What should I pay attention to when giving birth to a second child?

Due to the liberalization of China's policy now, many families have begun to have a second child, in fact, it is indeed very good to have a second child, coupled with the aging of China's current urban population, having a second child can also alleviate this phenomenon. But there are some problems with having a second child, so I'll talk about it carefully with you today.

There are some only children because they have grown up and everything is a share, so they will not share, they will be particularly selfish, and the second child can also alleviate this phenomenon, and after the second child is born, it can also let the two children learn to share. There are also some only children who will be very lonely on the road of their own growth, and they can't find someone to talk about when they encounter things, but if they have a brother or sister, this phenomenon can be alleviated. All in all, having a second child will make a family atmosphere more active and make the child's growth healthier and happier.

First of all, if you want to have a second child, you have to affect your family situation and whether you can support yourself to have a second child, after all, it takes a lot of money to raise a child now. Secondly, many parents will ignore the older child after having a second child, which is very wrong. Most parents will always say that you are an older brother or an older sister, so you have to let your younger siblings go.

If parents say this often, it will make the child hate his younger siblings and cause tragedy. As long as you have a second child, you must ensure that you can have a bowl of water and don't make a patriarchal phenomenon.

In fact, the age difference with my brother is also very large, when the second child was not born, I was indeed very lonely, after having a younger brother, although everything needs to be shared, but there is also more happiness. If parents really think about having a second child, they must not ignore the eldest or ignore the second child.

You should communicate with your children, and the most important thing is to pay attention to the family's income, pay attention to the atmosphere of the family, and be sure to think about the future education when giving birth to a child, and don't be too blind.

When you have a second child, you must discuss with Dabao, and you must also follow Dabao's advice, and you must also promise some things with Dabao, but I think the most important point is that after the birth of the second child, you must be doubly good to Dabao, because only by doing so will Dabao feel very happy, so we must pay attention to these problems.

When preparing for pregnancy, you must eat folic acid, eat more fresh fruits and vegetables, supplement nutrients, usually be sure to exercise properly, and be sure to have regular checkups to ensure the health of the fetus and ensure good sleep.

You should pay attention to communicating with the first child, grasp the age of childbirth, and also need to do a good job of backup, be sure to go for a check-up in advance, and don't smoke or drink.

The physical health of pregnant women, the age of pregnant women, relevant national policies, family economic factors, and pre-pregnancy physical examinations should all be paid attention to.

The problem that should be paid attention to is to ask Dabao whether he wants a second child, to discuss it with his own child, and then decide whether to have a second child, the child also has the right to participate, and also need to pay attention to their physical condition, must be in good health, and then prepare for pregnancy before you can get pregnant.

Getting married and having children is a process that each of us has to go through. But after getting married, if we can't provide good conditions for our children, we can't have more children. ......The reason why we say this is because we have an obligation to create good living conditions for our children, we have a responsibility to train our children to be talents, and we must take into account the realities of family life.

1. We have the obligation to create good conditions for our children. If you can't reach it, you can't have more children. When we get married and have children, we have the obligation to create good living conditions for our children and let them have a good space for development.

This obligation is not only based on the relevant regulations, but also from the sense of responsibility ...... our heartsBecause of this, we must take responsibility for our children and create the best conditions for them. ......If we can't afford more, we can't have more children. 2. As parents, we have the responsibility to train our children to become talents.

Otherwise, you can't have more children. As parents, in addition to fulfilling our own obligations to our children, we must also take on the responsibility of nurturing and educating our children. ......This is a great responsibility, and the future and future of the child depend on it.

That's why we have to take responsibility for our children. ......Having more children means that families with limited conditions cannot raise their children better. Such a family rent should rationally give up the idea of having more children and face this problem with a realistic attitude.

3. We must consider the actual situation of the family on the question of whether to have more children. Whether or not to have more children is closely related to the actual situation of the family in which you cheat. ......Specifically, if your family conditions are relatively good, you not only have enough economic conditions to create good conditions for your children, but also have enough energy to cultivate and educate your children.

Then there is no problem in choosing to have more children. ......However, if your own conditions are limited, choosing to have more children is not conducive to the growth of your children, and you should give up this idea rationally, so as to obtain the most ideal results, make family life harmonious, and let your children get the best development.

