It s almost thirty, isn t it too unreasonable to not want to get married? Ask for advice!

Today, I did a reading called "Two Dimes", and I was deeply touched after reading it. The article tells that the author Xiao Fuxing sent a letter to a post office, the postage was less than two dimes, and a little boy in simple clothes hesitated to lend him the money, and the little boy had a very good feeling in his heart, and the author couldn't bear to break it, so he didn't pay back the money, but just said "thank you" twice. The little boy's appearance, demeanor, and movements are described in great detail in the text:

He was standing in the corner of the counter next to me, just up to my shoulders, as thin as a bean sprout. I noticed that there was a hesitant look in his eyes, and he pursed his lips and looked like he was smiling at me, which was a little weird. "One of his hands was in his trouser pocket, and he moved back and forth like a piston, as if he had not pulled out, as if there was something like a hedgehog hidden there."

Vividly and vividly show the inner activities of the little migrant workers, and vividly show the image of a little boy who lives a hard life and is simple in front of the reader, which is in stark contrast to the impatient appearance of the salesman in the text. The shy, innocent smiling face of the little boy made the author unforgettable for the rest of his life, not only a simple two dimes, but also the noble heart of someone to lend a helping hand when he needed help, and the sincerity between people. The little boy was very happy when he lent me money, sometimes he was happier than being helped, and he was a much older adult, so he must have had a great sense of accomplishment.

The author did not pay back the money in the end because he didn't want to break the boy's good feelings, and a "thank you" was far more important than returning two dimes. The little boy became a person that the author could not forget, and he made the author constantly remind himself that in the face of something that could be done with his hands, he must reach out to help others.

The older you get, the more you can't be in a hurry, you have to be cautious, and as you get older, you can read people according to your own feelings.

Let me share my thoughts. You don't necessarily want to get married, but you're probably starting to get ready to get married. It doesn't have to be 30 years old, but it could be a time when his own mentality changes.

Whether you want to get married or not has something to do with your mentality, and it has nothing to do with your age. Anxiety is also related to mentality, not age. When you live to be calm, everything falls into place.

Everything in the world has its own laws. Your fate, Yue Lao is on the way to come with full horsepower, you wait.

Whether you want to get married or not has nothing to do with age, it has to do with whether you have met someone who wants to get married, I wish you happiness, single happiness, and happiness when you meet someone you want to marry. Moreover, after the age of 30, regardless of the relatively stable economic foundation of men and women, they may think more clearly about marriage. Of course, everyone's situation is different, I think I will still think about it, and I won't want others to be responsible for everything for me as much as before, and I will have relatively less requirements for each other, and I may get along better.

Maybe it's just because you haven't met the person you want to be with for the rest of your life, so whether you're 30 or 40 years old, you don't want to force yourself into the shackles of marriage. If you meet someone you want to see every day, want to know how the other person sleeps, eat breakfast, want to go for a walk after dinner with this person, go shopping hand in hand, raise a small animal together, etc., then whether you are 35 or 45 years old, you will want to get married.

When you are older, mature in thought, financially independent, have a certain amount of asset accumulation, think further, and be fully prepared for the future of yourself and your family. It is not ruled out that fate has not arrived, after all, the chances of meeting true love in this world are extremely slim.

I still want to have a family of my own, and when I go home, I have something to rely on, and I have someone to share everything, and I am in the same boat through thick and thin; Raise your own children and contribute to the country (Motherland Flowers). However, if you really can't meet the right person, or if you are not happy when you are married, it is better to have more than abundant. Originally, life is short for decades, and because others are unhappy, it is really unnecessary.

No, it won't. If you are not married at the age of 30, you are more eager to get married. After all, when you get old, your wife will accompany you, not alone. So while I'm still young, I quickly find a partner to marry.

Yes, because I have a plan for myself in this regard, and I also have this idea, getting married will affect my life, so I don't want to get married.

If you haven't gotten married by the age of 30, and you haven't met a partner, I'll choose not to get married, and you're more comfortable if you're alone.

Yes, it is because a person's quality of life is particularly high, he can do whatever he wants, and his life is carefree.

Yes, everyone has their own life and their own ideas, so there is no need to force it.

There are several reasons for this!

1. They have become accustomed to living alone. Earn your own money and spend it yourself, and the whole family will not go hungry if you have enough to eat. Life is simple and not constrained by others.

You can do whatever you want, no one cares if you want to play games, you can sleep when you want, and you can travel if you want to. Some even believe that marriage is the grave of love. The daughter of my colleague Mr. Zhang is like this, she is 35 years old this year, and when she first started working, she talked to a few people, but she didn't get married.

Now that someone introduced her to someone is gone, she feels that life alone is good, she is used to living alone, and her parents are so anxious that they are sick.

