Mom and Dad often quarrel over money, what will you do as a child?

I think every family will have such a problem, our family is no exception, I remember when I was young, my parents always quarreled, I was scared of a person hiding in the corner crying, that scene is still fresh in my memory, so I now try not to quarrel with my husband in front of my own children, the harm to the child is great, as a child, I must understand why my parents quarrel, I personally think that if you can solve it, adjust it from the middle, if it is a discordant personality between your parents, they insist on arguing every day, Then you can't help it, some couples are like this, noisy and quarrelsome for a lifetime.

In the past, when my parents quarreled, I quarreled with them, trying to be louder than them, and I always felt that they would feel my anger, considering my feelings, but the result was that I cried badly, and the matter was still not resolved, when I was in elementary school, they quarreled and began to make a lot of trouble, and my mother cried at home, and began to look very sad, thinking why should I go through such a thing as a child, and now I just want to do my own thing, consider the upcoming employment and other problems, Don't let these trivial matters interfere with me too much, these things will never be finished, and the problem of money cannot be solved at once, and even if the problem of money is solved, they will quarrel because of other things.

If you are a student, study hard, get admitted to school, and work hard to make money after graduation, if you are already working, work hard to improve yourself, then work hard to make money, and then give them pension expenses, don't let them worry about money.

I don't know what to do either, they're arguing. Dinner is the family's hot pot, I thought that after dinner, it would be a normal end to the night, and the next day I could wake up in bed, eat, read books, and play with my phone. It didn't work, I ate very slowly, and after my parents left, I cleaned up the table, washed the dishes and chopsticks, cleaned up the scraps, turned off the TV, and it became more and more clear that they were noisy.

I went out to take out the garbage, and there were their voices outside the window, and every time I grew up, I felt like I had lifted the roof and opened everything in the house to outsiders to see jokes. I felt embarrassed and miserable, but I still finished the garbage and mopped the floor and stayed in my room.

Mom said that when I was a child, she often reprimanded my father, my father was afraid of my mother, my mother was so quick that everything was justified and justified, and my father was not self-motivated at all, and their quarrel was nothing more than money! My sister went to college, my family has no money, my mother borrowed money, my father didn't give my mother money a month, all the money was spent by my grandfather, I am going to college this year, my mother scolded my father at home every day, to be honest, since I went to high school, the family has not stopped, I really sometimes want to run away from home, to escape, but I am afraid that this family will be more chaotic, I really can't stand it, I graduated this year and went to a junior college, and my family wants to repeat it.

Since childhood, they quarreled and said bad things about each other in front of me, the reason for the quarrel is nothing more than my mother playing mahjong and not saving money, my dad doesn't make much money and wants to save money, or my mom thinks that my dad doesn't want to see her, it's all because of money, I'm about to graduate from college, I shouldn't go home much in the future, I want to accompany them more and, they also love me very much, but as soon as I go home, as long as it involves money, I start to quarrel, I don't know what to do when I was a child, and now I know that both people are wrong, but I don't know how to mediate, I don't know the meaning of marriage in **.

The family conditions are okay, I am now studying art in a private high school and spending a lot of money, recently my half-brother is going to get married and it will cost money, my mother doesn't like my brother, my brother got married and she also said not to participate, my father didn't discuss with my mother and transferred a lot of money to my brother, so that my aunt didn't tell my mother about it, and now my mother knows that things are getting bigger and bigger and start to quarrel about some Chen sesame rotten grains, I don't know what to do, I think they are all at fault.

My parents are quarreling, for money, my mother takes money very seriously, but she doesn't make much money, my dad is a typical filial son, he is very good to his grandparents, he is willing to spend money, and he is willing to contribute, but he doesn't make much money, and the two of them are now quarreling about this, and they can't sleep. I'm annoyed by the attitude of both of them, both of them are stubborn and unwilling to take a step back, I'm annoyed, I don't want to live in such a family.