A woman who gives birth normally can try a second child in less than a year. Of course, this is ideal. It should be judged according to the physical condition of the woman.

If the lochia period is not well regulated or if problems arise during breastfeeding, it is best to postpone the birth of a second child. And before trying to have a second child, you also need to do a pregnancy test to check your physical condition, whether the uterus is damaged, how your body functions, etc., which is also to prepare for having a child.

In particular, it is necessary to pay attention to the need to be separated from the first child for a few years, and then it is necessary to pay attention to the physical condition of the second child, to see your physical condition clearly, if the physical condition is not good, you have to choose a caesarean section, and it is also necessary to pay attention to the fact that before pregnancy, you must not smoke and drink, or do some particularly heavy housework.

When giving birth to a second child, you must communicate well with the boss and tell the boss that he will also care about him after giving birth to a second child, and be equal after giving birth to a second child, and don't ignore the boss because the child is young, which is very bad, and will make the family become a miasma.

You need to pay attention to your child's attitude, you need to ask for your child's ideas, you need to protect your child's status, you need to protect your child's thoughts, you need to persuade your child often, and you need to pay attention to your child's mentality.

1. Negotiate well with your family, especially do a good job of Dabao; Negotiate with the family to divide labor and take care of Dabao's life. If there is no one else at home, then you must do a good job of Dabao, so that Dabao can also look forward to the arrival of Erbao with you. must let Dabao understand that the arrival of Erbao will not take away his love, but will have one more person who loves him and accompanies him.

First of all, do a good job of the boss, let him be mentally prepared, care more about him, and tell him that there are many benefits to having one more brother and sister, so that the second brother will not be emotional, care for each other, love each other, my eldest is eight years older than the second brother, and now the two sisters and brothers have a good relationship

2. Physically; Before thinking about the two treasures, do a pre-pregnancy examination of the body to maintain health and proper conditioning; Folic acid, calcium supplementation is mandatory; Exercise appropriately, reserve energy, and meet the discomfort of giving birth to two treasures with abundant energy, third, psychologically; Psychologically, there may be some anxiety. But no matter what, please learn to relieve the psychological discomfort caused by progesterone by yourself, which will not bring Dabao.

Fourth, sufficient economy**; Because of the need to give birth to two treasures, it is inevitable that the economy will be one less person. Then please don't lose Dabao's life because we have one less income. Therefore, it is important to have sufficient economic strength.

If you really can't take Dabao out to play, you either have the ability to convince, or you can let Dabao play happily at home. Or ask for help from your family. Come and help take care of Dabao.

Dabao must not be allowed to feel the impact of the arrival of Erbao on his life at this time. I am in favor of having a second child, although the economic pressure is great, but the two children are not lonely, they can rely on each other in the future, and there are people to discuss in case of trouble, of course, after the birth of the second treasure, we should pay attention to cultivating the relationship between the two babies. Also, elderly mothers should be prepared before pregnancy, the two should rest well, live well, go to the hospital for more examinations after pregnancy, and the Down's examination must be indispensable, must be done, and also, rest well, often rejoice, and give birth to a baby to bring.

Be sure to care about the boss's emotions, the boss's emotions are very unstable at this time, and timely care may make the family more harmonious.

It is necessary to pay attention to the emotions of a child, to obtain everyone's consent, to consider the economic situation of your family, to consider your own energy, and to pay attention to your body.

You must not ignore your first child, but at the same time, you must treat them equally, don't be too irritable, be sensible in education, and read some relevant parenting books.

Regarding the birth of a second child, the things that must be paid attention to are paying attention to physical changes, paying attention to emotions, being mentally prepared, paying attention to the age of the second child, and paying attention to whether the body is suffering from diseases.

When giving birth to a second child, you must pay attention to your body, eat and drink well, communicate with Dabao in advance, the environment must be good, and you must do a pre-pregnancy examination, which must be paid attention to.

Regarding the birth of a second child, I think we need to pay attention to the following things: 1. Before the second child, you need to do a physical examination in many aspects. After giving birth, there is a big difference in the physical condition between the eldest and the second child, whether the pregnancy can be carried smoothly, and whether the fetus has a good growth environment, these need to be determined first.

