Learning and psychological problems, please be able to advise 50

The game is just a way to relax, imagine what if you leveled up and practiced to be invincible in the world? The lifespan of online games will never exceed 5 years, which means that the game will be obsolete within 5 years, and merchants are always developing new games to meet players' needs for freshness, so online games are not only a waste of everyone's time, but also money.

The problem of spending money is to rely on one's own restraint, everyone has vanity, but it must be controlled to a certain extent, after all, we spend the hard-earned money of our parents, if you experience the hard work of earning money, maybe you will not spend it so carelessly.

You have to fully believe in yourself and tell yourself that you can do it, and you can do it! As long as you put your mind to it, there is no problem that cannot be solved, isn't it mathematics? Boys generally learn math faster than girls, so grasp the key points of each chapter and practice the problems appropriately.

Figure out the central idea, recite the formula, and I'm sure you can do it! ^_

Since you haven't learned math well, you have to spend more time. Are you good at math in junior high school?

There is a coherence in the subject of mathematics, so you can start from the first page of the mathematics textbook in the first year of high school, record what you don't understand, and ask your math teacher during recess or evening self-study time. A little bit of understanding, memorize all the formulas, and practice more, it will naturally be good. Remember that mathematics does not have to be memorized in liberal arts, it depends on understanding, and it is only when you really want to understand it, and practicing and doing more will also help you understand it.

I don't think you have time to think about games or spending money until you get your hands on the math.

Of course, the process is hard and difficult, and you have to be mentally prepared.

When you see a significant improvement in your score on the exam paper, you feel good at that time.

The solution to the first problem is:

If you can't restrain yourself from playing with the computer, you will unplug it.

If you can't restrain yourself from spending money, don't go out with money.

Question 2:

You are in your third year of high school before you think about working hard, you can only say, you are hopeless But if you are willing to work hard now, you should be able to improve with several times more time and energy than others, but there is no guarantee that you can learn well After all, you haven't studied much for three years

Everything has to be planned step by step.

Health and the future are more important than anything else, and resting and studying to develop good habits are the foundation for doing everything well.

Friend, I believe that you have realized that this is not good, and you will definitely be able to do it well through hard work.

The more you want to get the likes and affirmation of others, the harder it is to get, and for others, your request is burdensome, so there will be some rejection of what you give. Did you not get enough love as a child??? So now there is always a desire to be loved.

Only by seeing and accepting and letting go, and living only for yourself, will others like you to play with you, because in your heart, you no longer feel that you are a person who needs to be loved, a person who deserves to be loved.

Everyone's brain thinks differently, don't ask why, if you think it's good, do it, change it if it's bad, we know too little, especially people's mental and psychological problems

It's not that you're cheap, it's the person you want to approach is cheap, are you having a problem with your relationship, always hurting others or something, causing everyone to avoid you, generally speaking, raise your hand and don't hit the smiling person, pay attention to the way.

I know. Because you are afraid that others will abandon you. So the closer you get to others, there's only one reason. That is, it cannot be abandoned.

That's about that. Give up appropriately and find someone who truly cherishes you.

..Explain below: What are you doing on the 1st-4th floors. It's all said that it's not a crush. What.?/.

This phenomenon is not unique. This is true for children in adolescence. Although you are already in high school.

Character as you say. It should be more introverted. But that doesn't mean you're not a child who has passed puberty.

You will still be attracted to the opposite sex. And she makes a very good impression on you. So.

You will remember her. Of course, I will also care about her actions because of this. So.

At this time, there will be an inexplicable excitement in the psyche or. Nervous. Although it's a bit like a crush.

But I just want to make good friends with her. `!And pay special attention during your period'Face'So.

To disguise this thought. will be special to her, and this special will be known to others. There will be heckling again.

Your psyche. By others who say so. I will also become more aware of my own psychological problems.

Or: Fall in love with her? This is quite normal.

It's up to you to deal with it. Step up your game.

Enthusiastic Xiaoxin!

Very normal!

You have a crush on her, you like her!

I'm also very normal with multiple female classmates in proper relationships.

It's a pleasure to talk to pretty girls.

Hello friends, this is a big problem for you, and you must pay attention to it.

Let me give you a brief analysis: you have enrolled yourself in a training class, which shows that you know that it is important to learn more knowledge, and you require yourself to start reading in five minutes, which shows that you have a certain degree of self-discipline. So why did I sign up for the training course and not go much, and after five minutes I still didn't open the book to study, and I was entangled in this?

In fact, if you start to analyze from the ideological level, it is easy to find out the root cause of the problem, and in the final analysis, you are lacking the source of power in your heart. As we all know, all human behaviors are governed by ideological concepts, and when ideological concepts are wrong, behavior will naturally be wrong. For example, if a smoker knows that smoking is bad for his health, why would he still smoke?

Because most smokers are not very clear about the harm of smoking, the motivation to quit smoking naturally is insufficient. You know that studying hard is important for your future, but you don't know what you're going to do in the future, or you don't know what you're going to be in the future.

We should light a beacon in our hearts and find a clear direction for our life, which will guide you through the obstacles, otherwise we will be lost in the vast sea forever. Be a bee with a purpose, not a fly with no head, whether in life or ......at work

Finally, I would like to give you a little advice: although I did not go to college, I have heard many people talk about life in college, I think if you want to do something in the future, don't let yourself become a crowd, you must have your own independent personality and principles, students are immersed in the online world all day long, eating, drinking, and comparing with each other, you had better come out of such an environment, maybe your classmates will use some words to ridicule you something, but you have to realize that people who are too easily influenced by others, There is no need to talk about the future at all.

