It s so tiring to be a man, solve! Why is it so hard to be human? Tired!

Updated on society 2024-08-07
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    How people live in this life and how they live their lives depends on themselves. If you want to be happy, what if you are sick? If you want to be happy, what can you do even if you are poor?

    Do the most worthwhile thing with the best youth!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Hello! I think it's because we're doing everything on our shoulders! And with heavy burdens, we have to keep moving forward!

    So sometimes we have to learn to give up something, something that may have been ours and is or will no longer be ours! Maybe that's going to make it a little easier.

    Anyone will have problems, some people have problems solved, and some people don't. A good attitude is destined for a person's success or not. No matter what we encounter, we should have a good attitude, actively forge ahead, be strong and unyielding.

    In life, we will encounter such and such problems, the only person who can change these things is himself, only if he has confidence in himself, you can calmly complete your life road, the road ahead is very long, on the way we have walked in our life, there will be an oasis, there will be wind and sand. Bumpiness and flatness exist at the same time. When encountering setbacks, you must show your own courage and face them bravely.

    When you try to face difficulties and pressures, I believe that these difficulties will one day succumb to your feet and face life with a new attitude. Believing in yourself is equivalent to having infinite power.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    In fact, it is not difficult to be a person, it is difficult to be a good person, it is not difficult for a person to do something good, but it is difficult to do good deeds for a lifetime. In social interactions, it is inevitable that people will suffer, be misunderstood, and be wronged. In the face of these, the wisest choice is to learn to be tolerant.

    Tolerance is a good psychological quality. It not only contains understanding and forgiveness, but also shows bearing and open-mindedness, strength and strength. A person who is not tolerant and only knows how to be demanding of others is often in a state of psychological tension, which leads to nerve excitement, vasoconstriction, and increased blood pressure, making the psychology and physiology enter a vicious circle.

    If you learn to be tolerant, you will be strict with yourself and lenient with others, which is equivalent to installing a regulating valve on your own psychology. Optimism is the elixir of psychological health Optimism is a positive character and state of mind. It can stimulate people's vitality and potential, solve contradictions, and overcome difficulties; Pessimism, on the other hand, is a negative and decadent personality and state of mind, which makes people sad, troubled, and painful, and is helpless in the face of difficulties, affecting physical and mental health.

    Indifferent, that is, tranquil and lacking desires, not pursuing fame and fortune. At the end of the Qing Dynasty, Zhang Zhidong's health name said: "No seeking is a peace of mind"; Bingxin, a famous contemporary writer, also believes that "people are self-exalted when they have nothing to seek".

    This shows that indifference is a lofty realm and mentality, and it is the positioning of the pursuit of life at a deep level. With an indifferent mentality, you will not follow the crowd in the world and chase fame and fortune; There will be no great joy in what is gained and great sorrow for what is lost; will not complain about the world and be jealous. The indifferent state of mind keeps people in a peaceful state, maintains a normal heart, and all factors that are detrimental to physical and mental health will be repulsed.

    Look at this fickle world, and then look at your own life, and suddenly feel how short life is, why not be happy? This is probably the best reason to comfort yourself. Life has both bitterness and joy, and it is best to laugh often; There are ups and downs in the career, and it is best to be calm and calm; Love is sweet and sour, it is best to be open-minded; There are long and short blessings, and it is best to be happy and happy!

    Bless friends: always treat life with a smile, enjoy life, and cherish life! ­

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    What do you do if you don't be a human being? You have to do it when you are tired, so that you can feel alive.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Everything in the world has both positive and negative aspects. The same thing is seen from different angles in the eyes of two different people. Therefore, it is really difficult to do anything perfectly, and people have to do things to live, so it is difficult to be a man!

    The same apple, from another angle, it is different. It's the same with people, even if you do something that is good in the eyes of most people, there will still be people who say it's bad. Why is it difficult to be a good person?

    Because there are no absolutes in the world, everything is relative. Everyone has seven emotions and six desires, so in the eyes of different people, you are different people. Don't try to be perfect, because nothing in the world is perfect!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Life is the attitude of knowing what to ignore, everyone has helplessness, everyone has pain and hardship, why do you complain the loudest? Being a person with your own principles may be simpler, you should know what to do and what not to do, and don't delay your time for some useless things. It's easy to live, it's easy to live, it's not easy to live.

    Happy people are not free from pain, but they always see the sunny side. Choice determines destiny. I hope you can change your mentality, make yourself positive, sunny, all the difficulties and pains will start to change slowly with the change of your mentality.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The reality is so cruel now, this is the fact that we have to admit it, the betrayal of friends, the separation of love, the problem of money, are so realistic, so cruel, but many of us can't escape it, don't we?

    As a result, many good things are consumed.

    So it's hard and tiring for everyone.

    In fact, we are not powerless, we have to learn to make good.

    The cruelty in life is of our own making, and to avoid it, we also need to do it ourselves, and we must always maintain that happy and ordinary heart in life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello: Because everyone is working hard for their dreams or ideals, sometimes people will make simple things very complicated, so the heart can not bear it, there will be troubles, and it will also be very tired, and it is not very easy to get rid of it, but it is better to face the reality!

    The reality is so cruel now, this is a fact that we have to admit, a betrayal of a friend.

    The departure of a lover.

    The question of money is a reality.

    It's all so cruel.

    But we can't run away from it, can we?

    Reality takes away many good things.

