Always very timid, afraid of what to do, afraid of provoking people

Don't be unconfident, the more you are afraid of them, the more they will bully you, I have seen it before, what children fight for, what is the momentum, one side is afraid of one side, dare not fight back, it is rare to see two children fighting.

You said that people came to find fault, you are submissive, a nest like, don't beat you to anyone, hit you, you don't care about fighting back, you know that crying there, that is, grab it and beat it hard. I'm not asking you to fight with the person who bullied you, but at least you can't be very cowardly, so everyone bullies you, you have to learn to say no, you have to learn to be atmospheric, first use momentum to overwhelm him, dang.

However, when necessary, teach the person who bullied you a lesson, and let him know that you are not easy to mess with. But my approach is only for a few people who are cowardly by nature. Don't get me wrong.

Actually, I'm pretty much the same

But one day when your cordon is touched by someone or something, that's when you break out.

Maybe at that time, you won't be afraid of messing with people anymore

If you are not confident, remember: good people are only a little better than you in one aspect, you are equal.

Don't think too much about it, don't care too much about what others think of you. Be yourself and believe in yourself. Be genuinely passionate about others....

It's okay to train yourself, get fit, and be confident and tell yourself I can do it.

Take some aphrodisiacs, rush the guts, and occasionally drink some wine to moisturize and moisturize.

I feel that way, too! You have to change yourself. I have a good way to do it ...

Have you watched "My Name is Kim Sam Soon"? You watched it a few times when you were fine, and within a few days, you were infected by her character that day when she was not afraid of the ground... Try it ...

Hehe, it works

Even wandering around the streets feels like Kim Sam-soon

I used to be like this, but now it has really changed, people just need to live boldly, and teach the bully when necessary, let him know that you are not easy to mess with, and people must live as their own personality.

Let's be kind-hearted, God will help us!

Summary. Hello, timidity can be due to symptoms triggered by frustrating events, or it can be due to the introverted nature of the individual. It is recommended that others remember to look at each other's eyes when chatting, talk more with friends and colleagues, after the relationship is good, you can go out together, friends will make your personality become cheerful, communication is the best way to change your introverted personality.

If the improvement is not good, you can also apply for the help of a family psychologist and make an appointment for professional psychological counseling. Hope it helps, thank you,

Hello, timidity can be due to symptoms triggered by frustrating events, or it can be due to the introverted nature of the individual. It is recommended that others remember to look at each other's eyes when chatting, talk more with friends and colleagues, after the relationship is good, you can go out together, friends will make your personality become cheerful, communication is the best way to change your introverted personality. If the improvement is not good, you can also apply for the help of a family psychologist and make an appointment for professional psychological counseling.

Hope it helps, thank you,

Sometimes I'm afraid of everything, I'm afraid of this, I'm afraid of that, I'm worried about this, I'm worried about that, I'm thinking too much.

It's too comprehensive.

Yes, if you think too much, you will be intimidated.

Sometimes you have to dare to fight.

Is this really a personality problem, for example, if your blood sugar is high, you will be afraid, will it hinder the development of your career?

Actually, you're not afraid, right, at most you're worried, thinking a little too much, sometimes don't take things too seriously, take it easy, maybe the ending will be better, thank you.

I guess I'm worried, but what should I do, I don't worry.

It's good to think less about things.

I'm always thinking too much, and I'm always thinking about the bad side when things happen.

It's good to think less.

Reasons for being timid and fearful: seeing parents arguing, parents being overprotective, lack of contact with the outside world, and verbal intimidation of children.

1. Seeing your parents arguing.

Children are actually a blank slate, and we parents are a paintbrush, and the children's personality and habits are depicted by ourselves. In life, many behaviors of adults can lead to children being timid, for example, husband and wife quarrels are one of the reasons for children to be timid.

2. Parents are overprotective.

Parents are too protective of their children and are the main reason why they are timid. Nowadays, most families are only children, and the whole family takes good care of them, whether it is in the details of life or in the learning process, some of the problems that should be solved by the children themselves will be taken care of by the parents.

3. Lack of contact with the outside world.

Children have less contact with their parents and spend less time living with their grandparents. Parents are not around and do not establish a good sense of security. Grandparents overspoil their children and take care of them too carefully, resulting in a lack of opportunities for children to have contact with the outside world.

In addition, family discord and frequent changes in the care and living environment can also make children feel insecure, causing them to feel fearful and become timid.

4. Use language to intimidate children.

Some children do not listen to their parents at home, such as crying or not eating well, parents use the child's scared language to scare him, saying that if you cry again, I will throw you outside; Some children don't sleep, and the adults say that the devil will come and catch him; Some children want to play with mud, parents are afraid that the child will get dirty clothes, saying that there are insects in the mud to bite your hands, and use these to intimidate the child, so that the child becomes timid.

Timid

Timidity refers to a person's (mental state of mind that is too afraid of deterrent things to face reality) and cannot extricate himself. Cowering and considerate.

The teacher's words hurt me for decades.

I can't remember when I started to become introverted and silent, whether I was born with it or if it changed later, and I can't say. I've been trying to change, but I still can't get out of that knot, and every time I speak, I always feel embarrassed again, making myself always blush and have a thick neck. It may be that sentence from my teacher in elementary school that made me timid and cautious.

Stories from when I was in school.

Since I was a child, I belonged to the most positive type of students in class, and my grades were not bad, and every time the teacher asked a question, I rushed to raise my hand to ask questions, and my grades were good and I was confident.

Once in math class, the teacher made three questions on the blackboard, the first two were robbed by other students, and the last one did not raise a second hand except me. Brave is brave, you have to rely on strength to do the question, this question really can't be done, no wonder other students put down their hands when they drew the third question to the stage, and they were embarrassed and embarrassed. I didn't admit defeat, and stood in front of the blackboard for nearly ten minutes trying to figure out how to solve the problem, but the teacher got impatient and asked me to go back to my seat.

My face turned red to the base of my ears, and I really wanted to find a hole in the ground to get into, I wanted to show off in front of everyone, but I made myself so embarrassed.

Before the lecture continued, the teacher made up the knife, "I see that you have a big head and let you do it, how can you not afford it?" Forget it, listen to me carefully", the students laughed. Is it wrong to grow a bigger head?

I didn't listen to anything in that class, but fortunately, I was not left behind after the same table gave me a make-up lesson. Since then, I no longer take the initiative to raise my hand to answer questions in class, non-teacher name and random questions, even if I know, I will never raise my hand, as the so-called once bitten by a snake for ten years afraid of the well rope.

If you are timid, you can only hide.

Presumably, the teacher was not sarcastic when he said that, but just said it casually as a joke, but he didn't know that it caused irreparable damage to the child's growth and changed a person's personality. Since then, I have become a little timid.

Adults and children have different levels of comprehension, and a joke made by an adult is likely to hurt the child's young mind, and the adult world is not understood by children!!

You can exercise yourself for some specific occasions and situations, such as in more formal occasions or crowded occasions, if you are particularly timid, then participate in more social activities, communicate with others more, strengthen your interpersonal skills, and overcome your easy to be nervous and afraid. In addition, it is important to participate in more activities, exercise more, make yourself lively and cheerful, and maintain a positive attitude.

Timidity refers to a person's psychological state of being too afraid of deterrent things to face reality, and to act timidly and considerately. Timidity is a person's personality, and the reasons for timidity are many, and it is not yet fully clear, and it is generally believed that it is related to personal experience, growth environment, and one's original personality characteristics. Many things can be changed, and if you are determined to change, you must let go a little bit and work hard to act.