If you want to be a little more tolerant, what are some related book recommendations?

Never guess what other people are thinking, because people who think about other people's thoughts are never happy people. Everyone should pay attention to what is going on in their hearts, and it would be sad to not be able to do that. "Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact.

Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth. "Meditations".

I recommend "The Road Less Traveled", which is a book of psychology. I read a paragraph as I stopped to think deeply. This book has helped me a lot, it talks about self-discipline, love, religion, etc., and it is suitable for people who are confused to read, at least it helps me a lot.

If you don't dislike boredom, reading history books can improve yourself very well.

This is another book by a classical teacher, a self-discovery book "Tear Down the Wall of Thinking" Why are many people tired? It is because the mind has not been broken, like seeing a wall in front of you, and you need to change your thinking and practice; Personally, I very much agree with the chapter in it that says that success cannot be copied, and for example, it is much stronger than chicken soup for the soul, which can make people enlightened. Maybe when you see it, you will get used to it, and slowly over time, you will become more tolerant and generous.

A more profound and enlightening ** "The Sea, the Sea", the plot is relatively compact, and the characters are also very vivid, although the content is very long, it will not be boring to read at all. One feature is that the author's description of thinking is very detailed, and the author's own thoughts run through it, which is also its inspiration, but this technique compresses the reader's thinking space to a certain extent. But despite this, this book is also one of the best books I've bought in a year.

Why did Ordinary World push it all my life, because it had too much influence on me. I believe that everyone who has experienced poverty will find their own shadow in "Ordinary World" after watching it. Of course, I'm no exception. Every time I look at it, I feel like I've lived a lifetime.

Read the classics. Although classics may not improve you much, after all, they have been polished for countless years, and they are still passed down to this day, and they are called classics, which are naturally much better than those online romances, at least there is no harm. But how much you can absorb from it and how much you can improve your own literacy still depends on your own comprehension ability.

"Wuthering Heights", it's pretty good. Stick to it.

Jane Eyre is also pretty good.

The Woman Who Didn't Exist

Good luck.

It's good to suffer more losses, and I'm very generous, just because I suffer more losses.

Some people are very cautious because they haven't suffered much.

I have a friend who has a very bad temper, she is always angry about a little thing, I hate her to death, but I still endure it, and I endure it for gold.

Careful and jealous can only bring trouble to yourself and be afraid that others will know that in the end you will be angry Why bother So relax and look at the blue sky more.

Also, you have to learn to easily forget the bad things of others, and you must always remember the good things of others, and over time, you will find that it is so simple to get along with others.

I often think that if I am so generous and tolerant, others will treat me like this, so I am more motivated. If you treat others like this, others will treat you like this, although sometimes you will suffer, but you will gain more!

Why do you want to be generous, I myself am too generous, so generous that others know that I am a "good person", and they still bully me!

My boss often says that I have a very nice personality, cuteness, and a big heart. But a lot of people are always expecting me ... So a lot of things are at a loss...

Hehe.. Sometimes I feel so stupid. I'd rather be wronged than unhappy with others.

Anyway, it's okay to do what others say.

It would be nice to shift your attention to the general direction.

Be tolerant of each other and think more about each other

Let yourself become a person who doesn't care about anything.

Generosity doesn't change, it depends on the person.

Your personality is someone who likes to think nonsense, and you have to understand why you're unhappy.

Let me be clear

When you encounter an unpleasant thing, you will remember it firmly, and then you will take it and think about it, and think about it for a while, and constantly think about why he treated me like this, and keep thinking about how I am so unlucky, and keep thinking about how the world is so unfair, and when you do this, when you think like this, you are inflating your pain at a very fast speed, magnifying and amplifying the pain, until one day, you do something extreme, either go crazy or go crazy.

But a generous person will not, there are several ways to train.

1。Keep a diary of unpleasant things and simply record them. Leave it alone when you're done.

2。Find a jar, write the unpleasant on a slip of paper, and throw it in the jar when you are done, it is better to make a funnel mouth without a lid, you can only go in and out, and forget about it when you go in.

3。Find a window to talk and vent, say it, vent it, and then tell yourself, how generous I am, how happy I am, it's fine.

You see if it helps, the method is not important, the important thing is that you know why you are unhappy and then overcome it yourself, no one can help you but yourself.

Open your heart and learn from the optimistic people around you.

Treat everyone to your loved ones.

Recite the name of Guanyin Bodhisattva more often, because this Bodhisattva is great compassion.

If you recite more, you will have an old impression with her.

The so-called "tolerance is great", to be tolerant, first of all, you have to relax and look farther. The second is to go out and see more, see the scenery, climb the mountain, and enjoy life. After a long time, you will feel that there are some things that are not worth caring about.

The most effective way is if you want you to be alive, if not? Many are relieved.

I have also been troubled by the problem, a good way is to go for a walk, broaden your horizons more, go around the world, talk more, don't hold back everything

Think from the other person's point of view in everything. Don't forget that I'm a man.

Intolerance is not generous because you want too much, and it doesn't matter to you if anything matters. Would you not be generous? Lao Zhuang's typical idea is to be quiet and inactive, so there were many hermits in ancient times, and hermits are generally unconventional and generous.

Look at everything a little bit and don't care about what you've paid. For example, if someone else has done something sorry for you, so that you are very angry, you can learn to take a deep breath and smile at him or her, because he she has taught you to be tolerant; Others have never ignored you, and have always regarded you as a thorn in the flesh, you can take the initiative to talk to her about how big her frame is, convince others with virtue, and repay grievances with virtue, and you will be grateful to him and her in the future, because she He taught you how to make yourself optimistic and positive from adversity; Today you invite someone to eat a very expensive meal, don't keep it in mind, the next time he or she has something to ask you for help, and you still rush to pay the bill when you eat together, it will reflect your generosity. Of course, these are just some very inconspicuous things, and it is up to the landlord to experiment with specific things.