There are many circles in society, why is it difficult for others to fit in?

Different circles actually represent a group of people with different abilities and different family backgrounds, either you have a backer, or you struggle on your own, otherwise many circles will not be able to integrate well.

The main reason is that these people have a more unique personality and don't like to work with others, so it is difficult to integrate into the group.

People are divided into groups, and things are gathered by like. Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June. I never wanted to fit in with other people's circles, I just lived on my own. Seeing good people who are not selfish and helpful, I help them without expecting anything in return.

Because it is very difficult for ordinary people to do things, he has done a needle-sized job for you but asks for a big reward for watermelons, and he is too tired to deal with this kind of person, so he simply doesn't have anything to do with.

It's a little difficult to integrate into other people's circles relative to me, because I don't understand what others say, I can't interject, my own level is limited, and saying it will only increase the laughing stock, so it's better to stay quietly, or nod politely and laugh, and there is a desertion, everyone will say it at the level, I'll simply say it myself, and the theory is just a search on the Internet, so I won't say much.

The so-called Tao is not the same, and slowly you will find that only those who have been left behind after years of precipitation are the most true, and there are friends in the four seas, where to find a confidant. Don't care too much, behave and do things with your heart.

It's not the same kind of saying or harmony is not in a circle, in fact, more often than not, in life, you don't take into account everyone's considerations, more is communication, so that everyone has a misunderstanding, in fact, everyone has their own world, not everyone is very harmonious, maybe today you have a conflict because of the family **, when your friends go shopping together today, you show your dissatisfaction with your family, so that friends misunderstand is an illusion.

Because friends don't know what happened to you, so the problem finally you didn't say it so that others saw a wrinkled face, thinking that you were dissatisfied with others, so you also had a life that could not be harmonious in this circle, in fact, it is all about thinking, if you really put down your face, maybe you still live a wonderful and happy life today, because many things no one knows everything, have their own little secrets, and this little secret is the thought of blame, look down on you nothing, In fact, having a good time has nothing to do with others, but if you don't get along, your friends still care about greetings, which means that your friends haven't forgotten you. It's just that in the end, it's my own mind that does the trick.

I have never, never wanted to, and cannot fit in. People gather like people, and your circle does not come by joining others, but by several of you together.

Obviously, if you can't fit in, it proves that this circle is not suitable for you, and if you still can't fit in after hard work, it can only be said that you should change the circle to fit in, and I believe that there is always a world that suits you.

If you can't fit into other people's circles, it means that you are introverted, withdrawn, and not good at communicating, you should learn to contact, communicate, and communicate with the people around you, and slowly integrate into other people's circles, so that life is meaningful.

Smile more at life. No one has to be good friends with the whole world, and there are not many friends.

"Things gather in kind, people in groups" is used as a metaphor for the same kind of things often get together, like-minded people gather in groups, and vice versa, they are separated, which is a general term for friends who are close to each other and like-minded.

Don't be wishful thinking to cater to others, the circle is different, you don't have to be strong.

Waste your time on others instead of focusing on what you love.

Keep learning and improve your personal quality, temperament and charm, which is what you should strive for.

Some people, some circles, if you really don't go all the way with them, don't force yourself into their circle, because such compromises will only hurt yourself as a result.

Because of the reluctance to integrate, it will only make me feel aggrieved in my heart, and sometimes it feels unnatural when I speak.

In contrast to them, there is no common language on some topics, and their own opinions are excluded. Because it's a girl, if you say that you have some opinions, some thoughts, or some aspects that you do better than them, that kind of jealousy is sometimes enough to ignite a war.

Girls, there are many jealous phenomena, although this sentence is a bit absolute, and it will also hurt a person's self-esteem, but this also has a certain truth. If there is a fight between boys, or if there is any conflict, it is basically proved by strength.

But it's different if you change to a girl, the more you prove your strength, then it will be easy to cause the other party's unhappiness. So, if it's for girls, if it's the same for everyone, then there will be a topic, but on the contrary, there will be no topic.

Although there are many people in a circle with different personalities, it is not completely forced that a person who does not like to socialize must integrate into those circles.

A person who is taciturn and not good at communication does not mean that he has to be a maverick, but because the other party may just want to do things in a down-to-earth manner, and they may be forced by life and may not have much time cost.

People who are not good at socializing sometimes do not know how to respond to the other person's topic. It's easy to be passive, and sometimes you don't know what to say. Because I'm not good at it, sometimes it's easy for people to misunderstand what I say, and sometimes I can't explain it for a long time.

Sometimes, a person's position, as well as ideas, will be determined by the tone of a person's speech, attitude, and the topic of discussion.

For example, if someone hurts someone's inner body by saying something, maybe the other person will take the initiative to realize it and apologize, but some words cannot be said clearly in one or two sentences.

Eating at the same table, it's hard to tell who is worthy of deep friendship, and it looks like everyone is the same, all about the same. However, in fact, I don't know what is going on, some things are always "the authorities are confused".

Make friends, especially be cautious about making bad friends, but it's hard to say whether it's a bad friend or not. According to your own situation, if some social circles do not bring practical value to you, or are insignificant and dispensable in this circle, then you should not join.

At the dinner table, there will always be that kind of after-dinner conversation, some words, the parties may not care, they may not be intentional to say it, but it is difficult to say what others think in their hearts. Sometimes, although others may not have an immediate attack for the sake of the scene, or for the sake of not spoiling the fun, but after that, there is no guarantee.

If those circles are not like-minded, have common topics, have the same interests and hobbies, and can understand each other. Then such a circle, if there is no need, don't fit in.