Why should love be so painful??? Please, 3Q

Updated on physical education 2024-08-03
2 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Actually, I think it's inevitable that two people will feel dull when they're together, and you're not happy before, that's because you don't know each other very well, so he often coaxes you. But now he thinks it's normal, you have your unhappiness, and he has his sorrows. So we all have to understand each other.

    In fact, we often feel that it is because we love him that we tell him everything, your unhappiness, your sorrows, and the shortcomings of your daily life. In fact, we also know that the reason why it is sweet at the beginning is because you only see the good in the other person, even if it is not good, at a certain moment, you feel very good. But when the dust falls, shortcomings begin to be shortcomings, and time restores them to their original colors!

    We think that by presenting our good and bad things to our lover, we are loving him, but in fact, if you really love him, how can you be willing to let him worry about you and feel sorry for you, how dare you put all your shortcomings there and force him to accept it? If you really love Him, you will change yourself, not Him. It's normal that love isn't there, but if love can't be transformed into family affection, then sooner or later it will break up.

    So, if you really love him, ask yourself if he has changed, and don't criticize him for not being as good as before. Because you are not what you used to be. In fact, it's not just men who don't cherish it when they get it, women too, and this is inevitable.

    In fact, lovers are what we want to cherish, not trash cans, not places where we pour bitter water. You have to understand each other more, go out and play together appropriately, and find something new to do, hehe, it's like cooking, when you fall in love, you occasionally cook a meal, and feel very happy, but after cooking, you cook every day, no matter who it is, it will be annoying! Don't worry that your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore.

    He still loves you very much, but he also has his troubles, maybe he still blames you for not sharing it with him, so let's talk slowly and think about it slowly. It's good, don't be sad, just find the freshness, don't lose your temper, that will not only be bad for your own health, but also hurt your feelings! In fact, everyone has their own life to face, and you can get support from your lover, but you still have to face things on your own!

    Whether you are happy or unhappy, you must face it with a smile.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Love can sometimes make people feel painful, but love can also make people feel very happy, and this kind of happiness is incomprehensible to ordinary people....

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