Why do boys always cry? Why men love to cry

I think some boys love to cry, on the one hand, it may be because they have really experienced too many painful things in their lives, and they have not found a way to solve them, so over time, they have developed this kind of character, and there is another reason, that is, because of their family reasons, so this aspect has been caused, but this is caused by a variety of reasons.

Some people will always feel that if they really like someone, they are willing to humble him, and even put down their own body and devote themselves to this relationship, as long as he can be happy and willing to be with him, it will be fine.

And is that really the case? Maybe at first he enjoyed your efforts, was touched by you, and then stayed with you, but this does not mean that he really loves you.

If you are willing to love like this all the time, then the other party will not feel anything, someone is good to him, someone loves him so much, what can he ask for?

It's just that this kind of love will make you feel tired, you will feel that you have given so much, why not even a little in return?

Don't feel that your love is great, no matter how great your love is, you need to respond, if you don't get a response for a long time, you will be lost, you will feel wronged, and you will not want to love anymore.

And at that time, you may understand that the best way to love someone is these two words: knowledge.

In a relationship, there is nothing wrong with paying for each other and being good to him wholeheartedly, the key is to have a degree and stop in moderation.

Not all love can be reciprocated, and not all feelings can be fulfilled, if love can't, it's better to learn to give up and let yourself come out as soon as possible.

Maybe at first you will find it difficult, and you will feel that what you have paid is not worth it, but it doesn't matter, as long as you let yourself go, there will always be a day when the rain will pass and the sky will clear.

If you love someone, you should also have a sense of proportion, and the most important thing is to know how to "know fun".

If a relationship is originally unbalanced, then your humility, your initiative, is asking for trouble, even if you love him again, don't become a "love brain." ”

If this relationship is not worth your continued efforts, then you must let yourself withdraw, don't let the other party look down on you, and don't let yourself feel sorry for yourself.

If he never sees your existence, don't expect him to fall in love with you, if he does, he will love a long time ago, you have to understand that the best way to love someone is never to be humble and flattering, but to be a little interesting.

When a man cries, it means that he really loves the person. Crying is the reason for a person's inner world, it represents a lot of reasons and connotations, crying will reflect a person's weakness and helplessness, and sometimes it will also reflect a person's performance of not being strong, if a person's heart can not bear the sudden blow, can not bear some pain and sadness.

When you feel very wronged, you will use crying to alleviate some of the pain, which is also a way of relief and expression of release, in fact, crying is a kind of loneliness and helplessness of weakness, crying hides an unspeakable fragile feeling, crying comes from the depths of a person's heart.

It is generally believed that men are synonymous with strength, and as the saying goes, "men don't flick when they have tears". But most people seem to forget that there is a sentence behind it, "It's just that it's not time to be sad", when men want to cry, they always swallow the pain in their hearts. No matter how much pain I suffered, I couldn't help but cry when I was wronged.

They know that women's tears will be sympathized, while men's tears will be looked down upon.

Ordinary men love to save face and won't cry in front of others! But a man who loves her deeply will shed tears for the one he loves. If there is a man crying for you, it must be that you broke his heart, deeply broke his heart, and made him disregard the dignity of a man and inadvertently shed tears in front of you.

If there is a man crying for you, it must be that he loves you very much, so women, when a man will cry for you, it is not that he is not strong, it is love, that is the most sincere love of a man. The deepest feelings are often hidden in the tiniest details. The highest level of a man's love for a woman is probably to cry for you.

For example, even if I quarrel with you, I still naturally want to do something to take care of you; For example, when you wake up in the middle of the night and are dazed, your first reaction is to help you cover the quilt; For example, when I see you in pain and sadness, he also follows the heart tightening and his eyes are full of tears.

When I watched "Wonderful Story" two days ago, Ma Weiwei said such a sentence: Love is a home, and when we are together, we can not be so good.

As a normal person, the identity of a normal man is an unbelievable question.

First of all: Crying was a constant occurrence in my childhood.

Secondly: My crying is usually "beaten" by my father or sometimes "unreasonably" reprimanded by my mother.

Once everything was in place, I thought I could start the problem.

There are many types of crying, and we generally see two kinds, tears and tears, and relatively rare is crying with joy.

Looking at this objective physiological state from a male point of view, I think it is a habit or an imitation of action, or even a mistake made by a subconscious command.

Here is a quote that I often hear around my parents: "You were smart when you were a child, and you spoke well, and those aunts liked to take you to play the most." ”

In fact, this invisibly shows that in fact, "flim tongue" may be a benefit that I discovered on my first attempt.

In the same way, if a person is still young about some problems that occur in the family (generally refers to the mistakes made by the individual), in the face of these problems, if the person first enters the mode of crying, and uses the state of crying to solve the problems that occur. Then it is very likely that crying is buried in the individual's subconscious, which means that it may be the first response plan for the next problem.

That's good, so we get to the first possibility.

Second, study.

People who do not tremble in dealing with some things may be able to respond immediately and reasonably, and the above mentioned may be subconscious responses, and the second is memory responses.

When you see the heroine in a series of youth idol dramas (generally referring to the character you like to burn the ruler) cry when she encounters a problem, then it is good, it means that you are impressed, and it is likely that you will learn the same way after the next time you encounter such a problem.