How to solve the problem that children are shy and afraid to express

1.Don't say he's shy in front of your child.

When your child sees a relative hiding behind you and is afraid to call each other, don't be in a hurry to say 'this child is very shy'. If you label your child as 'shy', your child will think that he is really what his parents say he is, and he will become more silent. So next time, you can explain to the other person in a different way that this child just needs a little time to 'warm up', and when he is ready, he can also say hello!

2.Let us know in advance.

If you encounter something that your child needs to do, tell him in advance so that he can be mentally prepared. For example, 'We're going to see a doctor later, think about any discomfort in our body, and we can talk to the doctor later.' ’

3.Listen to your child and don't interrupt him.

Shy children lack self-confidence and are afraid to express their opinions because they are not good enough. Therefore, parents should listen to their children's voices more, do not interrupt their children's speech in a hurry, and do not interject halfway to provide their own ideas, otherwise the children will think that they are not good enough, or their opinions are very bad, and the children will not dare to express their thoughts in front of others after one or two times.

4.Give your child time to familiarize himself with the situation.

New environments, new friends, and new things can make a shy child anxious, so give him a sense of security and a little time to familiarize himself with the situation. For example, when you take your child to a relative's house for the first time, ask your parents to stay with your child or hold his hand, so as not to leave your child out in the cold because of the haste to greet him, which will make the shy child even more overwhelmed.

Take your child to crowded places, speak loudly, and have the courage to communicate with others.

Babies are very shy and don't like to express, parents can encourage their children in several ways:

1.Encourage your child to come into contact with other children to overcome shyness.

2.Don't blame your child, encourage your child's progress.

3.Foster an environment where children dare to express themselves and allow them to speak freely.

Every child's personality is different, some children are very familiar and can mingle with other children without parental guidance, but some children are shy and shy and not good at expressing themselves. As a parent, you should guide your child and encourage them to interact with other people, so that they dare to express themselves. <>

1. Parents encourage their children to come into contact with other children to overcome their shyness. Many children are shy, mainly because they have little contact with other children, and they are at a loss in the face of strangers, so parents should take their children to places with many people, so that children can contact children of the same age, so that children can learn to express themselves in the process of contact with other children, cultivate their confidence and courage, understand how to interact with people, and are not afraid of contact with strangers. <>

2. Parents should not blame their children in public, but give them more encouragement. Many children are shy because they are afraid of being scolded and blamed by their parents, especially some parents are very strict with their children, once the children cannot meet the requirements of their parents, parents will blame their children regardless of the occasion, so that the children are ashamed, so that they are afraid to express themselves in public, and they are afraid of being scolded by their parents. Therefore, parents should give their children more encouragement, so that they can feel safe, be brave in trial and error, and build their self-confidence.

3. Parents should create an environment for children to express themselves and let them speak freely. Parents should create an environment for children to express themselves, so that children can speak freely, establish their own cognition, overcome their shyness, and let themselves grow.

Point 1 guides the child to let the child talk more, which is very helpful to the child, the second point tells the child what will be bad after not talking, and the third point should play more games with the child, so that the child can become not shy and especially like to talk.

Usually at home when you can chat with the baby more, do games, and interact more, so that the baby's personality will become cheerful, and at the same time, the baby can communicate with his peers, go to nature to take a walk more, and slowly the baby's personality will be changed.

Encourage the baby more, take the baby to a larger place, let him have more contact with other children, don't criticize the child, and don't scold the child in front of others.

1. Parents should have a peaceful attitude towards their children. If parents want to guide their children's optimistic and cheerful personality, let them express themselves, they should be calm with their children, and don't always lose their temper with their children. Because introverted children are generally more delicate and sensitive, especially looking at other people's faces, if they find that their parents are not good for their faces, children will feel particularly nervous and afraid, feel that they have made their parents unhappy, and feel that they are going to be criticized.

If parents scold their children at this time, the children will be particularly insecure and feel that they are meaningless in this home, so they will be particularly isolated and unwilling to talk more.

2. Parents should praise their children more. Introverted children generally have some lack of self-confidence, so it is very important for parents to motivate their children and nurture them. However, introverted children are generally shy, so they should always be as soft as possible when praising children, encouraging them with their eyes or using some words to encourage them, without being too public.

3. Parents take their children to participate in more activities. If you find that your child is too introverted and doesn't like to express himself, you can take your child to participate in more group activities, such as summer camps. Although children at that time may be a little uncomfortable at first, they will be subtly affected after staying for a long time.

Moreover, children can have a lot of opportunities to exercise themselves and show themselves in the camera, and they can get a good exercise.