Should I continue to lend him any more money?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Is your friend's injury serious? Is there a danger to life? If so, I suggest it or help, otherwise you will feel guilty about something.

    If the injury is not serious, don't borrow it, the main thing is that you have to see what kind of person your friend is, and whether it is worth being a friend. Think for yourself. Of course, money is indispensable for making friends, but this is not the most important thing, you should see the character of your friends through money, I hope it can help you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Your family is already angry and won't give you money anymore, so you don't have any money, how can you borrow if you don't have money?

    Also, the landlord's 5,000 is considered to lend him money? Or to his family? I don't even understand. Can the judge figure it out?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think I should borrow, it's not difficult to borrow again if you borrow and you repay, he hasn't repaid you and lent him back (the key is that it's not related to the position, it's not necessary), and the injury is not serious and it's not necessary. Go to the hospital and see if you can be old.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It still depends on the individual, if you have a lot of money, then help him, do a good deed!

    It also depends on his personality, what do you think of his personality? Whether it's idle or self-motivated. Because it depends on whether he is worth your help.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There are many people who like to take advantage of the kindness of others, and those who can consciously return it are easy to say. I'm afraid that some people, if they borrow him or not, they will become enemies. I still have thousands of foreign debts, and I can't even find anyone, so I can't complain to anyone.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You ask if he borrowed money from others. If you have, don't borrow it. This man is not very honest.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    To borrow or not to borrow, depending on two prerequisites:

    First, what is the character of this boyfriend (or girlfriend).

    Suppose you are a woman and he is your boyfriend. Whether to borrow money or not depends on his character. Usually, they do what they say. Moreover, it is not enough to pass the blame on everything. This kind of person is still relatively reliable. It doesn't hurt to borrow.

    Second, how emotional you are.

    You're already very much in love, and of course you don't have much to think about borrowing money. If you get married in the future, the money will also be owned by the co-owner. Let's not talk about it so long-term, everyone needs to be rescued in the rivers and lakes.

    The fact that he was able to open his mouth to find you is also because you have a good relationship. Whatever you can, help. If this person's character is not good, and you have not developed to that point, it is better not to borrow, otherwise you will lose not only money, but also feelings.

    It's better not to, you obviously have a lot of people to borrow, parents, brothers, girlfriends, relatives, why choose boyfriend and girlfriend? This is obviously a very embarrassing situation, but you are biased towards Tiger Mountain. If the other person speculates about your mind because of this, don't blame it.

    Whoever changes will think more, the key is not the problem of money, but the fear that the other party will cheat money under the brand of feelings.

    Of course, some boyfriends and girlfriends are still in a good relationship after borrowing money and are married. One is to look at the person, and the other is to look at the emotional status at the time. If you have already talked about marriage and really need money to save an emergency, the other party's attitude is very sincere, the reason is also very real, and you will also write an IOU and say when you will pay it back, as long as you trust him or her, you can borrow it.

    After all, this is your personal matter, and it's more or less like a game game. Think about it yourself, what are you going to do if he doesn't pay you back? Think about the worst outcome, just be able to bear it and face it, don't really don't get back to you alive and still ask you to borrow you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Thank you for your question!

    If you have a good relationship with each other, you can borrow it. However, make it clear in advance that this money is only borrowed, and the return date must be clear.

    The author believes that people will encounter difficulties at times! So, if conditions allow, you can reach out appropriately! So, as a boy, you don't have to think too much.

    The woman is asking you to borrow money just to alleviate the current predicament, which has nothing to do with whether she has a boyfriend or not. There are many girls who are more independent and reluctant to ask their boyfriends for help.

    So, as long as you make it clear to the other party, you don't have to think too much about the rest. If you don't want to borrow it, you should politely decline! Thank you!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It also depends on the specific situation, if it is in that situation, she can indeed lend her because she did not bring money for dinner. If she is not in this situation, it is because after talking about her boyfriend, her salary is not enough to spend, so she has no money, and this situation cannot be lent to her, so she has no moderation in daily life and is not a very reliable person.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Look at her character, 200 is not much, if there is no problem to lend to her, it doesn't matter, after all, everyone has difficulties, but it is good to borrow and repay, if it is not good to repay the money, don't lend it to her next time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Judging from the situation you said, since you are colleagues, then borrowing 200 yuan for dinner is completely okay. Because this amount is not particularly large, colleagues should help each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If it's the first time you're borrowing, you can consider borrowing it, but if you don't pay it back, you won't borrow it again next time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You should lend him it, because it's only 200 yuan, and it's not a lot of money, and you're colleagues, he shouldn't pay you back the money, and after all, people care that you borrowed 200 yuan, it's not too much money to refuse.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think that since it is between colleagues, the other party has already opened up to ask you to borrow money, and it must be in urgent need of money.

