jin Yuelin by his side to prevent others from making irresponsible remarks.

In the long run, Jin Yuelin also formed a different emotion for Lin Huiyin. After that, Xu Zhimo, who had already been his wife's father, divorced Zhang Youyi in order to be able to Lin Huiyin. Zhang Youyi knew in her heart that Xu Zhimo didn't love her at all, so she agreed.

It's all unpredictable, but Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng have a good relationship. As for Jin Yuelin, he still loves Lin Huiyin, but this love is rational and has always maintained the boundary.

Liang Sicheng and Lin Hui are close friends with Jin Yuelin, discussing scientific research with each other, and respecting each other, so that Liang Sicheng's eldest son Liang Congjie has always called Jin Yuelin "Jin Dad", it is obvious how strong the love between the three is. Lin Hui passed away, Jin Yuelin's tears were like rain, and he couldn't write a widely circulated couplet: "A poetic and picturesque Qianxun ** waterfall, April day in the world through the ages."

Before he died, he confided in his heart: "I should tell her everything I have to say, I have no opportunity to speak to her, and I don't want to have such words." "Yes, the only way to love her is to tell her, when he becomes them, there will never be a chance to say it again, and it is even more difficult to say "love".

This love is better than sound. Perhaps, to truly love someone, sometimes you don't have to get it, waiting silently and watching her happy is also a kind of love.

The marriage vow says: "From now on, no matter adversity or setback, whether rich or poor, sickness or physical or mental health, be honest and cherish each other, and we will not be separated until we die." Sometimes, that's the case.

Sometimes, feelings are not as happy as we think, but they are not as unsightly as everyone says. Most ordinary love is touching in the end. It's just that there is a kind of love, and it is precisely because of the deep love between each other that they chose to see you off, leaving themselves crying silently.

Many of these stories are around us, the girlfriend is critically ill and can't **, so she chooses to break up and touch the marriage contract in order to avoid delaying her boyfriend; On the eve of the wedding, he suddenly died of illness and could never wear a wedding dress. The husband and wife were originally birds of the same forest, and when disaster came, they flew separately, after all, only a few. If you really love someone but it is difficult to be with her (him) for a lifetime, and since then you are left alone to deal with it in this life, no one can imagine how painful it is.

Those loves that are not blessed by their parents for various reasons often end up not coming to an end. Love is not accepted by parents, or even blessed by friends, but marriage is a matter of two families, and no one can do it.

It must be that the two of you have different values, or that the other person's parents disagree, and that the two of you are in a long-distance relationship.

If that's the case, I think you should give up, loving someone doesn't have to have the other person, as long as the other person is doing well.

At this time, you should choose to give up, because the relationship between two people is fruitless, so you should not waste time at this time.

Stop the loss in time and choose to separate, after all, two people can't get married, so there is no need to be together, so as not to waste time.

Then you should bless him, this is the way to truly express love, and I hope he can live happily.

You should let go generously, and sincerely wish the other party to have a good life and meet the person who holds hands for a lifetime. Although you can't be a husband and wife, you can still be friends.

For this situation, you should choose to let go in time, so that the other party can get a better destination and have better happiness.

The best thing to do is to forget about each other, which is the best choice for two people.

Cut off the contact with the other party Chi Lashen way, don't think about respecting the other party anymore, to improve yourself, to find something to do for yourself, to keep yourself busy, and let yourself slowly let go of him.

It is possible to be friends so that two people can also keep in touch without wasting the relationship, and two people can also understand each other.

I think it's best for two people to be friends, and when each other is in trouble, they can help each other.

I think it's time to let go, because in a situation like this, getting deeper and deeper will only make both of you miserable all the time.

Either chase this person back and be together, or let it go. There will be many passers-by in a person's life, and you can't be together, maybe it's really inappropriate, and it's good for you to let go as soon as possible.

If two people can't be together, even if you love each other deeply, you must separate, don't contact each other again, don't break the connection, and do your best to forget each other, so as not to fall deeper and deeper.

Since there is no way to be together, then we must keep a proper distance and bury this relationship deep in our hearts, only in this way can we let each other go and reduce the harm to each other.

One is the best way, don't pester each other anymore, learn to let go, this is the best way.

Keep in touch, occasionally care about the other person's current situation, you can talk heart-to-heart, and maintain the attitude of a friend.

Then we should silently let go of this relationship and let our hearts accept another relationship again.

I love him so much that I can't afford to be husband and wife, and I will consider parting. I can't see him, and I don't think I'm lonely, so I naturally forget.

Then you can try to be friends with the other person, because sometimes the friendship of friends can last the longest.

That is to choose to let go, because no matter how much you want to have it, it is impossible to stand together, and it is better to let go for both parties.

I may give up decisively, after all, this kind of love will make me deeply painful, and at the same time, it will make my heart very tangled.