I feel very decadent but I don t want to work hard for fear of hard work, what should I do, what can

Exercise, look at your own purse, and savings, look at the good life of others, of course, is yearning, young people are not afraid of hardship, not afraid of tiredness, suffering in the hardships, Fang is a master, not afraid, come on, step by step, set a small goal first, you must be able to.

Since you are aware of your own problems, you should try to strengthen your will, and it is recommended that you make a good study plan and force yourself to complete the plan every day.

Friend, don't push yourself.

Perseverance is not forced, it is honed.

Are you asking too much of yourself in one breath?

When we are working towards a more important goal, we must first work hard according to the phased goal.

That said, don't expect to be as high as you can in one go.

Little by little, then you will know and wear stones for dripping.

I understand your feelings, and I've had this experience too.

Some things don't require any complicated process, what is needed is perseverance.

You may think that this is easy to say, but it is difficult to do.

Friend, this is true, but if it is not difficult, where does perseverance come from?

Life itself is one challenge after another, don't be afraid of hardship, think about how beautiful it is when you get direction.

It is the belief that supports the motivation, and the goal that supports the belief.

Of course, that's not to say that you can't go wrong.

We all have our weaknesses, but we should overcome them.

Be positive, don't be too decadent, cheer up! Focus more on what is meaningful.

How it ends up is your own decision.

1. The reason why you are decadent is because you haven't found where your value is, you don't know where your interests are, and you don't know what you like.

2. It is recommended to remove all the time-consuming entertainment apps, continue to study for a week, and you will gradually find out what you should do, even if there is no effect for the time being, but you are still willing to insist on doing it. If you don't know what to study, then read the book, don't look at the phone, the moment you pick up the phone, your mental attention will be distracted, put the phone far away, don't let anything distract you, sit quietly and read the book, all the confusion will gradually find the answer in the book.

3. Set goals for yourself, what you must do every day, and what you must complete every week.

Personally, every once in a while, I feel like I can't get excited about doing anything, I feel useless, I can't find my direction, and I feel lost. The main reason may be that it is empty, and it is easy to think crankily when there is too much time.

If you feel that you are too busy to have enough time, you may not have time to think about it. Do what you want to do, without any purpose.

I have a very quiet hobby which is painting. Actually, I don't draw very well, but when I do, I write like I write. Completely immersed in my own world, writing requires thinking with your brain, while drawing requires only your mind.

When you dedicate yourself to drawing, your brain naturally relaxes. In addition to that, you can also run, keep fit, do a little craft, as long as it is something you want to do, as long as it is not work, as long as it makes you feel relaxed and happy, then do it.

Count the little things in your life and your recent accomplishments. There is more than one aspect of anyone's life, there is a bad place, there must be a little beauty, when you think of it, you can laugh out loud. When you don't want to work, you might as well remember your happy events, or write down the things you have done recently and done successfully, even if it is just a small point, it will help you regain your confidence.

It's good to know how to work hard and keep working hard, but don't deny it either, it's normal to suddenly not want to work hard.

Maybe you're feeling older, maybe you're suddenly getting injured, maybe you're getting frustrated at work, maybe you're being hit by your family...In short, Rong suddenly didn't want to work hard for many reasons. But we want to eat, we want to live a better life, what if we don't work hard? So, cheer up, for the sake of life, for the sake of your family, where you fall and where you get up, believe in yourself, the opportunity is equal, what is lost here, there will be recovered, provided that you must work hard!!

It may be that I am stressed and a little tired, so I suddenly have this thought. Give yourself a vacation, have a good rest, just like the car runs out of gas and can't go, you have to stop and fill up your gas and start anew.

There is still a long way to go in life, and if you give up, the future will be miserable, including if you want to find a wife, you can't find it.

If it doesn't get better for a while, then vent like crazy for a while, and then calm down.

Then give yourself a set time to relax, travel, and have a cup of tea with friends. It is impossible for a person to be decadent for a lifetime.

It may be that the work pressure is high and there are great difficulties. But no matter how great the difficulty is, it cannot be decadent. You should calm down, adjust your mentality, and overcome psychological obstacles. Find out what the problem is, and through hard work, I think we will overcome decadence.

Whenever I don't want to try to become very decadent, I think of a scene of an old lady, in her old age, carrying a broken sack everywhere to ask for food, and then I am full of motivation, I don't want to live so miserable in old age.

It is inevitable that there will be some twists and turns in life, bumps and bumps, it is normal, we must establish the confidence to overcome difficulties, and we must still work hard to move forward, and the road ahead of this hurdle is smooth.

Then relax for a while and give yourself time to free up and try again.

It's only intermittent, so it's good to take advantage of this time to get out and take a break.

Take a while to adjust yourself, slow down your life, and think about it.

Take a break, get a good night's sleep, wake up naturally, and still have to work hard, so that you can have the spirit.

It may be that no matter how hard you work, you still can't make enough money, so you are a little disappointed.

Think about the children in the mountains, think about the people less fortunate than you, the disabled, think about the parents, what reason do you have not to try.

It doesn't hurt to be decadent once in a while, and let yourself off some pressure.

Actually, you don't need to be so tired, you don't need to be so successful, take it easy.

