How can a boy find his match?

If a boy wants to find the object of his heart, it is a matter of fate. Of course, opposites attract, and boys have to take the initiative. If you just wait for the rabbit, then it will be difficult to achieve positive results.

If a boy is eloquent and can talk eloquently, that's the best. Introverted boys can only ask colleagues, friends, relatives and friends to introduce them. In short, things are man-made, and there is a gain for every effort.

There are no rules, and of course the marriage agency is different, and all the hard work is inseparable from all the evil money.

1. Wandering and unsettled, and finally entering a marriage agency.

It's generally embarrassing for a boy to find a partner, especially if he doesn't want others to know. But going to a marriage agency is really a helpless move. In the face of the bitter words of his parents all day long, the urging of relatives, and the rounds of attacks of matchmakers, his girlfriend was not found, and he didn't understand.

Friends wandered back and forth, ruthlessly, and dragged my brother and me in.

Second, the process of the marriage agency.

There are no rules, especially in today's money society, the matchmaker is even more unprofitable!

The first is to register the basic information, and generally send a form to fill in the basic information.

Secondly, the matchmaker asks you about your basic conditions: height, education, income and what your parents are engaged in. Of course, the most important thing is whether you have a house or a car!

Then there is the basic information you require of the girl: height, appearance, education, job, etc.

Finally, and most importantly, sign a contract, one for each person. Pay the call fee of 200 yuan, and the matchmaker will go for you.

After understanding your basic information, they will also verbally ask for your requirements, take down a bunch of girls they know**, let you choose the one you are satisfied with, if the matchmaker thinks it is appropriate, just contact, just wait for the news! If it is not suitable, it will also be pointed out on the spot that you may not be able to catch up.

3. Everything is fate, never by people.

Don't think that if you go to a marriage agency, you will solve a lifelong event. In the most popular words of the current online blind date: blind date, is to let a group of boys who can't chase meet a group of girls who can't do anything!

Most of the girls registered in the marriage agency have a high degree of education and are sweet-looking, if they are not old and forced by their parents, they will not be able to weld electricity. They demand that the city have a car and a house, and they must have a high income, and they must know how to take care of people.

And most of the boys who go to the marriage agency are the opposite. Occasionally, high-quality men are quickly paired up, and the rest are still aimlessly waiting for the right one.

You can only find it through the introduction of relatives and friends, social platforms, and then learn about it in the process of communication.

If you're a boy, if you want to find someone you like, first of all, I think it's important to bring out the best in yourself.

How to find the object of your choice, I think this part depends on the degree of your own efforts, and part of it depends on fate, really sometimes you miss it when it's time to shoot, and I really don't know when he's next.

In fact, feelings are originally a process of mutual attraction, and if you yourself are with someone you don't like in your love life, you may also be particularly unhappy. So everyone definitely needs to find someone they like, how to find the boy they like?

In fact, everyone will meet someone they really like in their life, but not everyone will be with the person they like, and there are many people who can't be with the person they really love in the end. In fact, it is recommended that you improve yourself during this time and make yourself better, time will tell you everything, and in the end, the person who really loves you will definitely come, and everyone should look forward to it.

Personally, I think that if you want to find the boy you like, then we can talk more about each other's interests and hobbies, so that we can also understand the common topics of both parties.

Find the right boy for you according to your heart, there are many boys, and each has a different type.

I think we should find it from various channels, and then we should also establish a correct concept of love and improve our charm, so that we can find the other half of our hearts.

When I go on a blind date, I pay special attention to my external image, because the first sight is very important. A good external image is like a work of art, with affinity, so that girls can't help but get closer and want to get to know you. For example, like dogs, Samoyed, Pomeranian, and fox dogs look cute and cute, and they can't help but want to touch them, while those earth dogs give people the feeling that they are very ordinary, and they don't want to look at them a second time, as if they don't exist.

A simple example. Why are those pet dogs cute, it's that hair, you will find it ugly after shaving, so as a boy, after knowing this, you must dress yourself up and Qi to be handsome and charming, save snacks for girls, do you have to girls to teach you how to dress? You can try to dress yourself, and no one is as good as yourself!

