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Because bread can at least fill the stomach and give you the strength to do other things, and choosing love is only temporary, and you can't be happy all the time.
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Because love can't be eaten, there is no material life in love alone, and you won't be happy together, and you will eventually be defeated by reality.
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After all, he needs to make up for the material things first, and then he can pursue the spiritual things, and he can choose love.
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Because the current society is not more realistic, love alone is not enough, love can not be eaten, so many people choose bread, so that they can live a better material life.
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Because with the changes in society, everyone has become very realistic now, love cannot be eaten, so many people will choose bread.
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Because bread is very important in this world, it is difficult for people to live without bread, and they are not qualified to choose to have love.
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Because people nowadays are very realistic, they know that love without bread is simply unsustainable, so they decisively chose bread and then tried love.
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In fact, I think there is nothing wrong with the reality of people nowadays, and some people will feel that in the world of feelings, they should choose love, and only with love will there be a future. But some people don't feel that wayBecause love really fades with the passage of time, if two people choose to be together because of love at the beginning, they don't think about anything else, and when the love disappears in the end, it really means nothing
And now the reality is in front of everyone,Many times love is really not worth mentioning in the face of reality, and not all love can withstand the ups and downs of real life, and bread can solve a lot of things a lot of times. If you can have bread and love at the same time, it must be the best result; But if I had to choose one of the two, I would probably prefer bread.
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Love becomes less important. Material life is the first priority for people nowadays, and love has become secondary.
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Because people nowadays regard material things as more and more important, because money is actually the guarantee of love.
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One is married to bread, the other is married to love, these two endings are very different, and many years later, the person who married bread lived a very delicate life. And the person who married love, the gray face has become a yellow-faced woman.
1. Most people insist on marrying love and live as a yellow-faced womanSecond, a few people married bread and lived exquisitelyThird, the ending has come to a big reversal
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The one who marries the bread must be very full, although it is said that the marriage is unhappy, but the bread can continue to be maintained, but the one who marries love, if the love is not happy, then everything is over.
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If you marry bread, you may not be happy in your married life later on. When encountering problems, it will be very extreme. Marrying love is just the opposite, life will be very sweet.
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The love of marrying bread is relatively stable, and the relationship between two people may last longer, and the marriage of marrying love should result in separation, after all, love without material cannot go far.
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Sometimes marrying bread will do better than marrying love. The life of marrying love is not satisfying, let alone love.
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Those who marry bread may gain true love, and those who marry love may lose love in front of bread.
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I will give up on love because of this.
Poverty is a storm for love, and not many partners can resist it, and in the past poverty had an even more unfortunate appearance, it meant rags, broken houses, and not enough food to feed oneself. But, in today's new era, it may simply mean that you don't have enough extra money to buy a house for love to live in.
Love waits for no one, and when it accumulates bread, love is gone, especially now that many women are unwilling to work hard with men, and men who have no money want to get love, it's too difficult! Even if the person you like doesn't care that you don't have money, you will feel very guilty and not responsible, afraid that you can't afford the other party's future, so you choose to break up.
Today's people are so realistic in front of reality, in fact, they can't be blamed! Because the current social situation is like this, the pressure of competition is particularly high, and you can't have both, then someone will definitely choose bread, if you don't climb up step by step, you will definitely be trampled under the feet of others, so people are not people who choose material, but material who chooses people.
Seriously, everyone who has just entered the society has no money in their pockets, unless you are a rich second generation, as a part-time worker, you really haven't been wronged at home, and you have tasted it all outside.
For example, if you want to go to a high-end restaurant to eat, you have to touch your pocket to see if there is any extra money, then you can't help but feel lost, and you have to break the little money in your hand to plan how to spend it, whether the credit card has not been repaid. So, think about it, let's eat instant noodles!
Therefore, girls will fantasize that they can marry a rich and handsome man, and boys will think how nice it would be if I married a white rich beauty! You can save years of struggle, which is also a shortcut after all. Of course, fantasy is good after all, but reality is often cruel.
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No, I would choose love.
