Why is the eldest in the family the most aggrieved, and is the eldest in the family very hard???

Because the eldest is always sensible before his younger siblings, but you have also had times when you are not wronged and you don't know, of course, parents will always love their children, but from different angles.

There are more and more children in the family. Sometimes, although it is very happy to have two children, there are also many problems behind happiness.

I saw someone share such an incident: One morning, such a farce happened on the subway in Guangzhou, and after watching this incident at that time, I was very touched.

The protagonists of the incident are two children of about the same age, fighting for the same toy. At this time, their mother directly snatched back the toys in her brother's hand and gave them directly to her younger brother.

The eldest immediately began to cry and bit his mother's arm as a way to express his anger. Then my mother directly gave my brother a "white eye", and said, "I'm so old, I don't know how to let my brother go." At this time, my brother was even more unhappy, so he could only sit silently and not speak, and when I saw this, I felt a little uncomfortable.

Because this brother looked the same way I did at that time, I understand my brother's emotions very well, and many times because he is older, I don't know how many things I like.

Because the eldest in the family wants to let his younger brother and sister go. If you have something delicious to give them, you can't be too harsh on them.

Because the parents say that you are an older child, you have to let your younger brother or sister sister. So the boss is the most aggrieved! Hey, I'm the boss.

Not all the bosses are the most aggrieved, and many are old and young grievances that are not absolute.

I think that the eldest should just take more responsibility in front of his siblings, and when facing family problems, he has to think more than his siblings. You don't have to give up everything, do you?

After reading what you said later, I don't think it has much to do with the boss. My husband is the youngest in his family, with an older brother and two sisters. Everyone shared the money spent by his family, although my husband and I had not yet started a family at that time.

Not to mention the contribution, his brother and a sister are out of town, and the other eldest sister doesn't show up at all, and my husband and I have done enough thankless things. Actually, don't think about the boss or not. My husband taught me a sentence:

As children, don't compare yourself with others, just be worthy of your conscience.

We have to live, don't we???

Can't you say that just because you're the eldest or the son, you don't have the right to live? It depends on the conditions. There is money to contribute, and there is power to contribute. Also that sentence: Just be worthy of your conscience. In principle, it is not possible to solve the problem by letting it go.

Looking at my parents' gradually whitening temples, as the eldest in the family, I have an extra responsibility. My younger siblings are still young, and they don't have as much experience as I do, so I have to give them life guidance and take care of them for my parents. I also have to take care of my parents more, because I am the eldest, I was born with all the love of my parents, and the love of my younger siblings is left after I divide up a part.

When I grew up, I had more responsibilities and obligations.

When I was young, my family was poor, and as the eldest I still have a new set of clothes to wear every year! My younger siblings just picked up my old clothes and wore them! I was very impressed, there was a piece of my uncle's clothes, half-new and old, the material was very good, and my mother changed it for me to wear!

I can't wear it for my sister! This is the boss's advantage. So, when I earned my first month's salary, I bought a set of clothes for each of my younger siblings.

"Let your younger siblings go, that's what my parents often say." When I was young, I was very unconvinced, why. I also want to have an older brother or sister who follows them every day, even if I am disliked, it doesn't matter, anyway, I can tell my parents that my brother and sister are bullying me again.

My parents were very strict with me, and my father always said: "You are the eldest sister, do a good job and know how to taste!" Younger siblings are watching!

So from a small middle distance, be a sensible and good daughter all the time! I rarely get scolded by my parents. There's no way to be the eldest sister!

I haven't learned to be coquettish! Do as you are told! Priceless.

The eldest in the family, to be honest, has a lot of responsibilities, worries a lot, and suffers a lot, my sister is the eldest, my second is the second, and there is a younger sister and younger brother. To be honest, my eldest sister is well-deserved, and she is our good eldest sister. When I was a child, my family was in difficulty, my sister dropped out of school in the fifth grade, learned to do all kinds of housework, cooking, laundry, carrying water, making us new clothes and shoes, doing most of the farm work, sharing many chores for my parents, helping my parents to sell vegetables, make tofu, and raise them as a boy.

Now that we have all grown up, we all understand that the eldest sister is our closest person, eldest sister, you have worked hard for so many years! We all love you.

Because I am the eldest and born the earliest, my parents have not been transferred together, my mother was assigned to the south far away from home after graduation, my father is in the north, but it is also far away from my grandparents, and my parents are only children, my grandparents feel sorry for me and my parents, my mother gave birth to me, so she put me at my grandparents' house, my grandparents love me very much, but I have a poor relationship with my parents. When I was six years old, I gave birth to younger brothers and sisters, and my parents were transferred together, and I was also taken to the south, although my grandmother came with me to bring my younger brothers and sisters, and my younger brothers and sisters were also brought up by my grandmother, but after all, I grew up next to my parents, and my parents had a much better relationship with them, and my parents once told others how big mistakes my younger brothers and sisters made, and they could tolerate it, and I was a little wrong, they were annoyed, and my father was so annoyed that my father beat me at every turn, and in order to protect me, my grandmother was angry with my parents, and even lost her temper. That's how I spent my childhood and teenage.

As the eldest in the family, it has long become a habit to care about the younger brothers and sisters below. When they are happy, I am happy, and when they encounter difficulties, I keep worrying about them, and only when they are happy, I will feel at ease. I still remember when I was a child, when my parents were not at home, my grandmother took me and my younger brother at home.

Thinking that my parents are not at home, I should take care of this family, and I can't let my grandmother work so hard. Being the boss gives me an innate responsibility deep down in my heart. This kind of responsibility seems to make me more precocious than my peers, take care of my younger brother, share the worries of my parents in my own way, study hard, and get ahead.

The identity of the boss, in my heart, has condensed into a spirit, and has become the reason why I must stand up straight. I thought in my heart, I must be strong, and I must not fall. I'm the boss.