What should some children do when they see strangers who don t like to talk or even cry?

Updated on parenting 2024-08-14
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    This is a normal phenomenon of children at this stage, the so-called "recognition of life", there is no need to correct it. When my child was so old, he cried when he saw a stranger, and sometimes he would cry when he saw someone he was afraid of across the road. Later, the child grew up and came into contact with more and more people, so he was not afraid of people.

    Don't overprotect your child, don't deliberately let him not stay in a place with strangers because he is afraid of people, and go to some crowded public places at will.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    You should coax your child, then tell him who this person is and tell him not to be afraid.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Some children will not like to talk when they see strangers, or even cry, at this time parents must take their children out for a walk, which can expand the baby's field of vision, and also allow the baby to adapt to the surrounding environment and people.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If your child has this situation, the best way is to take the child out to play with him, so that he can have more contact with people and children.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Parents should actively guide their children, communicate more with their children, provide their children's guts, stimulate their children's desire to express, and take their children to participate in more social activities, so that children can slowly adapt to such occasions and improve their children's social skills.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Education must be strengthened, you can take your child to contact strangers, and then you should encourage children to socialize bravely, and you must improve your child's language communication skills.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Parents must encourage their children, praise their children more, let them do what they can, cultivate their children's self-confidence, and take their children out to play more.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Children are afraid to speak, and some children are very characterful. You can see when you're in kindergarten and your child is more squeezed than other peers. When I was in class, the teacher asked a question for the children, and even though the child knew the answer to the question, she could not take the initiative to ask the question.

    Children miss out on many good opportunities in school and society because they are not very good at expressing themselves, leading teachers to be more energetic and patient with children who are more excited. Reversible look at strangers, like in our own safety.

    A child's timidity is manifested in the face of strangers, the parent sees an acquaintance outside and asks the child to say hello to the other party, the child is twisting and pinching, unwilling to say hello. At home, parents let the children and guests talk well, but the children turn back to their rooms, these are the children who are afraid to see people, and their sexuality is small. When the child talks about the other side, the child looks nervous, and even when they speak, they are nervous and they cannot say a complete sentence.

    It's very dependent, and I don't want to leave half of my parents. Child dependence is also one of the characteristics of childhood, and children are very dependent on their parents. Whenever you go out, you leave your parents.

    When a child is a child's child, the child is more visible than other children. Such children will have a lot of obstacles in life and learning, they have a problem at school, they can't take the initiative to ask the teacher, they can only communicate with their better friends. The relationship between children and relatives at home is not close, they rarely communicate with each other, and they always passively accept each other's inquiries.

    How do parents respond when they show up? Be sure to be patient and help your child practice courage, when the child is a teenager, it is ignorant and everything needs to be taught by someone else, especially when the child meets for the first time, it is more hands, and the timid child is more visible.

    At this time, parents need to be more patient, and the guidelines of parents for children are very important. When parents find out that their children have cases of timidity, they need more patients to teach their children. Exercise your child's courage, give your child more opportunities to express themselves, let your child forget about timidity, defeat weakness, and be confident.

    Parents are very important and do not ignore it, timid children are insecure and depend on their parents, so the company of parents is very important for children. Many parents lie on the couch when they come home from work and rarely put their energy into their children, especially many male parents, who know less about children.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It may be that the child has not seen too many people since he was a child, so he is easy to cry when he sees strangers, so he can take the child out to play more, and have more contact with other people, and the baby will change after a long time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can take your child to get in touch with the outside environment, let your child get used to such an environment, take your child to participate in more activities, let him play with strangers more, and give his child enough security.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    With the continuous development of social economy and the continuous progress of science and technology, people's living standards have been improved to a certain extent, and people's education level is getting higher and higher, and people are training their children more and more. So for many parents, one of the more headaches, that is, for the cultivation of children, some children or babies do not like to talk when they see strangers, and even cry, for this situation, what should be done to improve it. First of all, it is very likely that this situation is related to genetically related factors, and it can also be related to the style of parenting.

    In this case, it is advisable to take your children with them and play with children of the same age, and encourage them to build up their confidence, and of course encourage them to play with children of the same age, so that you can overcome this symptom.

    For children who are reluctant to meet strangers, to a certain extent, it has a lot to do with their self-confidence, or in the process of cultivating them, we are too strict with our children, resulting in them not having a good understanding of their own correct positioning. It can be said that for this situation, we should be encouraged to our children, build their self-confidence, and when they make certain mistakes, we must be guided correctly, and we cannot educate them through the form of beating and scolding, which is not correct.

    And for different families, each family has a different way of educating children, so his methods are very diverse, we should not just see an education method of other people's families, but also should combine their own actual situation, to choose an education method suitable for their children, which is a very important thing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    To be with the baby often, to change the baby's personality, but also to let the baby contact more strangers, but also to take the baby out to party.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When you see strangers, you can hold the baby to give the baby a full sense of security, and you must stop when others tease the baby, and encourage the baby to play with children of the same age.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    At this time, you should pick him up, pat him, let him stop crying, and then divert the baby's attention, wait for the baby's mentality to calm down, and introduce his child to others.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If the baby is more timid, you need to give your child more exercise. Take your child out for social activities and parent-child games. Let your child make some friends of the same age.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hi, hello, how old is the child, he should not be a stranger.