The more expensive the gift you are, the more you love you! A boy who is willing to spend money for you may not love you, but a boy who is not willing to spend money for you must not love you! Boys who are not willing to spend money for you really don't love you!
So when you have your eye on a lipstick, bag, or necklace, as long as the guy is not willing to place an order for you, you start to doubt love. You have to post the red envelopes sent by your boyfriend and the screenshots of successful purchases in the circle of friends to prove that this is true love.
It seems that if there is no material love, it is not favored by others.
Then you must be wrong. As students, we don't have much money to spend on expensive gifts every month, but we are willing to give you 200 when I only have 300. I've been doing everything I can to pamper our love.
How many girls, for a little money, have become the playthings of the rich second generation, when the other party gets tired of playing with you and kicks you away, you have nothing left of yourself, only tragic memories. If two people want to love each other, it is absolutely impossible to support it only by unilateral dedication and accommodation.
I want to exchange my love for someone else's bread. I'm sorry, love is a two-way street, and it's useless to just fantasize and self-inflicted affection. The end of giving up love and coveting bread is destined to be tragic, but it is better to be with the person you like and work together.
We should work hard for love, and all obstacles should not be a reason to block love. Isn't that what love is all about? It is you who are needed, not those things that are attached because of you.
Instead of using each other, we attract each other and support each other. Bread without the love we need to work hard together to earn.
Your love may be hindered, but the love between you must have the determination to share weal and woe, as well as the courage to face reality. I hope that in the end, all the suffering you have suffered in love can finally become your warm and affectionate embrace, and then a pair for a lifetime, long and beautiful.
Therefore, keep the love to yourself and fight with the person you love in exchange for the material life in the future. Don't lose a big thing for the sake of bread and regret it for life.
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No. I don't want to be a person who is dominated by bread. Now this society is too busy, busy working overtime today, busy resigning tomorrow, and there are many people who get married and divorced.
Finally, I met the right person, talked about my heart together, played games, shared hobbies, the same world view, and my busy life was finally a little comfortable, why give up love for bread?
Although, bread is also important, but life without love always seems lonely. After all, my father has my mother, my girlfriends and her social circle, and my little sisters will also meet her love, and the person who can accompany me through this life is my love.
You can find a job again, and there will always be bread. However, love, once you miss it, you may never meet the person who makes you tempted again in your life. Before I met, I might say in a serious way that I won't fall into the whirlpool of love, and bread is the most important, just because I haven't met yet.
And when you meet it, but you choose to give up, then in this life, this is always a pity. Because, some people really miss it for a lifetime, and after meeting that person, they are not willing to settle again. Like He Yichen, he met Zhao Mosheng, when Zhao Mosheng left, the people around him became generals, and he was unwilling to compromise, and I was unwilling.
There may be people who will say that love without bread will expire and will spoil, and I would say that it must be that you haven't worked hard enough. Or, the love you are talking about is not yet love. What is love, love is to be in love with each other, but also to respect each other, we can share weal and woe, we can also enjoy together, mutual understanding and mutual respect, both parties are working hard for life, and bread is at hand.
In short, the beauty of love is more appealing to me than delicious bread. The premise is that I met love.
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Yes, bread can also keep love going, so I don't choose love without bread, and I know this very well.
In my memory, I watched my parents fight for life all the time. Her father was unemployed, and her mother picked up the whole family by herself, and although she was not in good health, she still had to grit her teeth and persevere in order to live.
The father and mother walked together through the introduction of the matchmaker, and the matchmaker said that the two were out of the blue, and the intersection of the two could not be said to be love, just because of the mother's willfulness to end the marriage. After getting married, my mother lived in a dilapidated house, with no wedding dress, no rings, and only a few old pieces of furniture in the house.
In the days that followed, my father gambled outside every day and night, and my mother did heavy farm work every day and night, and finally one day my mother broke her waist because of the heavy farm work on her shoulders again and again, and she searched for famous doctors, but it became an incurable disease, and the pain of back disease began to spread to her whole life.
I remember when I was very young, my mother wanted to leave again and again, but because she couldn't let me go, she was afraid that I would starve to death and die of thirst, so she stayed and insisted on her helpless life. Slowly, I grew up, and I began to reach the age of trial marriage, and time and experience made me begin to be confused.