2. I didn't meet the right person, that is, someone with the same three views. Today's young people have high requirements for the other half, they must look good, have eyes, and have the same three views. They would rather lack than overgrow.

Ancient wandering was an incredible game for them. In addition, young people are busy with work, have few contacts, and have a small circle, so they cannot meet suitable candidates. If you can't do it high, if you can't do it low, it's left.

Just like some of the young people in our unit. My good friend's son, his parents were in a hurry, so they said: I can bring you one to marry tomorrow, and you don't have to worry about divorce after marriage.

My good friend won't force his son anymore, let it be!

3. There are many excellent girls now, and many of them are in their thirties after graduating with a doctorate. Most of the good boys are married, and the girls are not compromised, preferring to be single.

4. The cost of marriage is high, from the deposit of the engagement to the holding of the wedding, buying a house and a car, etc., it costs a lot of money, which cannot meet the requirements of the girl, so some boys have never married.

5. The main reason why these young people do not get married is that they have witnessed the painful and unhappy marriage of their parents, and they have marriage phobia.

By the age of 30, if you haven't met someone you like, it means that you are more suitable for a single life. No matter how old you are, you can choose not to get married as long as you don't want to. If a lot of people can't stand being single, then these people will definitely get married in their twenties.

If a person is not married at the age of 30, it means that the person is more suitable for a single life. Therefore, for people who are more suitable for single life, if they have to get married, they may bring trouble to their lives.

At the age of 30, maybe you will gradually lose your love for life, maybe you will feel lonely, and you also want to have such a person with you. Maybe you can't help the advice and comments of your parents and relatives, so you get married and mess around. You agreed to a blind date introduced by a relative.

You just met a few times in a hurry, said a few words, and got to know each other's family and character in general. As long as the family is not too bad, let's get married.

The age of 30 really seems to be a magical node in life. You are no longer a young person who can be said to have just left society without much experience, nor can you say that you are a middle-aged person who has gone through vicissitudes. 30-year-old is not young, but old is still a little young.

At the age of 30, you should get your career on track, and you're already married. You live a life that is suitable for all ages, and the burden on your shoulders is getting heavier. But in real life in China, most 30-year-olds are probably still single now.

If you're still single, will you be a little anxious?

Maybe you chose a good man so you live happily ever after marriage, but that's rare. They are mostly confused before getting married because they don't know each other well enough or because of their disguised appearance. However, after getting married, I found that the other party was selfish, calculating, smoking, drinking, gambling, and had no sense of responsibility for the chaotic love life and domestic violence.

Therefore, no matter what time a woman arrives, she cannot force herself to marry because of her age. After all, love is not compromised.

Yes, I am very stressed about my life and mental life now, and I can take care of my daily life by myself, I don't want to enter another person's life and let him disturb me, my current state.

No, it won't. I will only feel that I have not met the right person, and I have not met a suitable person for myself, but I will get married, and I will not choose not to get married.

Yes, if you are not married at this age, you will have such thoughts, because it is too hard.

Nowadays, many young people who have not married at the age of 30 abound, and there are many reasons: conceptual problems, and reluctance to get married. Under financial pressure, he did not dare to get married. Reasons for work, not having a marriage partner, etc.

Conceptual problems, not wanting to get married: Influenced by many wrong views of marriage in society, celibacy is harmed, hedonism is rampant, and people think that they can live faster without marriage. Being alone, no life pressure, free, thinking of **going to**Yinjing to do, the manuscript is empty and the whole family is not hungry, how much trouble is saved.

In the past, I married Feng Heng for a better life, but now I can live a better life if I don't get married, why should I get married? In the past, marriage was mostly due to the pressure of parents, and it was passed on to the next generation, but now this concept has fundamentally changed, and parents no longer care so much about these, and they can't control the street talk of some irrelevant people in society, and they can live a chic and happy life alone.

The economic pressure is high and they dare not get married: young people marry late, not because they don't want to get married early, but because the economic pressure is too great, and getting married means buying a house and a car, and they have to ask for a large bride price.

Organizing a wedding and hosting a banquet requires a large amount of expenses, and under such circumstances, as a young boy, who has just graduated or just started working, it is almost impossible to hope for marriage without the support of his parents. Normally, I am going to get married, the family conditions are better, relying on the support of my parents, I can barely give a down payment for a house and a loan for a car, however, the living expenses after marriage are getting more and more day by day, and I am getting bigger and bigger day by day, I can't count on my parents forever, the loan has to be repaid, the milk powder has to be bought, and the life cannot be lived.

Work reasons, no one gets married: many people get married late, out of helplessness, due to the work environment and the nature of the work, there are too few people of the opposite sex around, there is no object to fall in love, plus the work is too busy, there is no time to fall in love, there are no friends, where is the marriage partner? In the end, I can only rely on the push of my parents, relatives and friends, and fall in love on a blind date, and I have no choice but to postpone love and marriage.