I can t figure it out, what s wrong with people now?

That's a buddy, too? It's not righteous enough!!

Maybe we help not to repay, our tomorrow, we must create by ourselves, cherish well, learn to go to the real point, where there is more beautiful happiness and persistence to the point of the future, we need to cherish, and adhere to the desire and struggle for the future.

Because there is a very important aspect to your request, and that is money.

Borrowing money can show the degree of interpersonal relationship, the relationship is very good, even if he has no money in hand, he will lend money to you if he borrows money from other people, and the relationship is generally small and borrows, and when the amount is large or there is no money in hand, he will shirk it.

Helping people can't be blind, and being a good person is not a compliment.

People are very realistic, and reality is very cruel....Sometimes you give a lot and you don't get anything in return. However, since you are willing to give, you have to ask others to do something.

Isn't it usually too casual to distinguish between you and me, it's better to return to your relatives and wealth.

This is what human relationships really look like, and I'm in a similar situation to you, but now I've changed, I've become like a dragging person, I've become unhappy, so I hope you can stay the same, as long as you're happy.

Everyone's type is different, you are altruistic, and the people you meet happen to be self-interested. It shows that you are open-minded and have the potential to achieve great things. Go for it, keep the best of yourself. Just don't do that if that person doesn't deserve it. Give him a chance.

Money is more sensitive, maybe not in other aspects.

I think you're a bully, too weak.

There are some things that you really can't figure out, and you don't have to figure it out.

A long time ago, I had a casual conversation with my friend L, and she said that she had a problem that she couldn't figure out, so she simply stopped thinking about it.

What questions I asked.

"People don't have to age so fast," she said. Why do some men just want to drink their bodies at the wine table, and they still say that they are good for work and career?

Why do some people just have to stay up late and work overtime instead of being more productive during the day? Why do some people have a lot of money and time, but they don't take care of themselves at all, and let themselves accelerate aging? Isn't it human nature to run away from death?

I said, "Your question, why not eat minced meat." ”

Actually, I know she doesn't. Here's her values: If a job requires constant drinking to get promoted, quit and get a new job.

If a job requires staying up late and working overtime to complete, try to be more efficient during the day, and if you need to work overtime after the efficiency improves, quit and get a new job. Regardless of whether she is rich or poor, she will take care of herself as much as possible within a reasonable range. For example, if you don't have an urgent job, get up early and go to bed early on time, and have a balanced meal, it's possible for normal people to do both of these things, right?

But how many people do it?

L's values are very simple: compared to life, everything else is not bullshit.

So she naturally can't understand those who let themselves accelerate aging.

You know, sometimes I see someone after a year and find that he has aged a lot all of a sudden! And he actually had a smooth life, and he didn't realize the signs of aging, and thought he was young! I really, sometimes it's hard to understand that.

I was sad to watch them accelerate and wear themselves down. ”

Yes, L is a person who thinks that a normal person's puberty (peak appearance) can be maintained until at least fifty years old.

She couldn't figure it out, but it didn't change her opinion or mind.

So you see, if you can't figure it out, you can't figure it out, and there are always differences in people's values. Stick to your values, then put the problem aside, and you're good to go.

It hurts the interests and feels that it is a loss.

The gains and losses of life, success and failure, prosperity and loneliness, are not fleeting, but will always accompany us for a lifetime, like a shadow, like a breath with your life's mood, is the only wealth you can not be deprived of. "It is not easy for people to live a lifetime, no matter how long the life is, it is only a hundred years, why let yourself be resentful, decadent, and miserable for a lifetime, and live up to this good year? Parents give us life and love, but sooner or later they will grow old, and children give us satisfaction and joy, but they will eventually grow up; Love gives us happiness and sweetness, but we must pay the price of our lives to care for it; Money is duckweed in the water, sometimes gathering and sometimes losing; The beautiful face is the fragrant flowers on the green trees, which bloom at the right time and wither helplessly.

Health is that the magician can become sunny or cloudy, and prosperity is more like a dream, willing to end up and scattered; The excitement of the staggered planning is like a flower in the water, and I woke up before I could see and remember the content of the dream, and it turned out that what accompanied us all our lives was our own mood. The reason why people have a good mood is the greatest joy in life, the happiest thing, some people say that "there are four great joys in life, meeting old acquaintances in other places, long-term drought and sweet rain, candle night in the cave room, when the gold list is nominated" and these four great joys in addition to the flower candle in the cave room, three of which are inseparable from the mood, is to reflect the good mood. If you have a good mood, your face will be illuminated by a good mood at any age.

A person has such a broad and open-minded state of mind, and when he encounters something, he can "pick it up and put it down" and dispel his worries: fear:

Troubles and bitter ......A dark cloud haunting my heart. There is nothing that "can't be thought of", the spirit is naturally relaxed and happy, and the mood will naturally be beautiful and broad. Mood is an emotional state, a person's feelings and sighs for various factors in the outside world acting on the heart.

As long as people live, this state will not disappear, and the experience of the mood and the forging of the mood are a kind of perfect pursuit. A good mood depends on whether a person can keep a calm, tranquil, broad and transparent heart, so that a good mood can accompany him for a lifetime, which is the greatest wealth in life. If you have a good mood, you will also have self-confidence:

Possession is full of yearning and anticipation for the future life. Let's have a good mood! Because to live is to be lucky and happy.

Give yourself a good mood to let the world smile at you, give others a good mood and let life smile at us. Life is long, and living a happy and meaningful life feels so short. It's not about living long, it's about living rich, being rich is happy, being happy is blessed, and letting a good mood accompany us all the time.

There are various reasons, if you are human and not stupid, then you know. Hee-hee.

Bad mood, lack of calm, narrow-mindedness.

The mentality is not smooth, and you can't get started.

1. If there is anything you can't figure out, if you really can't figure it out, put this matter down for the time being, go to other things first, don't think about it;

2. In fact, everything can be passed, everything will be thought on the good side, and everything will develop in a good direction.

3. Let go of your mood and live happily.