I long for a pure and impurity-free love in my heart, but life has taught me that there is only feelings, no self-motivation, no material foundation for a family, and the happiness can only be zero. Because of the high price of goods and the cruel competition of talents, it will eventually bring reality blows to the family again and again, and all the sweet words and all the vows will be crushed by reality.
Slowly, I began to realize that many girls lost their due love for bread, and many girls lived a down-and-out life without bread because of love. Because there is no bread, no extra time to exercise, and no extra time to improve themselves, the whole family has been in a helpless endless loop.
Since I can't meet love, I choose to meet my truest self, strive to realize myself, create myself, as a woman, I also want to be like a man and create the life I want. Human life is very long and short, and although fairy tales are beautiful, we may never meet our own Prince Charming in our lives.
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I will not give up love because of bread, those who love you are willing to find bread for you, and those who have bread may not be willing to give you love. If you love your people, if you also love each other, then you will find that it is romantic to draw a loaf of bread when you are hungry. But you don't love each other, and you want to vomit while eating bread while looking at each other.
Love is a spiritual thing, bread is material, Maslow has a particularly famous demand theory, simply put, living is the most basic, eating well and dressing well is a higher requirement, being recognized, and having spiritual satisfaction is the highest. Today, you have chosen bread to satisfy your material vanity, but what about later? You can't keep nibbling on bread to someone you don't love, can you?
There is no communication and exchange between you and the person you don't love, and communication and exchange are too important for marriage, even more than firewood, rice, oil and salt. The reason for divorce today is generally that there is no common language, that is, there is no love, because communication and exchange are too important for marriage, and this communication and exchange is ** love.
I don't deny that we have to live on bread before we can talk about love, but material things are definitely not everything. Because our dependence on material things will become weaker and weaker, and our dependence on feelings will become deeper and deeper. You must understand that many times, what the other party wants is not the material life of the moment, but to have a future with you, at least to see the possibility of a better future.
There is a sentence in Jane Eyre that says: "Love is a game, and you must always be equal and equal with each other in order to cherish each other in the long run." "If you like someone, then he must be willing, for you, to become a better person.
We should be willing to work hard for love, and all obstacles should not be a reason to block love.
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It's for money, you've said it's for money, now many women don't want to work, they just want to be a rich man's wife, they want to buy high-end cosmetics, high-end bags, all kinds of high-end clothes, she doesn't marry a rich ugly monster, few people can afford her high expenses, and she can drive a Maserati to her friends to show her wealth to satisfy her vanity, she doesn't have to do housework, the family has money to ask a nanny to do housework, she can play cards with her girlfriends, go shopping, Living a life comfortably, without worrying about food or clothing, such a day is a life that women want to come.
First, it has something to do with time, and I may not have a clear awareness of the importance of money to life before, but later I found that it is still a necessity, and love is not enough. Second, in addition to some nouveau riche, rich people always have some specialties, otherwise there is really money falling from the sky, so this kind of person itself has its own charm. Third, the word "all" is too absolute, there are still many girls who have not married rich people, otherwise 90% of people in China will have no wives.
Has your boyfriend been in a relationship before, this situation seems to be that your boyfriend doesn't know much about what it is like to be in love, from your explanation, it seems that you are just friends, at best friends with a better relationship, I also have such a friend of the opposite sex, the relationship is relatively good, just like what you said, the two of us are usually like this, of course, there is no breakup and reconciliation. If he is in love for the first time or if he has been in a relationship before, please give him a chance, a chance to love you, maybe he is changing, or he doesn't know how to change, he doesn't know what to say in the face of you, he is afraid that you will be sad, and he is at a loss, and then he is very indifferent. If it's not the first time or it's different from when he was in a relationship before, it can only mean that you are very far-fetched together, and he doesn't understand how he feels about you, as if he likes it, but it doesn't seem to be, so he is running away and doesn't understand his heart, this may need you to point it out and let him confirm whether he really loves you?
No matter what time it is, I want to go home. Although it has been almost 12 years since I fell in love and got married, I am very happy at the thought of meeting him.