How to educate parents of crying children?

Children cry all the timeParents need to find the cause of the child's crying, and deal with it according to the reason. If the child cries because of excretion, the diaper should be changed in time. Usually, symptoms of physiological causes do not affect the child's mental state.

If the child is in a poor mental state and there is persistent crying, it is necessary to consider pathological factors, such as bacterial enteritis. Parents can use antibiotics under the guidance of a doctor**; Children with colic may be relieved with simethicone if necessary.

Parents can appropriately increase their children's water intake after crying to prevent their children's throat from being dry and hoarse. Facing crying children often makes parents feel angry and distressed. Sometimes the child will cry non-stop for a little thing, but there is not even a single tear, just howling there, which will make the parents very annoyed.

So, how to educate crying children?

1.In fact, for crying children, first determine whether the child is uncomfortable in some parts of the body. Often children are unwell and unclear, and often cry suddenly, so for crying children, as parents, the first thing to observe is to determine whether the child is healthy.

2.And for some children's crying performance, it is to achieve a certain purpose. For example, children like some toys, or want food in the hands of other children, etc., such behaviors, when children cry, parents should strictly stop them, do not meet their needs every time they cry, and do not let children cry to achieve the goal.

Crying children lack a sense of security, lack of self-confidence, and low self-esteem lead to daily family education, parents should gradually guide their children to develop self-confidence, parent-child interaction will help children cultivate self-confidence, and gradually change the situation of crying, which will get better and better.

You should tell your child that crying will not solve any problem, and if you can achieve your goal by crying, then you should cry.

Children always cry, how to educate?

When the child has such behaviors and emotions, we can't get angry, we can control ourselves first not to say "don't cry" to the child, or more to cause the child's negative emotions, if you can control your emotions, then you can move on to the next step.

As a parent, first of all, if you want to teach your children to control their emotions, you have to learn to control your emotions. In general, in this scene, not only the children are often present, but we ourselves will even have a larger audience. When a child cries and makes a lot of noise, there must be a reason.

It could be that his wishes were not being fulfilled, or that he could be criticized by us or for other reasons.

Due to the presence of the parents, we did not notice the child's crying at first, but felt their current emotions first, because we could not control the child's emotions, we could not control the child's crying or noise. But we can control our emotions first. When the child has such behaviors and emotions, we can't get angry, we can control ourselves first not to say "don't cry" to the child, or more to cause the child's negative emotions, if you can control your emotions, then you can move on to the next step.

Don't ask when your child is in a bad mood, but stabilize your emotions and tell your child that we will wait for him. The child is angry, he cries, he doesn't listen to anything, when he is very emotional, we ask others not to cry, we ask others to do this or that now, but it's just wishful thinking. As adults, we don't want to do anything when we're sad, complaining, or in pain.

How can we ask our children to do it just because we want to? In fact, this kind of request at this time will only make the child more aggrieved and cry more intensely, and at the same time, communicating with the child at this time is ineffective.

What we can really do is ignore the fact that he is crying, instead of leaving the child and saying, "Cry, cry, cry", or leave him alone. We stood in a place where he could see, at least we could see where he knew he was safe, where the baby was crying, and we ignored him and went on with our business. At this time, don't play white face alone, play white face alone.

After the child calms down, analyze the cause and help the child find a better solution. As soon as the child finds out that we don't care if he cries or not, and that he really can't use his crying to influence his parents' decisions, he stops crying. He's gathering his emotions and preparing to negotiate calmly, and it's the perfect time for us to talk to him.