Why do you feel stupid about what you said and did before?

Everyone will have such an experience, and feel that what they said and did before was stupid. I think it's because I was young and didn't experience much before, so I did stupid things. But at that time, we and Ben couldn't be aware of it, otherwise how could we do it?

Now that I've grown up and become more mature in my thinking, I realized that some of the things I used to do were stupid. But it's nothing, it's this stupidity that has made us what we are now.

Remembering Edison.

At the time of the research on the invention of the light bulb, the Wright brothers.

When they are constantly testing flights in the highlands, many older and experienced people may laugh at them for being stupid? Maybe later, when they think of themselves who keep pursuing their dreams, they also feel stupid! But their achievements confirm that youth can have an unrealistic side, and in this way, it also contributes to the continuous development of our society.

Of course, there are also those childhoods who wear quilts and dance around with wooden sticks. