It s really boring.,Ah, there s no finding a partner.

Yes, but I'm looking for a girlfriend.

The first type: lack of confidence in yourself.

Although you look good and the conditions are good, in your heart, you are still not confident in yourself. I always feel that I am not worthy of the person I like, so I have never dared to take a step forward to pursue, and every relationship has ended before it has even begun.

The second: having social phobia.

Don't think that this situation is rare, in fact, it exists in most people, and many people will be nervous and uncomfortable in the case of a multi-person gathering. This shows that you have obvious social phobia and are afraid to meet strangers, let alone the opposite sex, in this case, how can you get out of the single?

The third type: do not know how to get close to each other.

This is a very embarrassing situation, you are obviously very active, you can also boldly pursue the person you like, but you don't know how to get close to each other, always feel that all kinds of ways are not very good, and worry that the other party dislikes you, so you have not dared to get close to each other, this situation is easy to improve, as long as you follow your inner direction, boldly pursue it.

Fourth: I don't know how to maintain a relationship.

This situation is even more embarrassing than the situation in Shan Yi Middle School, obviously there is already someone you like, and the other party also likes you, and the relationship is not bad, but both parties don't know how to maintain this good relationship, and get further development, both of them are standing still, and the result is not over.

Fifth: I didn't meet the right person.

This is the situation that most people are currently encountering, and they have not met the right person at all, so they are unwilling to settle, even if they want to get off the single, they are not willing to settle, so they have been single. Even if someone pursues themselves, it is not the person they like, and they will not easily agree, and in this case, they can't get off the list, and it is also caused by themselves. But it's good.

What do you think.

Love is what everyone yearns for, and some people have never been in love, many of which are analyzed from eight aspects:

1.Higher requirements for themselves: Some people have very high requirements for themselves, such as appearance, personality, income, education, etc. This pursuit of perfection mentality will lead them to choose to reject any "imperfect" object, preferring to remain single and wait for the "best".

2.Fear of being hurt: Some people may have a deep fear of being in a relationship because they have experienced emotional frustration and hurt. They are afraid of being hurt and disappointed again, so they choose not to fall in love.

3.Career and life planning priority: For some people with strong career aspirations, work and life planning priority is an obstacle for them to fall in love.

They want to have enough time and energy to pursue career success first, and they think it will be easier to find the right partner in the future.

4.Smaller social circles: Some people may have very small social circles due to their birth environment, workplace, hobbies, etc. The lack of opportunities and conditions to meet the opposite sex has also become a reason not to fall in love.

5.Too many fantasies about love: Many people will have too many fantasies about love, so they give up a lot of people who can really be their lovers. They often hope to meet a prince or princess like the one in the plot of the movie, and choose to be silent and single in order to wait for a miracle.

6.Reluctance to face the pressure of marriage and love: In some societies or families with strong cultural traditions, they will face the pressure of marriage and love from the beginning of the 20s, which will make some people give up love and be unwilling to be urged to marry.

7.Have had bad experiences: Some people may have experienced bad experiences such as failure, betrayal, cheating, etc. in a relationship. This experience can lead to psychological shadows that make them reluctant to fall in love again.

8.Hope for more free time: Some people may find themselves free after being single for a long time, and are reluctant to take the risk of starting over when they don't have a partner or family.

To sum up, there are many reasons not to be in a relationship, some people want to wait for the best, others may choose to stay single due to factors such as fear of injury, career priorities, social circles, etc. No matter what lifestyle you choose, it is important to pursue your inner feelings and not be bound by society and tradition.

Why don't I have a partner: Dear I don't have a partner because I like to stay at home and like familiar circles. I like to stay at home and like familiar circles.

Today's young people, although they are not very old, but many people's lives are very similar to those of the elderly. I don't like to go outside at all, except for busy work, when I have time, I just want to stay at home, and occasionally others ask me out, and I often don't want to go out at all, thinking it's very troublesome. I don't like to go out, and my social circle is always shrinking, and there are only a few people who come and go.

When your life is so single, you have so few contacts, your social aspect is so narrow, and you don't even know anyone, but you want to be able to say goodbye to singleness and let yourself have a partner, of course, it is very unrealistic.

1. When you meet someone you like, your first reaction is low self-esteem. I am always afraid that I am not worthy of others, and I feel that the other party is very good. How do you know without giving it a try?

2. If you are ugly, you still think others are ugly. I feel like I can't look at any of them.,It's not my favorite type.。 In fact, the most important thing in finding a girlfriend is internal.

3. As soon as he was confessed, he was very irritable. It feels like being harassed, but in fact, the other party is sincere. Even if you don't like it, you should respect others.

4. I always feel that the people I like don't like me. People I don't like, they like me. Feelings need to be cultivated slowly, and love at first sight is rare after all.

5. I only have the position of my predecessor in my heart and do not accept anyone. Or when you meet someone, you like to compare yourself with your ex. There is no liking, no love, and I don't want to settle.

9 reasons why you can't find an object, how many did you hit?

6. I am used to being alone, and suddenly there is someone who cares, and I feel uncomfortable. After being lonely for a long time, I still miss the feeling of being cared for.

7. Life at two o'clock and one line every day. In addition to work, it is to sleep. You should still take some time to think about your life's events.

8. I don't know what the purpose of talking about marriage is. I always feel that I am still young, under the age of marriage.

9. I don't have much sense of responsibility, and I feel that falling in love and getting married is a responsible thing. Unwilling to take on that responsibility.

In ancient wealthy families, their sons and young masters reached the age of marriage, even if they were unwilling to get married, their family would still arrange a so-called right woman to marry in.

You know why?

The biggest reason is that because they want to save face, to maintain their status and identity, their "nobility" does not allow their children to be adults and have no wives, which is really shameful!

Answer, I envy you for your excellence, and you are even better at learning, but don't you realize that in all your descriptions and ideas, you actually don't lack objects at all, or you don't need objects, you are independent, autonomous, and your life is very stable.

However, because you have an object because of the people around you, or the suitors you don't agree with, your excellence is so strong that you feel unbalanced in your heart.

Why do you find a partner: Why do those who are not as good as me have an object?

If you have this kind of mentality, I really suggest that you Ling Han drive alone, no matter how bad your love is, it should also have temperature.

He is not a vase to be put on the shelf, nor should he be a scepter to flaunt his status.

The troubles are all because of my excessive attachment.

Even if you go on like this.

Not to mention that there will be no good results.

Why do we just give blindly? No one is selfless.

Everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts.

At the very least, it has to be recognized, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it, and it just takes a while to forget.

To let go, if you can't love yourself well, then what can you do to love others well, yes, every truth is difficult to do.

Maybe it's easier said than done.

But all I can say is.

If you are neglected, why should you practice yourself?

Maybe I was like you in the past.

Time really can change everything.

Learn to be strong.