How can I improve my child s shy personality?

<> 1. Let the child play with the lively and cheerful child.

Some children are very shy, may not have been exercised, or may be like this in character, if the child is particularly shy, it will affect the child's ability to make friends, and it will also affect the child's ability to encounter problems, parents can find a few good friends for their children, let the children play with them, and these partners must be very good in character, all love to talk, very bold children, give children the power of example, slowly, children also learn to be so bold to express. This way is not deliberate, the child is willing to accept it, and it is also very effective, this way is gradual and familiar.

2. Educate children to be brave and constantly encourage them.

Parents should educate their children to face things bravely, if they are particularly shy, they may let themselves be hurt, parents can let their children play outside, if they are not at ease, parents can quietly follow behind, but do not let children find out, if the child encounters any problems, ask others, parents must give their children encouragement, affirm the child's practice, even if the child encounters a problem, he does not speak out boldly, does not ask for help from others, Then parents should analyze the reasons with their children and remind them what to do next time they encounter such a thing.

3. Don't say that your child is shy in front of others, and parents should guide your child to express it boldly.

Good children boast about it, and just as bold children boast about it. Some parents say that their children are shy, if the child does not greet others, parents will speak for the child, saying that their child has been like this since childhood, I hope you will not be surprised, you have been used to it, this is very bad, the child will be accustomed to it, feel that he is like this, for the child, there is no progress.

Often take your children to participate in some group activities, or go to public places, such as visiting relatives and friends, shopping in the supermarket, and taking the subway. But be selective, don't have too many people, too many people, it will increase the child's insecurity and fear. Increase your child's self-confidence, encourage your child often, as long as you have a little achievement, praise him, and after a long time, it will naturally make him natural.

The first is to take more children to see the world, and you can also take children to travel more, and at the same time you should communicate more with your children, and you should encourage children to play and communicate with children of the same age.

Help your child understand himself correctly. Only by correctly understanding oneself and realizing that everyone is equal, and then the child has a correct understanding of himself, can the child overcome the psychology of shyness, and help the child take the initiative to make friends with others, communicate, etc. Second, talk to your child more often.

Listen to your child's opinions, encourage them, and change their incorrect thoughts tactfully. Don't blindly blame your child for being too introverted, otherwise it will lead to the distortion of the child's psychology and lead to the child's non-talkative personality. Finally, improve your child's communication skills.

An important reason why a person does not talk to others is that he does not have the ability to communicate, which is mainly manifested in his inner desire to speak, but he is afraid of saying the wrong thing, or he does not know what to say. Therefore, as a parent, you must help your child improve his communication skills.

It's a bold way to talk to girls when you're fine.

To help young children get rid of their introverted and timid personality weaknesses, we must first analyze how the causes of this shy personality are formed. I think most of the causes of this bad character are as follows.

1. Children's anxiety is more serious, lack of self-confidence in themselves, overly sensitive to things, and weak heart.

2. Family discipline is too strict, children do not have a relaxed living environment, and their personalities are not fully developed.

3. Because parents and teachers do not pay attention to educational methods, they inadvertently hurt children's self-esteem, causing children to be more timid and nervous.

In order to change this personality defect in children, parents should cooperate closely with teachers and guide children patiently. First of all, the parents' requirements for the child should be appropriate, balanced with the child's ability level, not too strict, if the child is too strict, the child will not be able to play well in front of the children The task taught to him by the teacher. In addition, parents should cultivate their children's full self-confidence and often take their children outside to participate in various activities to change their introverted personality.

Because introverts are mostly shy, introverted, reticent, and undetermined. Therefore, parents take advantage of the opportunity to go out and take their children to see the world.

Teachers and parents should choose simple things for children to do independently, and give praise and encouragement in a timely manner. to boost their self-confidence. In this way, their personalities will become lively and cheerful.

Finally, teachers and parents should not criticize the child's mistakes, ask the reason, and never use harsh language to hurt the child's self-esteem. Doing so can make the child more timid and lonely.

All in all, a child's mind is very fragile and immature. Very vulnerable. An inadvertent word may cause trauma to the child's mind, so let our teachers and parents work together to use scientific and reasonable methods and our heart to care for and guide them, so that they can grow up physically and mentally healthy.

1.Frequently play with children and other children.

2.When you meet an acquaintance passing by, guide the child to take the initiative to say hello and say hello.

3.Usually develop a hands-on habit.