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In a relationship, liking a person and loving a person is a very simple thing, but it is just a feeling in our hearts, it is a patent that is beyond the material and spiritual, and it will not consider various factors in reality. Most love is uncompromising and will get used to loving each other the way we like, but this is not necessarily what the other person needs.
When we have been with each other for a long time, the relationship is in a flat state, we can't tolerate the shortcomings, especially the character, such as two strong people, both like each other, because each other feels, if you love me, you should let me, then this itself is a very contradictory thing, because loving someone is not for us to lower our own value, character itself is our value embodiment.
The reason why two people did not continue in the end is because they do not know how to consider problems from each other's perspective in their daily interactions, and they will also disrespect, distrust, do not understand, do not tolerate each other, and do not create corresponding romantic rituals for each other, which leads to a weakening of the relationship. It may be because of distance, or because of family, or because of money, or because of the parents of both parties, or because of work, that they didn't go down in the end.
A lot of people are always stubborn and always go their own way. Even though they already have a lover of their own, they do everything according to their own ideas. Such people often fall out of love. At the right time, bow your head to your lover and give in appropriately.
In fact, it will not disgrace you, but will save a love. It is clear that lovers who love each other do not make it to the end, often for these reasons. I only know how to express love in words.
Many people keep saying that they love each other very much, but in fact they just talk about their love, and never express it with actions. In this way, you don't love him at all in the eyes of the other person. He will only be unwilling to do anything for you because he will not get you in return.
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If two people who love each other beautifully don't come together, it may be because of the family, or because of the two of them themselves.
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Preface: It is more normal for two people who like each other not to go to the end, because in the process of falling in love, you can choose not to think about other things, if you want to get married, you need to take into account family and other factors, so many people will choose to retreat in the face of difficulties, which will lead to the failure of this relationship, in fact, the reason why two people can't go to the end is because they don't like it enough, if two people really like it, they can bear it together in the face of difficulties, and they can go to the end. The chance of two people liking each other in life is very small, so when you know that the other person likes you, you must learn to cherish this relationship.
In the process of falling in love, you will face a lot of difficulties, if two people really like it, you must find a way to overcome these difficulties, so that the relationship can last for a long time. The reason why two people like each other but do not come together may be due to other factors, such as family factors or psychological problems. If there are parents in the family who do not agree with two people being together, it will also add a lot of trouble, and at this time, they will begin to doubt whether their choice is correct, so most people will choose to break up because their parents do not agree.
There are also some people who like each other and don't go to the end, because they find that the three views are inconsistent, and there are differences when discussing a problem, then the goodwill of the two people will slowly decrease, so there will always be a side full of regrets in the relationship, if two people can't walk together, choosing to break up is also a more suitable ending.
In fact, two people like each other but don't come together, which is also full of regrets, because in the process of falling in love, both people are very serious about thinking that they can have a future, and they will also want to walk with the other half in the planning, when two people choose to break up, they will feel empty, and without the company of the other half, they will also feel very insecure.
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Normal. Many couples love each other too much and want to take each other as their own, so they often quarrel with each other and then break up.
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This is a very normal situation, because two people live together not only in feelings, but also in reality.
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In the beginning, love is mostly hormones at work; Love in the end, but it will become a mutual habit.
The love that has become a habit has long been deeply infiltrated into each other's lives. This kind of habit makes people use, but it is difficult for people to seriously feel the feeling of being loved. This is also what people often say, "the authorities are obsessed with bystanders", or "they don't know how to be blessed in the midst of happiness".
Love has become a habit, so why should we be separated?
Because people's perception of happiness tends to become dull in happiness, while the perception of snubbing is often still sentimental. Therefore, often after people who love each other get along for a long time, they may see all shortcomings. If the two sides fail to correct each other's one-sided understanding in a timely manner, the contradiction may be opened.
If both parties are pampered and proud of each other's love habits, they will often fall apart. This is what the question calls separation.
Note that this separation is only a treatment of the shortcomings of both parties, and as for the part where love has become a habit, neither of them has yet begun to realize the seriousness of the matter.
So, from then on, the separated parties begin a process of quitting the habit of love. The process is painful! Therefore, some people who are separated will slowly come together again because the two parties are not used to frequent contact.
It can be seen that it is very possible to send messages and contacts after separation.
However, once the marriage is separated, many things are difficult to control. If both parties don't have enough attraction to each other to go both ways, the chances of reuniting are not high.
Therefore, it is necessary to be cautious when separating, and it is also necessary to be cautious about the connection after separation, so as to avoid ambiguity.