The best way is to go for a Western medicine evaluation and then find a Chinese medicine practitioner to recuperate. 2. If you have a second child, you should consider the person who will take care of the child after the birth in the future, at least someone can take care of it during the confinement period. Because the second child is considered an advanced age, it is more necessary to do a good job in confinement and give yourself a healthier state, so you need someone to take care of the child and yourself on your behalf.

I am invited to the 24-hour confinement lady, although the cost is slightly larger, but the confinement is good, and it is easy to say anything in the future. 3. Summarize whether there are some confinement diseases left in the body after the birth of the first child, inquire more about the elderly who understand, and strive to raise them after giving birth to the second child. Of course, don't be too rigid and cover yourself up.

If you plan to have a second child, you should pay attention to the following points.

1.Both men and women have a preconception check-up.

2.If there is a problem with the physical examination, you must be good before you start to have a second child.

3.After conditioning your body, maintain a good mood.

1. Two children, whether they are twins or second children, need to spend a lot of time and energy of their parents, and time is money to some extent, even if everything is handed over to the elderly, you have to consider whether the body of the second old man can withstand such a high-intensity laughing chain of hard work, in case something goes wrong, it is not a small number.

2. Children of the same sex can sleep in one room, and children of the opposite sex must have two rooms, which requires a large house, and multiple small houses are not enough, is there such a condition for the real estate at home? If not, it's another huge expense.

3. Education issues, finch sun education is not the same as milk powder, a child buys 400 yuan of milk powder, two children do not necessarily have to 800 yuan, we can reduce it to 600 yuan or even 500 yuan, but the learning thing, if a child spends 10,000 yuan, two children are at least double, there is no upper limit to education problems, and fairness is the foundation, otherwise it is easy to cause resource competition between children, tension in the relationship.

4. The problem of old-age care, if there is a problem with the child's three views, when the parents are old, it is difficult to divide the material responsibilities and responsibilities, who has more? In what proportion? It is very likely that there will be a diffusion of responsibilities, and as a result, two children combined are not as filial as one child.

1. Diet

1. Eat a variety of fruits, on the one hand, fruits can supplement some trace elements in the body, and at the same time, it also has the effect of enhancing resistance (but remember not to eat too much if it is too cold, otherwise it will have diarrhea). However, many people often forget to eat fruit in life, and I have a good suggestion, you may wish to put a few more notes on your refrigerator, in the kitchen, and on the table where you usually eat. Remind yourself often that you won't forget.

2. Physical changes

1. For many women, morning sickness when pregnant with a second child is not as serious as the last time. But, of course, not everyone is like that. Symptoms such as varicose veins, hemorrhoids or urine leakage that you had during your first pregnancy may still occur, but at least you know what to do this time.

2. If you have complications during your first pregnancy, such as gestational diabetes or obstetric cholestasis, you are likely to get these diseases again in your second pregnancy. However, you now know which diet you need to take, what medications you need to take, and which specialist you need to see, so both you and your doctor can manage your condition more effectively.

3. Most mothers will find that they are pregnant earlier than the last time, and they feel the baby's fetal movement a few weeks earlier than when they were pregnant with the first baby.

4. You may find that your pelvic joint pain is earlier and worse than when you were pregnant with your first baby. Getting pregnant again puts a lot of stress on your pelvic joints. Therefore, you need to be very careful about your posture during this pregnancy.

3. Life

1. When you feel uncomfortable, you must go to the hospital for examination in time, and you must not be negligent! We often see that some children are born with defects in some way, and a large part of them are caused by the fact that the pregnant woman is sick during pregnancy and does not get sick in time. So if you are sick during pregnancy, it is important to have a medical check-up!

2. Go to less crowded places, where there are many bacteria. Whether it is a pregnant woman with a single child or a pregnant woman with a second child, the resistance is weak, and if the infection is burning, the bacterial disease is very harmful to the baby. So go to more places where the air *** is chopping, such as parks.

3. Pay attention to rest and combine work and rest. Many women who are pregnant with their second child have childbirth experience, so they often go to the street to buy groceries and climb stairs when they are pregnant! I don't recommend it very much, because once something happens, no one will be around to take care of the consequences!

However, it does not mean that you have to lie down at home if you are pregnant, and it is a good idea to go for a walk in the park on a sunny morning with your loved one or family member.