    And the money is not very much, not 20,000 or 2,000, but 200 yuan can be lent to her.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If it is the first time for her to borrow money for dinner, she must be temporarily short of money, and the amount is not much, so it is recommended that you lend her it. If she often borrows money like this and doesn't repay it on time, it is recommended that you borrow less or not at all.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Should I lend him money? I think I borrowed 200 yuan between colleagues. I think I should be able to lend him money, should I lend him money?

    I think I borrowed 200 yuan between colleagues. I think I should be able to borrow it, should I lend him money? I think I can borrow 200 yuan between colleagues, I think it should be possible to borrow, this is within your ability, I think you can borrow him, after all, it is a colleague.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If it's just a simple borrowing between colleagues, I think it's okay, after all, 200 yuan is not much, and if you have more, you won't borrow it. And you can't ask him to be your girlfriend just because of these 200 yuan, it's not realistic.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No one can borrow money, except for your parents, brothers and sisters, you and her are just ordinary people, and you are not obliged to lend her money.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I should lend him money, 200 yuan is not much, if he needs it. Then you lend it to him, and it should also be among colleagues.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You can borrow, but you can't borrow it again in the future, since it's a friend, then help once, and don't borrow it next time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Of course, I have to lend him money, because after all, I am friends with him, so I still have to lend him money if I really need it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Why do you care if someone has a boyfriend or not? If you feel like you're having a good time together. I will lend it to her, but in today's society, the money lent out should not be returned one day. That way you won't be sad.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If it is a good relationship, you can borrow, if the relationship is generally better, it is better not to borrow, after all, money is such a thing, and there are very few people who lend it out and return it back!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It depends on your usual relationship with him, if the relationship is good and the loan will be returned to you, then it's okay, if you borrow once and don't pay it back, you can directly refuse it later.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you think about this situation, of course, you can lend him money, because you are colleagues in the first place. It's okay for colleagues to help each other.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Ah, if you have a good relationship, it's okay to borrow money from him, and when everyone is in trouble, if he speaks, it's embarrassing to borrow money.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If it's someone you're familiar with, you can lend her an IOU to write.

    If it's someone you don't know well, you can borrow it or not take it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Look for yourself, 200 yuan is not too much and not too little, depending on what kind of person he is, he can borrow it, and if he thinks it shouldn't be borrowed, he won't borrow.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Look at the people. First of all, how long have you known each other, how much do you know about her, and has she worked in your company through the probationary period? If you don't have it, don't borrow it!

    Of course, if you think her character is okay, you can lend it to her. Another question is, she has a boyfriend, why does she want to borrow money from you?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    There's something wrong with that.

    As long as you can rest assured.

    Seemingly. When I lent him money at the beginning.

    You still trust him.

    I'm a little worried now.

    Personally, I think.

    As far as you are concerned.

    Don't worry.

    First. Both parents know each other.

    Get acquainted with each other. <>

    Second. Ran monk.

    Can't run to the temple. <>

    Third. It's only two thousand dollars.

    The amount is not large. Can't do it.

    He couldn't afford to pay for such a small amount of money.

    ruined their reputation.

    You can't afford to spend so much money.

    Nervous.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Lend money to others, if a few dollars are not necessary, it will hurt the harmony to come back. If there are too many, you have to come back.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Of course you have to come back, the money is your own, and you have to get it back.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Your father always asks you to borrow money for various reasons, and if the money is used for non-living, you should politely refuse. But if life is difficult, as a child, you should help you.

    Tell me about my experiences:

    My mother's neighbor, Aunt Zhang, was a very strong person when she was alive, but due to poor health, she passed away a few years ago. Later, he left his wife and a daughter, who was already married at that time. After my wife retired, I didn't have much to do, and in addition to eating and drinking, I spent more time playing mahjong.