Calm yourself down, clear your mind first, and then you will know how to do what you need to do.

There are principles and no chaos, and there are plans and no busy", let yourself be a principled person, because the principles that people abide by are often easy and not chaotic.

First of all, you have to have faith in yourself. I think you are actually a sign of avoidance deep down, and you are afraid that even if you give, you will not get the results you want. In fact, as long as you work hard and really pay, even if you don't get it in the end, it will be a gain.

Because with the first effort, you just know how to work hard in the future, and it won't be so hard to start next time.

Reading also needs a little bit of gradual progress, at the beginning you can set a plan for yourself, take your time, start with half an hour, slowly add time, and finally you will get into the state, this is really not a hurry, you just lack a good habit.

Even if you haven't done it before, it's still too late, thinking that you are still young, don't wait until you really enter the society, and then regret that it will really be too late. And now the efforts can also develop a good habit, which is the most important thing for you, after entering the society, you will thank you for the good habits you have formed, then you will see the benefits, look at the long term, the current small gains and losses will not determine your future.

There is really nothing others can do about your own control, you can use other things to divert your attention, or to a more relaxed environment.

Normal phenomenon has been experienced by the average person.

Understanding mistakes is also a form of growth. The textbook we learn must have wrong content in it, but, as the landlord said, you just "suspect" that the textbook is wrong, and you don't know that the mistake is **. Then, you might as well understand first, as experience, experience, and knowledge increase, you will find out what is right, and what is dubious or simply not agreeable with it.

At that time, if you experience the thinking activities that followed the wrong content at the beginning, you will have a deeper understanding of the causes and working mechanism of the error, so as to better compensate for the mistake and form the correct thought, which is the growth that understanding the mistake brings to you. (Not to mention that it may be up to you to correct this existing mistake in the future, so you must fully understand it.) You now have a questioning heart, which is very valuable, and you can develop it into a dialectical view of the problem, that is, when you study the textbook, don't just look at the words and memorize them, but understand the meaning behind the words, maintain your own independent thinking, and think more about the problems behind them.

Let's learn more!

Learning still has to be learned, and under the current system, you can only do things according to the rules of the game. If you give up studying hard for this reason, you will definitely regret it. A good person is someone who can get a high score in the exam and has his own opinions and strong ability. ）

It is true that history has caused many mistakes, but it is necessary to study, and these wrong things still need us to work hard to prove that these things are wrong after we have achieved results, and this cannot be a reason to affect learning.

First of all, I want to ask you a question: there is a ship in the Pacific Ocean, and now the sea is northeast wind, will the ship be docked with a tailwind or a headwind?

Tailwind? Headwinds?

As you may have noticed, the topic is not rigorous and does not tell you that the ship is going** This is the first question I want to tell you: the goal.

High school students should have their own clear goals and know why they are studying, otherwise the help you seek from parents, teachers, friends, including you online will not be your "tailwind".

You must have self-confidence, believe that every word you have read and every question you have done will not betray you, quantitative change will always cause qualitative change, as long as you are willing to work hard.

You can force yourself to study without distractions for a while, and you will find the joy of it.

You can talk to teachers you trust, who are very experienced, and tell them about your current problems.

Make a time plan. Set a time for studying. Just stick to it and slowly form a habit. It will be too late to continue like this. Observe how the other students are working hard. Learn from them. Close to Zhu Zhechi.

In the age of computers, it is necessary to surf the Internet, but for high school students, substantive learning is more important. Stay away from the computer, and you will gradually find that your life would be more fulfilling without the computer. Good luck with your studies!

I recommend reading the book "Change Your Mind", which may have some effect.

It would be better to see a psychiatrist for his help.

Two words: Concentrate! I'm doing well because of these two words!

If you have nothing to do and study in the classroom, in the third year of high school, there will definitely be a tense atmosphere in the classroom, and in this atmosphere, you will also be nervous, so you will study.

High school students are still psychologically immature for love. Although it makes you want to fall in love because of the impulse of puberty, the love of high school students is often fruitless.

If you don't have anything to do with love, maybe it's just because you don't have your heart. Maybe in the eyes of girls, you are too cold to approach and get along. Or you are more indifferent to the world, and they are afraid that they will be tired with you. Maybe you don't understand love, so they just want to be friends with you.

It could also be because the girl in your life hasn't shown up yet.

If you can't find what you love, you can't study hard, don't live seriously, and give up on yourself, isn't it even more inconspicuous? So you should use 'Can't find love' as a motivation to make yourself better than ever in all aspects, and turn yourself into a rare good boy, which will definitely be very sought-after...

If you are afraid that you will fall in love in the future and delay your studies and increase the burden of life, it is also unnecessary. Even if you find someone you love, you can't guarantee that you can be with her forever, so you have to leave yourself a way out. Don't give everything you have to the other person.

Don't hurt yourself for the sake of the other person. Having a healthy body is an important prerequisite for anything...I am not afraid of 10,000 in everything, but I am afraid of what happens.

Only if you prepare in advance will you not be deeply hurt.

In short, you just need to continue to live happily and don't think about anything.

Just make yourself better and better. Others don't love you, isn't it their loss?

Besides, even if you can't find someone you love now, you will find it in the future.

Youth is our bargaining chip, you are a big boy, you have such good conditions, what are you afraid of!