When you go to college, will you choose a school far from home?

I am the kind of child who is particularly free, it is impossible for me to live with my parents, I like to do my own things unrestrained, my parents give too many constraints, and they will always say that they are worried about the future, so that I always have a sense of crisis, I have to leave our small place at home, go to the outside world to work hard.

I don't want to be too far from home if I could. But we don't have a university there, so it's sad.

It's okay to be far away, you can go out and see the outside world to exercise yourself and don't always rely on home, and now the transportation is so convenient, you can go home at any time.

I went to other places in college, because I didn't want to listen to my parents' nagging, it was enough, and it was annoying. I was bent on staying away from home, away from them, and having my own life, but then when my parents were sick and no one took care of them, I realized how naïve and ridiculous my idea was, nothing could compare to the company of my children, if I could do it again, I would definitely choose to stay with them, even if the university was poor, but it was good to have them.

Before I grew up, I always looked forward to growing up as an adult soon, and I always felt that I would be free at that time, and I didn't have to listen to the nagging of my parents, and I could finally make my own decisions in my life, which had nothing to do with filial piety, but just mental maturity and independence.

Yes, I've had enough of my parents, and I feel like the generation gap between us is quite large. They don't understand anything, and when they talk to them about something, they can think about it for a long time, and they can't keep up with my train of thought at all, and it's a little difficult to communicate. Besides, what's so good about our small county, it's very closed, and if you stay here, you won't see the future at all.

I don't want to live in our fifth-tier small city for a lifetime, in the end I can't even get together the money to buy a house, and I don't have a decent car, so that my classmates look down on me, I can't raise my head in front of everyone, knowledge is the easiest way to change my fate, the opportunity of the college entrance examination is so precious, I will not let it go easily, I will seize it, resolutely leave, go to the outside city to work hard, and realize my dream.

I will never leave my hometown, my parents are not in good health, and no one takes care of them, I want to stay with them, so that I can also take care of my life, in case something happens, it is convenient for me to go home. When you go to college, the key is still in yourself, the master leads you into the door, and the cultivation is in the individual. I study hard, I will shine in **, I don't mind choosing a school that is almost close, a school close to home, as long as I can be with my parents, I can sacrifice everything I have, I don't want to be like what is written in the ancient poem, the tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop, and the son wants to raise but does not wait.

I'm especially afraid that there will be such a scene, and I'm afraid that it will be too late to regret it by then.

While you're growing up on your own, your parents are getting older. My parents have worked hard to raise me for more than 20 years, and I am the only child in the family. I chose a city close to my neighborhood to go to school, so I could go home to see my parents often and spend more time with them.

When I have a financial foundation for my future work, I will take my parents on trips and buy them the best clothes.

I came to work in the so-called big city, with better room for development and greater potential for growth, and the original intention was to let my parents live a better life. But after my mother got sick, I found out that I was in Party A, and my parents were in B, and I was useless! They can't feel the so-called high-quality medical services in big cities, they can't experience the transportation system of big cities in all directions, and all the things in big cities are the same for them.

So I'm never going to go out of town.

Leaving my hometown was a seed planted when I was a child, and I wanted to see the outside world, but not much, because I grew up in the city, and I didn't feel that my hometown was backward, and I didn't imagine the so-called flower world outside. Maybe it's just that I've watched too many Zhengda variety shows, so I want to come out. The core reason is due to being at home, there is no love.

In fact, I think I should really choose a university that is closer to home, so that I can go home often, and I won't have too many worries about working in the city in the future.

I think as long as it's not a key university, it's better to be close to home, because in this way, it's easier for me to go home, and the classmates around me are from the same province as me.

Some college students like to choose a school close to home, because they can often go home, eat the meals cooked by their mothers, and feel the warmth of the family, and some college students like to choose a school far away from home, probably because their parents have been too strict with them since they were young and feel that they have no freedom, so they will choose a school far away from home and can live freely.

You should choose to be far away from home, because going to a university farther away allows you to see the wider world, and at the same time, you can cultivate your own life experience, which is also very useful for your future employment.

It's better to stay away from home, talk more and see what's bad about the outside world, don't always be in one place, you can broaden your horizons and spiritual world outside, which will be better for your future development.

The choice of college is close to home or far from home, it still depends on the individual, close to home, then of course it will be more convenient to go home, and some people choose to stay away from home, mainly because they want to get out of their parents' wings and want to go out on their own.

You should choose one that is far away from home, so that it is an experience for yourself, and you can also increase your knowledge, which is good for your future development.

You should choose a university that is a little further away from home. Because this can cultivate the child's ability to survive independently, and it can also provide better help for the child to go to work in the future.

Personally, I think it is better to choose a university that is closer to home, so that I can often go home to visit my parents in this city in the future, which will really be very convenient.

If the place where I go to school is very close to home, I can go back to see them every weekend, but now because the place where I go to school is far away from home, I can only call them every week. Ask them how they've been doing lately and how they're doing.

In addition to the culture, the scenery of the north and the south is even more different. In the short vacation, I will go to the scenic spots near Hangzhou, such as Suzhou, Wuzhen, Xitang, Shanghai, Nanjing, Wuhan, and measure with my footsteps and feel with my heart. When I went to college, I had already said goodbye to myself who was led by my parents to visit the scenic spots, and the scenery I saw was really worthy of the road I had walked.

Home is simply paradise. People often say: There is heaven above and Suzhou and Hangzhou below.

Everyone compares Suzhou and Hangzhou to paradise, but when they left home, they found that a place with a home is heaven. When I was a freshman, my classmates in the dormitory who were close to home went home every now and then, and they had long been numb. I asked her how she felt when she came home, and if she was happy.

She said lightly, that's it, how can you use the word happiness as you say.

Every time school starts, it takes a long time to take the train back to school. The school is about 1500km away from home, so I always struggle with it. It is too expensive to take a plane or high-speed train, but it takes a long time to take a regular train.

In the end, I had no choice but to sit in Pulie, which took about 26 hours. It's a long time.

The world is so big, I really feel it. Before, I thought that the Chinese nation should eat dumplings on the winter solstice, dumplings will be made during the New Year, zongzi are sweet, glutinous rice balls and Lantern Festival are the same, and pears should be eaten for stinging. Later I found out that I was wrong, it was just a custom in the north, and even in my hometown.

When I went to school in Hangzhou, many of my classmates in the south told me that they didn't eat dumplings at all during the Chinese New Year, but ate rice cakes. In the south, the winter solstice eats glutinous rice balls, the zongzi eats salted meat dumplings, and the stunning does not eat pears at all (it seems that many places in the north don't eat (<).

Maybe it's because I'm used to eating the food of my hometown, and I suddenly came to a foreign land, and it's far away from home, so I don't adapt to the food here. I always feel that the food that is particularly delicious in other people's mouths has become tasteless to me, and I still miss the food of my hometown, but it seems that it has become very difficult to eat the food of my hometown for the last time.