What if you dislike it together, and if you miss it, you think it s true love?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-14
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    This is a typical example of not knowing how to cherish, and not knowing what you want, in fact, you don't think that the one you miss is true love, just a kind of possessiveness. If it is true love, you will have a comprehensive understanding of each other's strengths and weaknesses, and know how to accept each other's shortcomings while valuing each other's strengths.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    It's good to start the next relationship.

    If you dislike it together, it means that it is not true love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Since you've missed it and it's useless to regret it, then look forward and cherish it next time you encounter it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I dislike it together, and I feel like true love after I break up. This shows that you have feelings for each other in your heart, but you don't know how to cherish them when you are together, and this is always wrong and that is wrong. Face yourself bravely, let yourself learn to cherish, and give yourself a chance to find the cherishment that belongs to you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Or you don't love enough, to put it bluntly, you are a person who doesn't know how to cherish. If you get it, you will dislike it, and if you can't get it, you will want it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    What is the point of dislike If it is said that it is disgusted that he is lazy, and he likes to play temper, this kind of trivial thing is actually a manifestation of love, in fact, many feelings are tormented by each other to the point of whiteness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There is a kind of man, maybe his way of expressing love will not be as direct as other men, on the surface you may see his pickiness and dislike of you, but as long as you feel it with your heart, you can appreciate his sincerity.

    Men's love is sometimes restrained, you can't just look at the surface, real love is from the bottom of your heart and cares about you. It's like when you encounter something, he will complain that you are stupid and can't handle things well.

    But for someone who truly loves you, he may hate himself for not being able to help you with anything, so he uses this way to hide his true emotions in his heart.

    People with different personalities have to be treated differently. True love is not only sweet words that are true love, but true love is that even if you don't say it, it will run out of your eyes and really show your heart with your actions.

    He will be there for you when you need him, telling you that you don't have to be forceful when he is there. A man who will behave like this is the one who truly loves you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    At this time, you should shift your attention in time, focus on work and study, make yourself constantly improve, make your life more fulfilling, and completely cut off contact with this person, even your idea should be given up quickly, because there is no way to be together, you should stop the loss in time, so that you will not fall deeper and deeper and suffer greater damage.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Then give up the relationship. I know that I can't be together, so there's no need to continue liking it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When encountering such feelings, you must be able to afford to let go, because such feelings will not bring happiness to yourself, but will only hurt each other's hearts, so you should still bury this relationship in your heart and start a new life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If I have true feelings for someone but can't be together, I will let him know my heart, but I really can't be together, then I will keep this feeling in my heart and enjoy it myself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Couples who have been together for a year dislike each other when they are together, and they really want to break up but they can't open their mouths, and they can't bear this feeling.

    Love over time, that's what it means. In fact, the so-called mutual dislike between two people is only a superficial phenomenon, because after a long time, they will be bored, and the two people will not manage the relationship. There is no novelty.

    Feelings are slowly cultivated in the first years, life is not easy, and it is even more difficult to meet someone who truly loves you, so I hope you still cherish it.

    Don't be greedy for a moment of relief, and propose to break up at every turn, the lethality of the two words is too strong, *** is too great, it may bring irreparable results, hurt others and hurt yourself. Your addiction is too much, but it will undoubtedly push the relationship between the two into the abyss.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Actually, this is not difficult to understand. First of all, there is an old Chinese saying that the people will see the hearts of the people over time. Like you said, couples who have been together for a year dislike each other when they are together, so why do they dislike each other?

    It must be because they know each other a little bit. Whether it's an advantage or a disadvantage. will be more or less exposed!

    However, if you really want to break up, you can't open your mouth again, that's because after all, after being together for a year, you still have feelings, and it is impossible to break up when you break up. I must be reluctant in my heart, reluctant to give up this feeling. Couples like you who have been together for a year.

    It's definitely more difficult to say that it's time to break up. It won't be as simple as breaking up after a month or two of getting along!

