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Upstairs: How did you educate your children? If yes, then all I can say is that you are raising animals, not children.
If you don't know, don't come here and talk nonsense, the quality of people can be seen in this regard.
Now the only child is generally very naughty, and in some cases is very barbaric and unreasonable, as long as it is not excessive, this is normal, the main factor that leads to this problem is because of the relationship between family education, one is the favor of parents, one is the love of grandparents and grandparents, excessive pampering will mislead the child to think that he is the biggest in the world, do everything in his own way, if the long-term development, when the child goes to school will become unmanageable, hitting the child is not a good way, But sometimes you really have to hit the child, but this has to pay attention to the method, can not be too heavy, and can play a warning and intimidation role, the average child will accept the lesson, next time will pay attention to the mistake, but you must remember, don't educate and then someone to coax him, so it doesn't work at all, you have to let him know that if he makes a mistake, he will be punished, and no one can help him if he makes a mistake. Be sure to do it. This is just my personal opinion, it is better to buy some books and read them back, after all, the books are more comprehensive.
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A child, don't be so serious, the child is naughty, it means that he is in good health, do you remember if you were naughty when you were one and a half years old? We don't want others to be us, and we don't want to torture children in the name of love. Let him be happy, he doesn't know what barbarism is, and he has to treat him, cruel.
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Beat him, if he doesn't stop. So they tied him up and didn't let him eat, and he was hungry for three days and three nights.
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This should be spoiled by the family, so it is necessary to start from the side of the family.
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At this time, children are curious, want to make their own decisions about everything, to try, and the rebellious psychology is gradually increasing to meet their psychological needs
1. Treat it calmly, when the child loses his temper, let him stay alone in a room for a while, don't rush to convince him, it won't take long for him to calm down, and then he will accept it when he is reasoning with him.
Second, appropriate experience, sometimes the child's way of solving the problem is incorrect, at this time, the adult may wish to let him try without danger, when he hits the wall, in the reason for him, he will be happy to accept.
3. Communication, when the child does something wrong, don't blindly blame, patiently ask why he does this, and help him analyze the consequences of doing so, so that he can realize the seriousness, learn how to solve such problems in the future, and regulate his emotions.
Fourth, timely encouragement, encouragement is good medicine for any naughty child, when he finds that he has made a little progress, to encourage praise, give him confidence, he will consciously restrain his behavior, continue to strengthen, and gradually change bad habits.
Fifth, the role of role models, you can tell children some stories of celebrities who have been obedient since childhood, let children tell what you know from the story, and you can also use the obedient children around the children as role models, guide the children to follow the characters in the story and the children around them, and be a reasonable child.
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When you are young, your child may do something that you think is "not good", but in fact the child does not understand that this personal behavior is not right, and the child does this personal behavior just to explore the natural environment.
Therefore, in order to prevent your child from encountering something that is not very good, you need to put it out of the reach of the child, as the name of the note of the object says.
Create a schedule: If your child can understand what to expect next, he may be more likely to perform better personal behaviors. Therefore, parents should let their children have a good daily routine, such as the time to fall asleep and the time for children to tell stories.
After the plan has been formulated, it is necessary to implement it for a period of time, and it is not possible to fish for three days and catch fish for three days. After a period of perseverance, the child will learn a certain sense of personal rhythm, he or she will understand that he or she can leave the house and go to the courtyard when playing, and he or she needs to start preparing to fall asleep at the beginning.
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