Friends are above, lovers are not full, why are you so sad???

In fact, what is difficult in this world is not the transformation from friendship to love, but from love to family affection. Hehe, that one belongs to the category of marriage, let's not mention it for the time being.

Your question is actually very simple, because things are like and people are grouped. Everyone has a similar temperament to play together, or because the words are too speculative, let each other unconsciously take out all your feelings to share, perhaps because some of your subconscious actions moved each other, you want to find her (him) to accompany you when you are sad, and you want to share with her (him) when you are happy. However, we didn't understand at the time that this hazy feeling was the best, but we always fantasized about going one step further with the other party, once the layer of paper was pierced, it was like adding something to a glass of water, and the water was still water, but it was no longer as pure as before.

If two ideas are figured out, a new relationship will be composed, and the two are embarrassed, it is likely that they are questioning whether they are not worthy of each other, or they are worried that they will never be friends in the future!

Be bold, and since you know what both sides feel, then be brave enough to give it a try.

Be generous, even if the other party refuses, you can still become a fourth-class friend who cares about her (him)!

My guess is that one or even both of them don't simply treat each other as ordinary friends. Because you want more than friendship, but you are still above friendship, not love, so it makes you worry too much.

You're afraid that you're being sentimental, and you're even more afraid of missing out on someone who makes your heart tick.

Eh: It's pretty much the same as me.

It is also farther than friends and lovers.

In fact, people like me who haven't completely let go themselves are in no position to persuade you.

But I really understand the feeling.

I want to get closer, but I don't have a position.

I want to go a little further, but I am not willing to do it.

But I still think it's better to be a little more free.

I'm saying it to you while I'm repeating it myself

There is no one in this world who has to be.

If we can be together, we will all be happy.

If it's still reluctant, then be chic.

It's not going to advance, it's not willing to retreat, it's the same

Anyway, let it be

It's a beautiful feeling, too

If you are not a person of the same world, if you are any closer, you will be called iniquity.

In real life, the relationship between us and someone may be between a friend and a lover, in a state of friendship above friendship and not yet lovers. Such a situation would give us a very unique experience. Specifically, this kind of relationship between the two parties is close to each other, and the relationship between the two parties is invisible, and in the long run, it will affect the interaction between each other.

1. The relationship status of friendship and lovers will make each other intimate and talk about everything. Friendship and love are intimate feelings between people, and if you maintain one of these relationships with someone, it will make the relationship between you extremely close. And if you and the other person are in a state of friendship and lovers, the relationship between each other will be more intimate, so as to achieve a state of talking about everything.

2. Due to the existence of a relationship state of friendship and lovers, there will be invisible restrictions on mutual interaction. If two people have established a romantic relationship, then they will become bosom lovers and intimate existences with each other. However, because there is a state of "unfulfilled lovers" between oneself and the other party, the relationship between each other will be subject to an invisible restriction, so that when you interact with the other party, you will feel in a restricted state, and this state will bring some impact to yourself.

3. If you maintain a long-term relationship between friendship and lovers, it will affect your relationship with each other. Relationships between people can only be well developed when they are in a clear state. If the relationship between two people is uncertain, it will affect the relationship between each other and even cause bad consequences.

Being in a relationship state of "friendship and lovers" for a long time will make one's relationship with each other in an embarrassing situation, and in the long run, the relationship between each other will inevitably be affected. Therefore, you should take steps to clarify the relationship between the two parties to ensure that you can live in harmony with each other.

In a friend relationship, one party has developed feelings that go beyond friendship and wants to be more than just friends; And the other party does not know the feelings of this party, or is satisfied with the status quo of only being friends, and is unwilling to take a step forward. Then, this party is caught in friendship, and the lovers are not full. On top of friendship, the feeling of unfulfilled lovers, intimacy is a familiar and safe experience.

I used to have such a relationship with him, and my friends around me thought we were a couple, but neither of us pierced this layer of window paper, and in the end I could only watch him have a new girlfriend, and then leave silently. The feeling of not being a lover above a friend is really heart-wrenching, and the most painful thing should be the person who likes each other.

Sometimes chaotic waiting, maybe people just treat you as a friend, and then chat with you, but you feel that the other party is interesting to you, and then flirt with others, and people don't have any expression, and then think about it or be friends, this is the unilateral crush of friends and above the state of lovers are not satisfied. I'm afraid that the other party knows that he likes him, and I always feel that the other party is actually confused, after all, he is obvious enough. The most cautious thing can only be that one of them takes off the order, and then the other leaves silently.

Sometimes I always feel that the other person likes me, but I always feel that I think too much. Thinking back and forth, sometimes I feel that he is as afraid to confess as myself, and sometimes I feel that he likes you a long time ago, and such a tangled mood tortures you every day.

In a friend relationship, if you have developed feelings beyond friendship, you will want the two to not only be friends, but the other party does not know your feelings, or regards you as a friend, and is unwilling to take a step forward. The feeling of unfulfilled lovers above friendship is actually a sense of intimacy, and intimacy is a feeling of familiarity and security. But the longing for love requires a mysterious strangeness.

Everyone around you thinks you are like a couple, but only you know in your heart that you are just friends, but no one can tell who you treat each other as. You just play as friends, but you act beyond being friends.

The so-called unfulfilled lovers of his suspicion are just a kind of self-doubt, and the lack of affection means that there is indeed a taste of love between each other, but it is not yet possessive between lovers. Friends who are not full of lovers are a little afraid that this relationship is a friendship, and even afraid that they will not be able to get the other party's true love.

In fact, not all people who love each other can become lovers, and not all feelings have to end with love. If the two of you are true confidants, even if you can't be accompanied by lovers, you will still cherish each other. The best relationship is that you know my warmth and coldness, I understand your sadness, just a look, is to know what the other party wants to say.

If you really don't want to be just friends, the best thing to do is to find out that the two of you will either become real lovers or go their separate ways.