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is an old Chinese saying called love over time, couples like you who have been together for a year, dislike each other when they are together, and they can't open their mouths when they really want to break up, and they are reluctant to give up this feeling, which means that you actually have a place in each other's hearts, and it is not as you imagine that there is no status, no feelings. Since it is said that it is reluctant, there must be feelings in it. I think you belong to the kind of happy enemies, so you dislike each other when you are together, but you can't open your mouth when you break up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Couples who have been together for a year must have feelings more or less, and when they are together, they don't feel that they are used to it, and if they want to break up, they will find that they are reluctant, after all, they have gone through a year together, and they have good memories, of course they will be reluctant, even if they dislike each other a little, but what they remember is each other's good, which is normal. If you can continue to be together, please cherish it for both parties, after all, there are still feelings!

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's normal for couples who have been together for a year to dislike each other. Because in the course of a year, the strengths and weaknesses of both sides are basically exposed to each other. At this time, the merits of both sides are no longer cared about.

    And the shortcomings of the other party make you can't help but dislike it. At this time, the two sides need to run in, how to tolerate each other's shortcomings? People are not sages, and it is impossible to be without shortcomings.

    It depends on how you both resolve the contradictions that arise because of each other's shortcomings.

    It's really going to break up, but you can't open your mouth. I can't bear this feeling, so you can see that there is true love between you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    has been together for more than a year, which means that the two of you have been in a relationship, and mutual dislike may be a run-in period.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe after the run-in period, you have slowly become familiar with each other, and naturally you are reluctant.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    After getting along for a long time, there will always be dependence, so I am reluctant to leave.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The journey of the heart is the journey of life, and the process of feeling all things in the world with the heart is life. The beauty of life lies in our discovery and taste, and the hardships of life need us to taste and experience. I encounter this similar situation every day, most of them can improve, because they have the right direction, study hard, if you don't believe it, you can read the article, many years of experience are in it, and you can still guide if you don't understand.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It makes sense, it's not suitable for two people to be together, if it's not suitable, it's true love to be together.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First, the two can grow and progress together together, and everything will get better and better. Second, the two get along very relaxed, and they are both in the best and most comfortable state. Third, there are always endless words to say together.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When you get along with each other, you will feel very secure, and at the same time, you will feel that you can find a sense of attachment to each other, which is a manifestation of true love.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you are comfortable and comfortable with each other, you won't feel embarrassed even if you don't have to do anything deliberately; You can meet without washing your hair or makeup, because you feel that the other party will never leave you no matter what, that is true love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When men and women get along, these feelings appear to show that you are true love for each other.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Two people will feel very happy together, special happiness, will appreciate each other, and then many times two people will have some tacit understanding, especially in some things, ideas and opinions will be the same.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Two people are relaxed together and don't feel depressed. Two people are happy together and don't feel lonely.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Both parties can give each other enough security to trust you. It is a couple of true love, they will be very happy and happy together, even if they quarrel, they will not go to the cold war.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, and it's a little hard to accept, but you have to face the fact that he says that he won't be free with you, and he doesn't want to be with you for the sake of freedom, and he pushes the reason why he left you on you, which seems so logical, but in fact he is shirking responsibility, and he is using freedom to pressure you! Think about it, if he really wants to be free, he should stay single, why would he want to find another woman? Why don't you even want freedom for the sake of other women?

    The only way to do it now ... Don't pester him anymore, or he'll accuse you with more reasons like "freedom", and then use those reasons to leave you openly, and finally put the responsibility for leaving you on you, and if it does get to that point, it seems to the outside world that it's your fault that he left you "very reluctantly", so there's no need to complicate things, and the best thing to do now is to give him the so-called "freedom" so that your situation doesn't worsen -- it doesn't mean that you give up, it's also a way to keep him And before you give him freedom, show your sincerity and make him feel that you still love him. Then rest assured to give him freedom Don't communicate with him ** in the process Think about him and occasionally send him a text message You have been together for more than a year, you must have feelings Men only know how to cherish after losing If he really loved you before Then after a long time, he will definitely take the initiative to contact you If it is he who takes the initiative Hee hee Everything has become very simple, How wonderful the lost and regained relationship should be Like returning to the first love!

    If he doesn't miss you at all. The attitude towards you is even more half-hearted, then... Give it up, there's no need to waste your feelings on someone who doesn't love you...

