How can I change if I feel that I am cowardly and always cry when I quarrel with my family?

I think you have to constantly challenge yourself, I think you have to continue to develop this habit in the experience of daily life, you can overcome your cowardice, because I think everyone has experienced a lot of things, in the case of their own thinking step by step maturity, you will maintain a more rational state, in the experience of a lot of pressure, you yourself will endure step by step, step by step, so in the face of future quarrels, you will also maintain a more rational mind, I don't shed tears easily, so I think you must change your cowardice, I think you must go through a lot of hands-on practice, and the more frustrated you are, the more courageous you will be, so that you can become a stronger person.

I think it's better to improve your self-confidence because you're arguing with your family. It's because you're not capable enough that you feel wronged, but you can still change your emotions, such as diverting your attention, making yourself happy, or talking to a friend. You still have to have a strong heart so that you don't cry.

Faced with such a situation, I think it should. Don't quarrel with your family, you should calm down and communicate calmly. After all, it's all a home, and the quarrels inside are very bad.

At the same time quarrel because. Your experience is relatively low. So in the process of arguing with your family, you can't argue with them, and then you will cry.

Increase your experience, so that your character will become more tenacious, and you won't cry I'm here.

I think it's better to reduce the quarrel with your family if you feel like you're being cowardly and crying all the time in a fight with your family. It's not right to quarrel with your family in the first place. Secondly, because you have less experience after all, so in the process of quarreling with your family, you can't quarrel with them, and of course you will cry.

The best solution is not to quarrel with the parents, and at the same time increase your experience.

If you feel that you are very cowardly, and you always cry when you quarrel with your family, if you want to change, you must hone your own mood, because at this time it may reflect that your heart is very fragile and cannot experience any wind and rain, so at this time you have to go through more things to hone your own heart.

According to you, I think it should be your own problem, first of all, as a child, I don't think it matter what parents do? You shouldn't quarrel with them, because if you quarrel, your parents will be very sad, and your parents will definitely be very sad if you work so hard to raise you and raise you to raise them like this, and because of your own cowardice, they will feel that you are not angry, so I think you should reason with them more, and if you can't do it, go out and have fun and vent.

I think that if you, as a very cowardly person, quarrel at home and cry easily, this problem is actually not a big deal, as long as you don't quarrel with your family. At home, you must be humble, you can't carry it with your parents or siblings, you must analyze everything seriously and reasonably, and you can't do something recklessly.

I think if you think you're cowardly and you always cry when you fight with your family, then this kind of thing reflects your lack of experience, and you need to go through this kind of thing a few more times, and say that after a few more tempering, then practice makes perfect, and you won't cry anymore.

I think at this time you need to adjust your own mentality, because crying is useless, then if you want to feel that you are cowardly, then you can change your behavior through some ways and methods, you can also go to some psychology books, and then adjust your own mentality in time.

I think it's not cowardice that I cry when I quarrel with my family, but there may be other reasons. For example, you care a lot about your relationship with your family. You feel that you can't use quarrels to solve some problems with your family, so after quarreling with your family, you will cry helplessly, and you have suffered too much grievance, but your family can't understand you.

I cry every time I quarrel with my parents, because I always feel that they have wronged me, or because every time he fights with me, it is because I have done something wrong, but I don't feel that I have done wrong, because I feel very wronged, but I will keep telling myself that as long as I stick to my principles and stick to my own ideas, this idea is right. Then I slowly got a lot better.

I think, if one thing can be said well, why quarrel? A long vacation is a particularly bad thing, of course, if a person is soft, he will cry when he hears a quarrel, and he will be uncomfortable, so I think no matter what happens, don't quarrel, just say it well, and it will be better if everyone calms down.

I think everyone cries when they quarrel with their family, but sometimes I think most of them should be in a state of guilt, because they feel that they are my family, and we shouldn't just quarrel with them, which will make both parties angry, so the right way for us is to sit down and talk about it.

It's not cowardice to cry when you quarrel, I think there are several reasons. First, you care a lot about the relationship with your family, so after a quarrel, you feel that you don't want to do this, why do you still have to quarrel to solve it, this is a helpless cry.