Watch some inspirational films, you will feel full of energy after watching them, but after watching them, you should go to work or study immediately, and then tell yourself that I will study for a while, do it for a while, and then keep going, five minutes and five minutes.

Recommend "Wind and Rain Harvard Road", "When Happiness Knocks on the Door", and "Hot Girls at the Bottom".

Hello friends, you can still find yourself! I've had the same experiences and feelings as you, but now I'm out of that story. First of all, you can't say that you can't study well, just work hard, after all, modern society is not only people who study well can survive.

Secondly, about communicative. I wasn't good at communicating with people, including my parents, until college. However, when I went to college and saw that various organizations and associations on campus were recruiting, I was eager to sign up.

People say, "People like you don't even have the most basic communication skills, what else can you do." "After all, I was far away from home at that time, and I didn't have any friends, so I suddenly felt too much to be worthy. Since then, I've vowed to work hard to change myself:

I began to frantically use various methods to find ways to communicate with people, forcing myself to talk to strangers every day, and whenever I had the opportunity to speak, I would step forward and interject, so that I have a lot of alumni now, hehe. After three months of hard work, I was elected as the head of the Organization and Discipline Department of our college. There are some things that you really need to force yourself to do.

Maybe this is life, a setback that people like us must go through. I don't know if you can understand my explanation, I hope it will be useful to you.

I am born to be useful, everyone is different, but everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, we may sometimes feel that we are very bad, this is normal, as long as we adjust our own mentality, bravely face difficulties, all problems will be solved, see the rainbow after the storm, come on you will be able to.

In many of these situations, I feel that I am inferior to others and that I am inferior. It doesn't work to think like this. It's better to work hard, work hard, and one day, others will be able to look down on themselves.

Choose your favorite alarm to remind yourself

Choose a sport that you enjoy

Remind yourself of what the consequences are

We are often decadent because we think that there is always a way to solve it later, and there is always someone to help me. It's an act that doesn't stand on its own, and sometimes it becomes a dependency. When you are tired of a lot of things and shout "No, I just like to lie down and sleep until dawn", do you remember that I want to make a lot of money next year to support my family, my family and everything?

Therefore, whenever I feel decadent and don't want to work hard, I think that people who are better than me are still working hard. For example, some time ago, I saw that Wang Shi was still working hard to keep fit. It's not that all efforts are just in career or work, every detail of life is reflected in itself.

So, no one who is truly decadent can succeed. There are many people who want to be decadent and don't want to work hard, so don't let yourself fall into this trap. After all, what falls today is difficult to make up for in a lifetime.

You can tell yourself that if you don't work hard, you may be mediocre in the future, and you will come to the world for nothing.

Of course, you have to try to face the reality and tell yourself that if you are always like this, your future life will be very poor and you will not be able to raise your head.

Tell yourself that if you don't work hard, you'll be old and you won't have a chance again.

It's better to face reality and tell yourself that if you continue to be in this state, you won't be able to live comfortably.

I think it's important to keep an optimistic attitude and try to develop yourself and think more about your future.

The first thing is to develop a habit of reading a book for half an hour before going to bed every day, and then write down what you want to achieve, and record how much you have accomplished each day.

Think about what your life goals are, think about what you want, and once you figure it out, you will have the motivation to change.

If you want to change the state of being decadent and not wanting to work hard, you must first set a life goal for yourself, and then divide it into many small goals and complete them step by step.

Take a break from work for a while, stop doing life-wasting things like watching soap operas and swiping your phone, Tik Tok, etc. You can read all kinds of inspirational articles, and you can even see a psychiatrist (but most of the current articles are watery, and the doctor is perfunctory). But it's better to travel (in the words of Xu Wei, "come and see the sea when you're worried") or play sports every day (recommended).

Swimming or cycling are the best sports (scientific studies have shown that these two sports are ranked 1st and 2nd). Cycling is not as good as swimming, but cycling can bring a unique sense of pleasure (scientifically backed and experienced by many cyclists). A few years ago, I was decadent (alcoholic, and finally developed to theorize with a knife when confronted with injustice).

Seeing a doctor didn't help. Later, I rode a bicycle and I was really happy after every ride. And will make a lot of riding friends, they can play a similar role as a psychiatrist, it is recommended to ride long distances with a few riding friends, there are many scenic areas in the country, suitable for cycling tourism...

But everything is dialectical, and cycling is a good antidote to decadence and melancholy, but it costs a lot of money compared to other sports (but why not spend money?). If you want to cure an intractable disease, thousands of dollars are small amounts). A good sporty variable speed bicycle (2,000 yuan entry, hybrid sports bike or mountain bike can be, choose the former for road riding, choose the latter for off-road riding), minimum personal equipment (helmets, gloves, lights for night riding, cycling pants to improve riding comfort and durability, etc.).

The view is definitely more effective than driving or hiking.

Hello, you guess you're too idle to have this kind of thought Or if you go to find something that interests you to do to make your life more fulfilling, then it's okay to think about these messes.

In the evening, I was bored with nothing to do, so I walked alone in the grove behind the school and enjoyed the beauty of the night alone. Looking up at the silent night sky, the lovely moon slowly climbed into the air from behind the treetops, bright and round, like a jade plate. The gentle moonlight poured down like flowing water, as if gliding through a pleasant piano sound.