    It's normal for children to not like to talk to strangers, and some people are introverts, they know everything, but they don't want to take the initiative to say hello to others. Parents don't have to force their children to deal with others.

    It's just that in the process of communicating with other people or after communication, he praises the child in private, often praises him for his bravery, discusses what he gets from communicating with others and sharing with others, so that he can taste and realize that communicating with others is not dangerous, and he is also very happy and rewarding, at least parents also like it.

    In short, parents should encourage their children to socialize with others, believe that others are safe, and children's social skills (the ability to adapt to society in the future) are trained in children's time.

    Don't force the child, don't label it, and slowly let the child feel safe and dare to communicate with others. It is important not to blame your child even if you make a mistake during the communication.

    Hope it helps.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This is not to worry, seeing passers-by afraid to open their mouths to speak is related to the shaping of children's temperament and acquired nature, some babies are born not to talk, their own safety awareness is stronger, and they are more sensitive to passers-by. However, no matter what the reason is that the child does not talk to others, when we bring the baby to deal with our own relatives and friends, we need to inform the baby, called "Uncle (eldest sister) is good". If the baby doesn't need to say it, don't care too much, and after being separated from others, it is not right to tell the child not to say hello, it is not polite.

    The reason may be that parents have less time to educate their children, children are brought by grandma or grandmother, children spend most of their time alone watching TV dramas and playing games, in short, "one person's mobile games", grandma has to do housework, if grandma's hobbies are not too much, hate to listen to songs, or the language is not too much, you can take the baby outside, and play with children you don't know, and improve social development adaptability.

    For the baby to see passers-by dare not speak, it will not have a certain everything normal or problematic, because as far as we are adults, there are some cases to see passers-by, we are not willing to take the initiative to speak, so the baby sees passers-by dare not speak, children see passers-by This is also a normal situation. Adults are like this, if you have never met someone, you are not easy to praise and praise the strange story, and you are not willing to talk at will, let alone children, they are not easy to take on external things and few people.

    If you see passers-by and don't want to open your mouth to speak, parents and babies should establish a good connection, give children a sufficient sense of belonging, when the child gets enough love and a sense of belonging in the parents, then he will feel that the world is safe and secure, then he will be more and more at ease with the surrounding natural environment and can explore with confidence. After all, when my children grow up, they will enter into social development, get along with all kinds of people, and let children learn how to get along with children in primary and secondary schools, and how to deal with difficulties when encountered, which is an effective opportunity to temper themselves.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    To comfort the baby, restore his mood, take him for a walk, divert his attention, slowly let the baby contact with others, and increase his courage.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because the baby usually comes into contact with fewer strangers, so it will be like this, you should take the baby out for a walk, take a look at the outside world and know more children outside, parents should also talk to the child more, create a good language environment for the child, and slowly it will be better.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In life, you should take your time to educate your children. You should also slowly change your child's mind, and you should tell your child that you should greet someone when you see them, so that they will like them very much, and they will also make themselves very good.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It shows that children usually don't see such people at all, so sometimes they are not used to it, and they should educate their children in the middle of life, and they should take their children to some friends' houses.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is necessary to induce children to have contact with these strangers, so that after children have more contact with other children, their personalities will become outgoing and they will not be so sensitive.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Preamble: Some babies don't like to talk when they see strangers, like to hide behind their parents, and even cry, so it is recommended that in this case, parents must calm their children's emotions. Because children are less timid, they are more afraid when they see strangers, which is a relatively normal situation, and I will share with you what to do.

    When children are young, they are always very afraid when they come to a new environment. Therefore, parents should not feel that the child is very bad, we must appease the child's emotions in time, and we must surround the child with love, so that the child can stop crying as soon as possible. Because some children are more introverted, they don't like to talk when they see strangers, and if others take the initiative to say hello, the child will also respond, so parents should not have wrong ideas about their children, every child is very good.

    Because children are more introverted, they can't talk when they see strangers, and parents are often very angry when they see this situation. Then it is recommended that parents should correct this wrong idea in time, for children, they are eager to be encouraged by their parents, and the encouragement of parents can allow children to establish a certain self-confidence. Suggestion, we can encourage children to take the initiative to greet strangers, believing that children will not be afraid after seeing strangers' smiles.

    If the child is very young, they are prone to crying when they see strangers because the child is more recognizable. Then it is recommended that we must comfort the child in time and protect the child with the love of parents, so that the child can gain a certain sense of security. Because children feel very unfamiliar with the external environment, they like to express their fears by crying, and parents must hug their children, so that children can slowly stop crying.

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