There is also a good mentality, which refers to a state of mind when we are faced with the failure of a blind date, and the girls who hit us in the middle of getting along. What kind of mentality should we have, it is a mentality that is not afraid of losing, not being a dog licking the beams, not flattering, not pandering, less praise, holding love is paying, but also ignoring the girl's words of the mentality, respecting your own heart to do, the girl's requirements, the girl's conditions, not what you want to do in your heart. Girls actually like challenging guys, not dogs that can be called around at will.

In addition, there is a warm and comfortable environment. It doesn't matter if you're in the city or in the countryside, your home must be well decorated and furnished. When a girl comes to your house and sees the bedroom you sleep in, it is bright and clean, the bed is big and soft, such a comfortable place, you must want to stay, and when you chase girls in the future, you must also create such a space.

Especially in rural areas, we should focus on solving the rural toilets, kitchens, and the environment in front of and behind the house, and when you earn money, you should contribute more to the family, and when you have enough money to spend, you should buy a house in time, rather than rewarding those irrelevant live broadcast girls who leak their arms and legs.

In short, we must do our best, have a sense of responsibility, be responsible, understand what age you are at the moment, what you should do, study hard when you are studying, work hard to earn money when you should earn money, and always have a self-motivation to give your girlfriend a comfortable and warm home in the future. Happiness is not something that can be said clearly in one or two sentences, we must improve our understanding and realize the true meaning of feelings!

This question is for yourself, finding a partner is a matter of your own choice, and how to choose is not your own decision.

There are three aspects. 1. External conditions. Appearance, height, overall dress, I believe this is the first thing we see when we choose a person, everyone has their own favorite type, some people have eyes or very comfortable at a glance, the first impression is good, there is naturally the possibility of continuing to understand.

There is also another situation, which is to fall in love over time, and some people, although they are not good enough in appearance, are humorous, have a good personality or have strong work ability, and they are just as shining in life.

2. Family, economy. Family relationship and economic ability of each other, for friends who plan to get married, this question has to be mentioned, after all, love and married life are different, whether the happiness index is high, this problem accounts for at least half of the problem, of course, more importantly, if two people are firm enough, the relationship is stable, and they are willing to give everything for each other, since both people are willing to bear and work together, then these are not problems in the face of true love.

3. Whether the three views of two people are compatible.

After all, sometimes a lot of beauty is imagined by yourself, a person's appearance is suitable for you, it does not mean that your three views are also compatible, the three views (world view, outlook on life, values) are not exactly the same, but of course, they must be compatible, two people can continue, otherwise there will be various contradictions in the future.

Look for it according to your personal needs!

Good work! If you have a good day, then you don't have to chase girls without capital!

Step 1: Know yourself.

Before we can find a love partner, we need to know ourselves first. Know your strengths and weaknesses, and know your likes and interests, so that you can better find the right partner. At the same time, you also need to be clear about your expectations and needs for a relationship, which will help you find the right person for you more quickly.

Step 2: Expand your social circle.

Making friends is an important way to find a love partner. Expand your social circle, participate in various social events, and meet more people, which will help you find like-minded people with you. At the same time, you can also meet more people through friend introductions.

Step 3: Stay positive.

Finding a love partner is something that requires patience and perseverance. When faced with failures and setbacks, don't lose faith and keep a positive mindset. Believe that you will always find your own mr.

ms.right, but also keep an open mind about your love life and not be too rigid and stubborn.

Step 4: Improve your charisma.

Improving one's attractiveness is an important factor in attracting a romantic partner. You can improve your charm in many aspects such as appearance, temperament, and talent. At the same time, it is also important to pay attention to your image and appearance, and maintain good manners and conversation, which will help you to be more popular.

To sum up, finding the object of your affection is not an easy task, and it requires effort and patience. By understanding yourself, expanding your social circle, maintaining a positive attitude and improving your own charm, I believe you can also become a stupid love master and easily find your own mr/ms.

right。

First of all, the first thing you see is definitely the other party's appearance, the other party's appearance, depending on the appearance orientation in your heart, if the other party's appearance is similar to the object you think in your heart, you will definitely take the initiative to approach her to find the object in batches, and the second thing you value is whether she has a heart to honor her parents.