    And it's the kind that plays with money. According to my mother, his retirement salary is about 6,000 a month, and there is not much left except for his normal life. Then, I often ask my daughter to borrow it.

    It's not so much about borrowing as it is about asking.

    The daughter knows her father, because her father likes to play with money and gamble, so she gave him some at the beginning. But then, it was not given. And to put it mildly:

    Ever since Mom left, you've been indulging in life. Not only did he eat and drink, but he also gambled. If your living expenses are not enough, I can give it or support you.

    But if you spend your money on gambling, your daughter really doesn't approve of it. I hope you quit this problem, take the time to go out and exercise more, or you can also find a wife, which is better for your body. ”

    Yes, sometimes we have to learn to say no. But before refusing, you must look at the situation, if the father has no living expenses, he should help appropriately, after all, we are children. But if it is used for gambling or illegal activities, you should choose to refuse, but also care for him properly, guide him, explain more reason, and slowly he will get better.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Summary. Hello dear! Dad lends you money, if you say it's good, you can pay it back when you want, as the saying goes, it's good to borrow and repay, and it's not difficult to borrow again! If there are special circumstances, you can tell Dad, and Dad can understand! 

    Dad lent me money and now I want him to pay it back.

    Hello dear! Dad lends you money, if you say it's good, you can pay it back when you want, as the saying goes, it's good to borrow and repay, and it's not difficult to borrow again! If there are special circumstances, you can tell Dad, and Dad can understand! 

    He didn't understand at all.

    If the amount is not large, you should communicate with your father and pay attention to the tone and tone I believe that as a father, you should understand! 

    Last night, after I hit **, he scolded my mother, asked what's wrong, scolded my mother for a little thing, I heard it, I was angry, he often lost his temper and scolded his mother, when he was a child, he also scolded every day, beat every day, my mother doesn't understand anything now.

    Now that I'm older, he's changed a little bit, and his temper is getting more and more grumpy, I took my mom home last night, and this morning he sent a message scolding me to give him back his money, just let me pay it back now.

    Then your father feels a bit of a domestic violence tendency! But this kind of personality is more extreme, you better not provoke him, his character has taken root in him! It may be impossible to change!

    I really can't figure it out.

    Your father's personality is also related to his growth environment since he was a child, and no one is born with this bad temper! 

    It's just that I'm a daughter, I really can't let my mother go home, I'm afraid that he will scold my mother, beat and scold my mother, and if I don't go back, let me give him back his money.

    Probably the most painful is your mother! She is the one who will accompany him for the rest of his life! 

    150,000 ah I borrowed it to buy a house, and now he says that he will repay me for borrowing so much money from **.

    If you have the ability, return the money you borrowed from him, he will have nothing to say, you can't make sense with a person like your father, if you don't have the ability now, you can discuss with him, pay back a little at a time, and you can't take so much at once! I can't help it!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Summary. Hello dear kiss, I'm happy to answer for you, according to my years of experience, you can't borrow too much money to relatives, this is the best, you say to be a relative to borrow you, not much money can we not borrow? Therefore, you can only borrow, and you can't borrow much.

    I have an uncle who borrowed my money and gave it back to me, but he said to borrow it from me when he needed it, and I don't want to lend it to him often, so how can I reply?

    Hello dear kiss, I'm happy to answer for you, according to my years of experience in disturbing the ear, the money lent to relatives is not a family jujube can be borrowed too much, this is the best, you say to be a relative to borrow you, not much money can we not borrow? Therefore, you can only borrow, and you can't borrow much.

    Then how should I reply to him, and it is not good to hurt the harmony between the two.

    Hello can reply normally, you can reply okay, wait for the next time you borrow money from Yinqiao, you can make up a reason to say that you don't have much in your hand, alas, if you are in the case of your pretence Xiangji, let him borrow him less.

    There is another question about pro-limb relatives, does your uncle usually have serious things to do, alas, and whether he has income Duan Hong, so you have to know what he borrows money for, if you borrow money to drink and smoke, then you have to consider whether to borrow or not, you shouldn't borrow Bu Ranshi.

    Dear, if you really don't want to lend your uncle Uncle Tanqi's money, there is only one way, then find an opportunity to go to your uncle Han Han to ask Uncle Tan to borrow money, borrow more, if she can't take it out, she won't be able to repay your borrowed money in the future. No way,

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