Is there anything you ve been suffering in silence all along?

In fact, there are many things that I have to endure silently, such as coming into this world alone, leaving this world alone, facing various psychological emotions alone, gradually understanding myself alone, bearing the consequences of every decision alone, and bearing the consequences of all actions alone. But the most beautiful thing is that you are not alone, when you realize that everyone has a perfect self-nature within themselves, no matter what you do, in **, he is with you, you are not alone.

Don't suffer everything in silence all the time. We live in a complex society where some things can develop according to our will, and some things are not subject to our will. Therefore, as a person with a happy mindset, the first thing to do is to properly evaluate your abilities.

Try to choose what you can do. Sooner or later it will crush you.

I think I suffered silently by myself, because I didn't study very well when I was in high school, but I had put in a lot of effort, but I was not understood by others, and even my parents were blaming me.

I am the only child in the family, many times, I bear a lot of things silently alone, my parents are old, and the gentleman can only stay at home to take care of them and the children, the life of the whole family, I need to carry it alone, but I have never complained, because I know that it is useless to complain, and they are also very hard.

When I was learning to play the piano, although the days were hard but I have been persevering, I believe that as long as I can survive it will definitely be able to get what I want to have, so I have been studying hard, I think this is what I have been silently sticking to, and I need to continue to insist on cheering myself in the future.

When I was in love, I felt that I had been suffering silently, because I felt that her object didn't like me, and being with me was completely new, but I didn't want to accept it. I can't mess with him because I'm afraid he'll leave me, so I can only let her, I think I'm stupid, and I've been suffering in silence.

I think the meaning of life is to live a wonderful life in itself; Live happily; That's what life is all about. In fact, the most important thing in a person's life is to have a healthy body and a happy mood, only this is truly your own, and the rest may be lost at any time. Because these are all things outside the body, the so-called life does not bring it, and death does not take it away.

That's what it means.

There are two sides to everything: good and bad:

People who often flatter silently, from the good side, belong to the selfless people who do things for others without complaint or regret, and from the bad side, they belong to the cowardly people who are afraid of trouble and bad people and bad things. If the teacher criticizes you, classmates want to hurt you, etc., you often don't resist, bear and endure, and bury your grievances in your heart, which is not good. Because this is a manifestation of a locked-in mentality:

If the lock-in mentality is not overcome in time, it is easy to develop into a lock-in mentality, turning away friends and locking oneself in prison.

If you want to overcome the lock-in mentality, here's how:

1. If we want to gain understanding, we need to think about our true thoughts;

2. If we crave warmth and warmth in interpersonal communication, we must be like the one who trusts the other party;

3. On the contrary, we are very wary of others, as long as the other party is unconditionally open and lenient, but we do not respond with a more positive attitude, like a heart lock, tightening our door to interpersonal communication.

Students, we must learn to deal with all kinds of interpersonal relationships, old relationships and emergencies, endure small grievances, be broad-minded, and have a wide heart. Being wronged is a necessary course in growing up. Come on!