A woman who knows how to honor her parents is a truly good woman.

The most important thing for boys to find a partner should be character and cultivation. A good wife is better than a good land.

Character, of course! A good woman can prosper three generations, and a bad woman can ruin three generations!

Boys generally look for a partner:

1. Face and body shape.

Everyone loves beauty, and women can't help but stop and look at their eyes when they see the male god, not to mention the male compatriots of the Congenital Appearance Association, "I like you, because you have a beautiful soul" The meaning of words like "I like you, because of your spiritual beauty" is: the premise is to give you a bright surface, and then talk about the beauty of the soul. Face and body shape are definitely an indispensable norm for considering a girl's temperament, Xiao S once said:

No matter how understanding you are, you're a big fat man", sisters, and pay close attention to your face and body shape.

2. Women's work conditions.

In today's society, there is so much pressure to work, and men are the same as women, hoping that each other can have a good job and a very good income. In the past 20 and a half years, the working situation of women has become one of the aspects that men pay great attention to when selecting their immediate family members. Ladies who have a fixed job and income are more likely to gain the favor of boys.

3. Views on married life.

It is not easy for a boy to get married casually, and perhaps it is not easy to divorce casually. Therefore, when dating on a blind date, they will attach great importance to women's views on married life, such as whether they are mainly at home, and feel that honoring the elderly is what should be done.

This is related to whether everyone's relationship after marriage is harmonious, boys who are congenitally worried about inconvenience, but they don't want to get married only to find out that there are problems with each other.

4. Whether the temperament is suitable.

The reason why many people propose to break up is: the three views do not coincide. Indeed, it is so difficult for two people who have different views to be willing to go through their lives.

When choosing each other, many men's pot friends around them are the top three of all standards, and it is not difficult to see that whether the temperament is suitable is too crucial.

5. Speech and demeanor.

Her own speech and demeanor can indirectly show her home tutoring, boys want to find a woman with a proper atmosphere, speech and demeanor take into account the experience of the other party, and such a woman will be comfortable with food, clothing, housing and transportation, and time can pass. In other words, attitude is everything, and your usual self-cultivation is reflected in your speech and behavior when you go on a blind date, so women should pay attention to it.

In the minds of most men, falling in love and getting married are two different things.

Unlike many girls who think that "I am in love to get married, otherwise I will fall in love", men rarely see this concept of "you must get married if you are in love".

Therefore, when looking for a significant other, their criteria for choosing a mate will be different depending on the purpose.

A man is not stupid, on the contrary, a man is very shrewd in a relationship, he knows what kind of girl is suitable for falling in love with him, and what kind of girl is suitable for marriage.

That's why, the girl at the beginning of the article will get the answer from the two boys: "Boys look for their other half to value appearance and personality".

Looks and personality do not meet his standards, at most to be a friend, that is, it is common to be ambiguous with you, but it is impossible to confess.

If you look like you meet the standards but your personality doesn't, you can fall in love for a short time, enjoy the pleasure of love, and almost leave after that.

Or at first, I didn't know the girl's personality, and when I talked about it, I found that it was different from what I expected, so I would find a way to break up, or even force me to break up coldly and violently.

If the appearance matches and the personality is what he wants, he will enter a long-term relationship, and then measure it in the long-term relationship, whether this girl is worth entering a more stable relationship with him.

Those with ordinary conditions hope that you will at least be right with him, and those who have a good life hope that you will not drag him back, you can be a little worse than him, but he will hesitate when it is too much.

Or if your family of origin is messy and may cause him unnecessary stress, then he will not consider you.

Personality, living habits, way of dealing with feelings, attitude towards him, he will always consider these characteristics of you to judge whether you are a "person who lives a life".

When you are in love, you spend a lot of money, although it is your own money, and he can't control it, but he may think silently, this woman can't be married, and he can't afford to marry.

Or your personality is more straightforward, and he will not save face if he points out his mistakes to his face, which is sweet for some people, but others may think silently, this woman can't be married, and he can't control it.