Second, the grievances you have suffered are so great that you need to cry to vent.

Parents quarrel, the child's heart will definitely be uncomfortable, at this time, you have to comfort the child more, tell him that no matter how parents quarrel, they quarrel because they love him, let him know that no matter what happens, his parents will not abandon him. Usually, you can take Bao out to play more, contact more children, just slow down, don't be too nervous.

Psychoanalysis: Hello, subject.

Seeing your question, I felt two very different feelings in my heart: anger and relief.

First, let's talk about anger. The function of parents in the family is to maintain the stability and development of the family, in which the mother needs to have a certain emotional tolerance ability to help the child soothe the emotions; And the function of the father needs to give the child guidance and strength. But the reality is quite skinny, as adults, Mom and Dad did not deal with the contradictions and differences between their relationships, and they became more and more intense, and at the same time, Mom's own emotions were unstable.

None of these factors have created a nurturing family growth environment for you, and you need to worry about your parents all the time, how uneasy your heart is! Your inner energy is supposed to be used for studying, but you often need to be distracted to regulate the emotional conflicts within your family. These conflicts at home are not your fault, but you need to share them, how helpless and angry it is.

Second, talk about relief. From your description, you still have the momentum and effort to get rid of even if you are mired in the conflict of the family history court, you will read psychological self-help books, you know that you need to interfere less in the conflict of your parents, you know that you are physically away from your parents to protect your inner vulnerability, and your efforts move and comfort me. Indeed, the affairs and conflicts of the parents are theirs, and they need to be responsible for themselves, and this responsibility includes responsibility for the way and the results of the handling.

At the same time, I also understand that as children, it is natural to love our parents, and we even want to sacrifice ourselves to help our parents. But what I want to say is that you are now entering adolescence, and you have the task of your life stage to develop - the integration of identity unity, which is your focus, if you are too involved in the relationship conflict between your parents, it will hinder your own original development, so it will be more beneficial for you to grow up by staying away from the whirlpool center of parental conflict.

Finally, if you feel that you are unable to handle the strength of your own person, it is recommended to try to talk to friends and trusted elders, you can also consider talking to the school psychology teacher, and even continue to receive psychological counseling to help you stabilize your heart.

Hello kid.

As a mother with an adolescent child, I can understand how you feel. You don't want to see your parents always arguing and trying to persuade them, and I think you're doing a very good job of that! But your parents ignore your feelings and continue their disharmony, and that's what's wrong with them.

Sometimes, we don't have a choice when we are born, and we can't choose what kind of person to be our parents. However, we can choose the path we take. You are at the age of hard work, and you don't have to pay attention to the noisy relationship between Bunacha's parents, and you don't have to pay attention to your mother's hurtful words.

Maybe Min Di is a knife mouth tofu heart, you are his son, a piece of meat that fell from her body, if she doesn't love you, she won't raise you until you are 16 years old. The problems of your parents can be solved by them, and you can devote yourself to your studies with all your heart. Set a goal for your life to strive for, and having a goal will make you put aside your troubles.

If you feel that you still have a knot, talk to a psychologist or a classmate with whom you have a good relationship. Everyone has grown up injured. The injuries you have received will slowly make you stronger.

Summary. You don't feel it in your own heart when you quarrel with your parents, and it is possible that your parents' frequent quarrels have made you commonplace and have no emotional waves. In this case, you should tell your parents in a suitable atmosphere, let them change a certain way of communication, deal with things calmly and rationally, and do not use quarrels to solve problems.

You don't feel it in your own heart when you quarrel with your parents, and it is possible that your parents' frequent quarrels have made you commonplace and have no emotional waves. In this case, you should tell your parents in a suitable atmosphere and ask them to change a certain way of greeting each other, and deal with things calmly and rationally, and do not use quarrels to solve problems.

They don't quarrel very often, the last time was a few months ago, but this time not only yelled, but also cried, and said that they wanted a divorce, but I just didn't feel anything.

You are calmer.

This kind of problem needs to be solved by themselves.

But I don't know why I feel that my mother is crying aggrieved, and I think after I talked to them before, I think it's still a little....That's a little bit of a good mood.

Is it your parents who influence you?