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Long-distance relationships can't last long, long time is only what fantasy once had, strangeness and loneliness make people easy to deteriorate, love is to maintain getting along, real society.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Men are like this, maybe you have been together for a long time, I have an expiration date, and people are tired of looking at it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    My girlfriend and I don't know if we will walk into your way, to be honest, sometimes I'm afraid to pick her up**, I think,,, I have a lot to say, and I'll tell you when I think about it, good night.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Emotional crisis, difficult to solve. It's tangled! It's just that you care too much, you hold too tightly. On the contrary, the more he wanted to break free. It's not that you don't love, it's just that you had an emotional blockage before.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    What about writing essays, this is a consultation for the ** disease category, you check it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you don't love but are reluctant to let go, you have to muster up the courage to try again, not to force it, but to not regret it, to try your best to keep each other and express your truest emotions.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    First of all, you must think clearly about what kind of life you want, will you live happily with someone you don't love, if you can't accept it, you should break up as soon as possible, it is best for each other.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Since you don't love anymore, you have to choose to let go, because there is no need to continue this kind of love, and even if it continues, it will not end well, but will only bring deeper harm to yourself.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You should stick to your heart, let yourself think clearly, and only when you really think through can you have the courage to let go.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Some couples dislike each other but do not separate, this is because in the eyes of these couples, disliking each other is a manifestation of love. Disliking each other is love, and naturally cannot be separated.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Because they still like each other very much, although they dislike each other, it's just a kind of love spice, although they complain about each other, but they also appreciate each other's advantages, so they split up.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    They originally liked to love and kill each other, and although they disliked each other, they still loved each other, and they loved each other so deeply that they could never be separated.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It is normal for couples to dislike each other, disliking each other proves that they value each other, and if they are two irrelevant people, they will not dislike each other, which also proves that they love each other more deeply.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Some couples dislike each other, but they don't separate, how many situations are there?

    The first situation is that they are too familiar with each other to be reluctant to separate, and they may not find a better one after separation, and they will live in a strange form.

    The second situation is that the mouth is just talking, that is, I like to say and like the Tao, but it is impossible to really separate, and to put it bluntly, it is cheap.

    The third is that you really want to separate. I also have this thought, but I haven't found the next home yet, so I will pass it.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Because they just like to love and kill each other, although they dislike each other, they still love each other.

  45. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Disliking each other does not mean that they don't love, they don't tolerate each other's shortcomings, they can dislike each other, they are noisy and inseparable, they are all playing tricks, and it is not easy for such people to separate.

  46. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    The reason why they dislike each other and do not separate can only be the depth of their love for each other. Or not to the point of breaking up.

    First, the accumulation of contradictions has not yet reached the breaking point, two people in the daily relationship, there will always be all kinds of unsatisfactory, the inevitable point of mutual dislike is because of the existence of contradictions, and more and more problems will be exposed after being together for a long time. For example, values, consumption outlook, outlook on life, etc., these things are not something that can be seen in a short period of time, only in the relationship between each other slowly manifested, but the other party is not so acceptable, it is bound to quarrel, one party assures, corrects, over time the contradictions and differences will become deeper and deeper, and finally to the point of no return.

    Second, there are things that contain each other, the longer they are together, the more they integrate into each other's lives, from the beginning of the rejection, strangeness to inseparable, become habits, many things are changing imperceptibly, although there are constant quarrels in the middle, but they will endure and regress, do not want to end like this, do not want their efforts for so long, habits come to naught, rather than re-adapt to the loss of everything now, it is better to adjust and change to live.

    There are thousands of people's opinions on feelings, and everyone's attitude towards feelings is also different, there are many reasons why quarrels are inseparable, but there is only one reason for wanting to separate, that is, not enough love. People who want to go on well will find a way to solve these contradictions, instead of easily saying a breakup; People who get by will not care so much, but they can't get real love, because they don't know how to tolerate and don't give. Feelings are not commodities and cannot be measured; It's not a question on an exam paper, there is no standard answer, and every choice you make in a relationship is the answer you want.

    Those couples who have experienced quarrels and are inseparable should cherish each other even more, and if they say so many ugly and hurtful things during a quarrel, the other party can tolerate and accept them.

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