Why are women ruthless when they take the initiative to break up, is it really because they don t lo

Why are women ruthless when they take the initiative to break up, is it really because they don't love it? Below, let's take a look at what the wrong methods that make women ruthless in the process of redemption are.

1. Take the initiative to break up.

When a woman takes the initiative to break up, I believe that the first feeling of most men is not pain, but dare. After all, he has paid so much for this woman, but he doesn't give him the opportunity to take the initiative to give points, and he feels that this woman has lived up to his sincerity.

At this time, men tend to lose control of their emotions and wonder if the other person is worthy of love. Because of this kind of thinking, they will find all kinds of evidence from clues, force their own ideas to rationalize, and determine that the other party is one"Selfishness"feel that they love the wrong person.

In order to avoid facing this relationship, you will take the initiative to delete and block the other party, cut off all contact with the other party, and even smear the other party everywhere, wanting the other party to know the consequences of leaving you, at this time the woman will naturally become rough because of this series of operations by men.

2.Defend yourself and pass the buck.

There is also a kind of man who, after a woman takes the initiative to break up, always likes to ask the other party why they want to break up because they don't know the reason for the breakup. However, when women say the reason for the breakup, these men are reluctant to admit it and force them to defend themselves.

Because he can't let go, this kind of man is afraid that admitting these problems will make his impression worse in the eyes of women, which will lead to no room for recovery in the relationship. So they choose not to admit anything, forcibly quibbling. However, the result of this is to make women more rude.

3.Redemption through moral kidnapping.

Many men like to use the wrong way of moral kidnapping to redeem after a woman takes the initiative to break up. But there is one thing that this kind of person ignores, and that is this way of recovery. In the eyes of a woman, it is not to prove that she loves her, but to give before proving it.

This is all purposeful, so that women no longer dare to believe it, let alone accept you for her"Kindness"。

4.Premature exposure to compounding requirements.

Because it is a woman who takes the initiative to break up, many men will be anxious to save each other, afraid that the other party will forget them, and they will find themselves after a long time, so their own redemption is very humble and begging the other party to forgive themselves.

In fact, it is not so easy for two people who really love each other to let go of a relationship. A woman chooses to leave you because she wants to live alone alone for a while, but you can't wait to pester her and beg her to come back to you.

Therefore, most of the time, a woman takes the initiative to be loveless after a breakup, not because she is no longer in love, love never disappears. She's just waiting for you to make a change and give her a happy future.

I don't think most girls will break up easily, if they take the initiative to break up, most of them are already disappointed, she feels that she can't see hope in this relationship, so she will be very ruthless.

The reason why women break up is because their hearts are completely broken; It's because they don't love anymore, because they can't see the future in this relationship, and their hearts are very frustrated.

No, there are many women who think that their boyfriends are very bad to them, so they say that they broke up, if these men care about them more, they will be with them for a lifetime.

Loved.

Even if the girl is very ruthless when she breaks up and doesn't love it at all, but when she just broke up, the girl is very painful and sad, and she will regret it at the same time. If the boy goes to her not long after breaking up, 80% of them may get back together, but after a period of time, the girl will find that being single is such a happy thing, at this time she has already let go, and at this time the boy goes to her again, so it is useless, because the best time period has been missed.

In fact, a woman's real desperation is just because she doesn't want to let herself be hurt anymore, so she will choose to break up peacefully, she will not leave a superfluous word for you, and she will not want to have any contact with you again.

Everyone has had such a vivid past, think about that time, it was actually really beautiful, but what is the reason for the end? It's nothing more than not loving and disappointed. Some women are very decisive and ruthless when they break up, many people think that they don't love each other anymore, and they have let go of each other in their hearts, but have you ever thought about it, do you know what women have experienced?

"They put in too much of it and can't afford it themselves."

Women in love, will give unconditionally, not only their own love, their own spirit and time will be invested in love, the moment they are really disappointed, they understand that what they do does does not seem to be of any use. A woman's love for a man is getting deeper and deeper, but a man's love for a woman is getting weaker and weaker, and after a long period of contact, a man will lose interest in a woman.

When the two break up, many women will behave very decisively, and men will think that the other party has long stopped loving them. You might as well think about it, is the other party really not in love? You might as well think about what you've done, in fact, many times, it's enough to disappoint the other party.

"Love deeper, hurt deeper".

Since they have decided to be with each other, women must be ready to be with each other all the time, and they will begin to trust each other unconditionally, no matter what the other party does, they will believe it without reason. That's it, men will feel that they will not feel anything to the other party, and slowly, women will be very sad, and the day when they can't bear it in their hearts, they will really be separated from you.

It's not that women don't believe in love anymore, it's not that they don't want to get along with you, it's just that they know that if they continue to get better, they will get hurt more and more.

"There is no guilt, so this relationship is not in vain".

Women are very yearning for happiness, even if two people have just been together for a long time, women will think about many things in the future, and they will do their best to do their best about each other. If you really have to break up one day, you will definitely be sad in your heart, and you won't be able to let go, but since it has reached such a point, what's the use? As long as you have no shame in your heart and no regrets, it's good to be excited.

Love is such a thing, I can't say what it will be like one day, so if you still love each other deeply, you must cherish this time, live up to each other, no matter what happens in the future, don't leave the two of you with a chance to regret.

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