What should I do when I meet a duplicitous person but have to socialize?

It's very simple to deal with this kind of person, leave half a point for everything, don't talk about death, don't believe everything he says....

Then keep politeness and distance, and don't usually interact with each other except for daily interactions.

Say hello to everyone more, don't throw away all your heart. Everyone who comes is a guest, and they welcome the guests with a smile. Be sincere to people and do things sincerely! Making friends is a close friend, and making friends can not be light. ‍‍

No matter who you are, trust your instincts and rational judgment, treat each other with courtesy, and don't follow the crowd. Duplicity should also be divided into situations: if it involves personal privacy, it may just be to avoid embarrassment; If it is a trade secret, it may be to confuse an opponent; If it involves the interests of others to express your position, you know that duplicity is normal.

I think when you get along, you should pay attention not to have any friction between words, and don't refute anything. Otherwise, it can be very unpleasant.

Duplicity is inherently untrue, no matter what the reason. If it's me, I'll keep an appropriate safe distance, and I'll be able to do it until the end.

When some people have to face it, you don't have to treat him sincerely, except for what must be said, it is better to say less, especially your own private affairs.

It's impossible to be friends with duplicity, unless it's a colleague you meet at work, and you can't talk without talking. Do what you want without getting tired, and do things according to the environment to death. ‍‍

Then return the body of the person with the way of others, and spend the heart of the villain with the belly of the villain! One day he won't be able to stand you, and he will naturally leave you. Nowadays, it is easier to be a villain than to be a gentleman, so why bother to be difficult for yourself for a villain!

It's good to get used to it, do your own thing, others really don't have much to do with you, why bother living for him, there is so little time every day, think more about yourself and your family.

If it is family members and loved ones, be more understanding and tolerant, because of love, think about what they have paid for you, after all, the relatives who love themselves the most in the world are relatives, no matter when they still give them more face and steps. [If there is really something that can't stand it], [on the premise of not hurting the other party's self-esteem], (remember this extreme situation and this premise), if the other party is a junior or a junior, you can choose to simply say that he is not, and it is also for their good, and they will understand in the future (my brother likes to say this about me, it is indeed very unpleasant to listen to, but then I understood that what he said was quietly sleepy); If the other party is an elder, say it as tactfully as possible, and say it bluntly, first of all, it is disrespectful, and then it is not good to not give people steps. (To put it bluntly, you have to divide people when you speak to your relatives, just like the tone you speak to your parents must not be the same as your uncles and aunts, I won't explain them one by one).

Words from friends. You can tactfully say that he is inappropriate, or try to be as tolerant as possible, after all, if you can become friends, it already shows that he has something that you appreciate and like. (In extreme cases, you can do it @ @.)

Strangers, don't bother with him, as if you didn't see or hear, hate in your heart but don't show it in action, you can look at his usual artificiality, or you can tentatively contact him to see, as long as there are no moral problems, there are still extenuating circumstances, as much as possible to show his advantages. But if there is a problem with the character. Let's look at it for a while longer and see if there are any flattering merits.

Actually, it's my style, and you can be like me, or you can choose to stay away from that person. ）

There is no shortage of Maxima in the world, what is lacking is Bole's eyes that are good at discovery. >

In fact, everyone has a shining point, and you have to be good at discovering it, at least I don't hate the people I hated before, because I understand this truth.

It boils down to discovering more, tolerating more, and loving more.

You can get by on the surface, just understand it in your heart.