My husband always likes to say that I have shortcomings, what should I do?

What he said is really a shortcoming. But I also want to know why he married you in the first place when you have so many shortcomings. If I understand correctly, then he also has flaws, and his flaws are stupid.

I'll give you an explanation one by one, slow work is not a disadvantage, and girls have a bold physical fitness.

There are not many good ones, and it is understandable to be slow; There's nothing wrong with listening to praise, and when I'm doing the right thing but there are a lot of people who oppose me, I also hope that someone will stand up for me and support me. But if you don't like to listen to criticism and don't want to accept it, that's wrong with you.

I don't hate people who are officials, but I hate people who use power as a tool to oppress the people, and I hate the officialdom of intrigue. Maybe you are too simple to understand the horrors of officialdom, and your husband thinks that everyone in office is a bad person, which is why you have a conflict because of this. In fact, not all officials are bad people, but officialdom is really annoying.

Caigen Tan. It's the god of horses, I, Phuket.

How do you educate children? It's not good to be inconsiderate, but a person can learn how to do things thoroughly, why does your husband only complain but doesn't teach you how to deal with things very gently? Complaining about verbosity.

It's okay to talk without considering the method, but you have to change your mind when you talk.

It's all like this, because it's your own person, and it feels like it's okay to say it, but you often still have to be angry that he says this about you.

Demean others and improve your own ......But this practice is obviously discordant, as the so-called "family affairs should not be publicized", how can a man belittle his wife in front of outsiders

This is the idea of a normal man, people who know well will say this, this is for you to play the front station, so as not to contact people in the future and encounter things that people condition, such as talking more straight, not very good at cooking, etc., in the future, people will not pick on you, be considerate to you and love you enough, just imagine.

It's not that he doesn't love you, it's normal for him to spoil you when you're in love, but people always have to grow up, they always have to mature, marriage is life, you don't pay attention to talking in front of him, he may not mind, but others don't have to, he is also good for you, my husband also says the same about me, don't think too much!

I'm very responsible to tell you, yes.

1. Deceive the good and fear the evil.

Nowadays, there is a sudden situation on the Internet, and all kinds of things are seen everywhere, if there is a big evil, they will weigh whether it will be risky to come out.

Find a safer place, open your voice and shout a few words, and as soon as there is a stir, it immediately disappears without a trace. And if there is a relatively weak person, there will be an uproar, and all the people will stand up to express justice.

They know that it's safe to express anything about these vulnerables, and it's okay to say anything, but what really needs men to work for, change the ugliness, because of its risks, silence. The beautiful name is that those who know the times are Junjie, and there are too many people who know the times.

2. Too narcissistic.

Most Chinese men are narcissistic, and from time to time they will appear to be heartthrobs. Maybe women are just short-sighted eyes, and they can see them as flattering and intoxicated. What did the woman say and do.

Maybe it's just the fellowship of ordinary friends, or even good friends, they can further associate her with the idea of whether she should do something next to achieve the ultimate goal. Don't be rejected by the mouth, they really think that as long as it's a woman, they like him if they look at him more.

3. Self-esteem and inferiority coexist.

I believe that Chinese men are the most face-saving people in the world, even if the inside is broken, the face must be held up. Giving him face is the most important thing, and it is okay to have opinions or dissatisfaction with him in private, as long as there are others, their face will be blown away. This has led to a situation where self-esteem and inferiority coexist, and sometimes the face is really not good, and there is not enough confidence.

If you have a serious inferiority complex, you pay more attention to face. If there is a mistake, I don't admit it, if I make a mistake, I don't make jokes, I don't laugh at myself, my face is complete, and then I will talk about something else. Especially in the relationship between husband and wife, even if it is the role of kneeling on the washboard when you go home, you must put your husband on the table outside.

4. Too narcissistic.

Most Chinese men are narcissistic, and from time to time they will appear to be heartthrobs. Maybe women are just short-sighted eyes, and they can see them as flattering and intoxicated. What a woman says and does may just be seen as the fellowship of ordinary friends.

Even good friends, they can further associate her with the fact that she is interesting, and whether the next step is to do something to achieve the ultimate goal. Don't be rejected by the mouth, they really think that as long as it's a woman, they like him if they look at him more.

In addition to the advantages, the rest are disadvantages!!

You can never find something to look for, even if you ask him to find something under his nose, he will definitely ask you, where is it??? You come to find machismo for me, and you will die to save face and suffer crimes.

I feel that my husband has a lot of shortcomings, careless, stubborn, impatient, nagging, too honest and defenseless; But it seems that he has a lot of advantages, otherwise I wouldn't have chosen him, and his family is very tolerant of me, which is what makes me feel the most gratifying.

I guess ten out of ten women can say a lot about it