    That's how it feels!

    We are not powerless.

    We have to learn to make good.

    The cruel side of life is of our own making.

    To avoid this, we need to do it ourselves.

    In life, we must always maintain that happy and ordinary heart!

    People live to make their lives more enjoyable!

    We live in this world, and we always want to live better and more meaningfully!

    But he is overly obsessed with some things, not only fame and fortune, but also feelings (including friendship), and he must look forward to life!

    It's time to let go of the past, stop clinging to those thoughts, and face the life in front of you!

    Cherish what you have at this moment and have more courage to live!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is fundamental to eliminate confusion and irritability, relieve psychological pressure, establish a life path, and establish good living habits and attitudes.

    1. Life is only a hundred years, it is still easier to be a man--- don't be in a hurry, don't be burdened by trivial things, take a step back and open the sky.

    2. Maintain inner peace to feel relaxed--- content, indifferent to fame and fortune, tolerant of others, and learn to be calm.

    3. Be kind to yourself, you will feel more relaxed--- accept yourself, applaud yourself more, learn to rest, and vent the troubles in life.

    4. To be a relaxed person, you need to learn to enjoy life.

    In life, it is inevitable to encounter some unpleasant things, but sometimes you just need to look at the problem from a different angle and face it optimistically, and there will be a scene of "another village in front of you", which requires discovering and creating the beauty of life and learning to enjoy life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This shows that you are a responsible person.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Life: Born, Live!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's the same way, to be alive is to be tired.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Life is full of troubles in the world, there is no straight road in life, and there are ups and downs in life. Time can't stand still, so there's no need to be sad. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less.

    The road of life is very long, and there are many troubles. Adjust your mindset. A good mood is heaven, and anger is hell, and if you want to be happy, forget the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past.

    Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back. Go climb the mountain, see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance. Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed.

    After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear. As long as you adjust your mentality, everything will be fine.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's tired heart, and if you don't feel tired, you won't feel tired.

    How does the heart not get tired? If there is no burden in your heart, you will not be tired.

    How to have no burden in the heart, there will be no burden when you "let go".

    How to "let go", not attached, reduce desires, and always be quiet will "let go".

    Attachment and detachment require wisdom, and less desire and tranquility require concentration.

    Then knowing that there is something that cannot be done, that you are ashamed to do it, and that if you do not do it because of compassion, you will have concentration, and when you have the concentration of the precepts, you will naturally get quiet.

    In silence, wisdom is born, just as the surface of clear water illuminates all things.

    If you know what you can't do, you know what you should do diligently, that is, to do good deeds.

    So the way to attain liberation and ultimate happiness in the world is:

    Do good, abandon evil--- settle --- quiet--- wisdom--- liberation, happiness, joy, ease, and wishful life.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you're not tired, you're not human. Everyone is tired and learns to have fun in suffering.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Life is the process of suffering! It's not easy to be a human being! Just work hard!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There are too many desires, and you are too incompetent.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let's be a pig in the next life, sleep when you eat, and eat when you sleep.

    Don't think about anything.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think what you said about tiredness comes more from psychology, maybe it's because you're a little tired, maybe it's because you don't know what to do about the future, maybe it's because you feel pressure on interpersonal relationships in society. But all this is all an external blow, and the decision on what will happen to you in the end is up to you. In fact, life is a process in which we continue to know ourselves and find ourselves, and when a person has the courage to face difficulties, he will find how strong his heart is.

    If you think you are right, you are 100% sure of yourself, and when a person's will is firm, his pace of progress will become easier.

    Feelings are a kind of sustenance, and we all have a sense of loneliness deep in our souls, which makes us want to find someone we can trust, your loved ones, your parents, your lover, your children, and the friendships you have, these are all emotions that we can trust us. Hope is a kind of sustenance, and when I say hope, I don't just mean some kind of yearning for the future, but ourselves. No matter what tomorrow is, at least we can, and we have the ability to make ourselves better and better every day.

    Faith is a kind of sustenance but also a kind of power, so that we can still feel the direction of light in the darkness, everyone should have their own beliefs, such as justice, true love, what kind of faith a person has, what kind of destiny his soul has.

    Sometimes we feel frustrated or self-sorry because of what others think of us, in fact, everyone has their own ideas, this is their right, why can we only accept the praise of others, be open-minded, chic. Education is about equipping people with the ability not to get angry or lose self-confidence no matter what they hear. As long as a person can be faithful to his inner spirit, he will be a worthy person, adhere to his ideals and beliefs, this is a person's greatest charm, from the beauty in our soul - self-esteem, strength, courage.

    I also want to cry when I want to turn off the light and hide in the bed to shed tears quietly, crying is a kind of release, tears are not only a manifestation of vulnerability, but also a sign of strength, tears wash away the fatigue and pain of our center, leaving a more determined gaze.

    Laugh, wipe away your tears, and let's get back on our way!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Why bother, people who are too persistent always like to stare at this pressure one after another; Why not try to find a few friends to help you share some of the burden? Why not just put all the pressure aside and do your own work? Why do you have time to complain and not listen to people?

    You've fallen into passivity in the pace of life, so why not try to take the initiative to challenge life? Be brave, strong friend.

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Because sometimes I think too much and think too much, and if I have a positive and optimistic attitude, I think more simply, and people will be happier!! Why let yourself live in pain??? Life is so short, you must take advantage of it!! Happiness is the highest state of life!!