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Love is inclusive and not.
It's indulgence, love is caring, not pampering, love is blending rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.
On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.
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Life is not something that can be sustained by love alone, and as you grow older and mature mentally, questions like this will no longer bother you.
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Why do two people who love each other not go to the end?
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The idea of love between couples is also very important, some people just like each other, and did not think to turn this like into responsibility, two people want to go on, they have to think about the future, if you just stay in a simple relationship between lovers and do not consider the future development and responsibility, you will find that it is very tiring to take a few more steps, and it becomes a fantasy to persevere.
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People who love each other are not destined to be together, nor will they necessarily be together, love is a matter of two people, while marriage is a matter of two families. Whether they love each other or hurt each other, they are a kind of concern for each other, and they are inseparable plots. Fate, you have to believe that fate is destined and can't be changed.
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Obviously love each other very much, but can't go to the end, is the deep and shallow love, but also the biggest regret in life, love each other, but can not stay together, the kind of love can not be missing, is the pain in the depths of the soul, can not go to the last love, is the biggest helplessness in life, that is, can not let go, can not forget, but can not have, such love, in real life, may have many people in feeling.
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Two people who obviously love each other very much, but they can't go to the end! Love is beautiful, reality is cruel, love each other but can't go together, there are many reasons, secular concepts, the disparity between rich and poor, the boundaries of age, the time of meeting, and the distance between two families, and so on, ......, all of them have obstacles that can't go together.
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Even if two people like each other, they often can't go together, on the one hand, the reasons for both families, the elders do not support, not optimistic, once the parents oppose, the relationship between the couple will be greatly affected, especially the psychology of the couple will be greatly tested, many people are falling here, the pressure exerted by the family is often the roadblock between the couple. Family reasons are mainly due to the family background and regional environment and personal appearance of both parties, many people want to be the right person, but often the actual conditions of the two sides are quite different, like a person you need to accept not only ta, but also its family, but also need to let your family accept each other's family, this is a more difficult thing, there are also people because of the long distance and the end, long-distance relationships are more difficult, two people from all over the world, there are very few opportunities to meet and contact, The love between the two parties is often worn out by time, and in the end, it is impossible to turn love into family affection.
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Love itself has a time limit, and the kind of love that transcends time and space and transcends fate is basically unrelated to ordinary people. Ordinary people want to have a perfect ending in the end within the limited love period, they must be full of trust in each other, have the courage to pass the test, have the determination to never give up, and have the confidence that they will eventually be together. Trust, courage, determination, confidence, for modern young people, too luxurious.
With the acceleration of the pace of society, the legendary love has also become a perfect sound, and fast-food communication is everyone's favorite. Quickly contact each other, use the shortest time to verify the feelings of both parties, get married immediately after verification, separate immediately after marriage, and then re-verify, this kind of fast-food feelings, and trust, courage, determination, confidence has no chance, and the appearance and the right person is the true meaning of the long-term.
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Because marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families, so it is too difficult to say whether it can go to the end, it is possible that the other party's family will not agree and force you to break up, and many factors will determine the direction of the relationship.
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The relationship can't go to the end, in fact, the main reason is that the two lack communication and have no responsibility for each other, and if it goes on like this for a long time, it will cause conflicts.
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This is caused by many factors in the outside world, such as the disagreement of both parents, the substandard material life, and so on. This sense of helplessness and powerlessness is that the two of them can't go to the end.
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Maybe it's because you don't feel secure about this relationship, so you feel that although the two of you love each other now, it's very likely that you won't get to the end.
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Because people are selfish, the more two people love each other, the more they care about how much each other gives, which will lead to some conflicts. In fact, sometimes a good communication style is more important.
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Because feelings are not the only conditions in life, and loving each other does not make the actual material life ideal and full, there are many people who clearly love each other in the face of social reality, and they can't get together in the end.
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Maybe it's because two people are not suitable, love is love, but there are many places where they can't get along, and the relationship is easy to crack, and they can't go to the end.
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may be because it is difficult for the two families to integrate, and each other's personalities are not particularly complementary, and liking them at the moment cannot guarantee that they can understand each other in the future.
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may be because the disparity between the conditions between the two is a bit big, which causes a sense of insecurity.
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Because the existence of the other party does not give you enough security, it makes you feel that the future is full of confusion.
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Because to go to the end, it is not only a test of two people to fall in love, but also many other factors, such as material, family, etc., external factors will become stumbling blocks in love, so sometimes two people who love each other cannot go to the end.
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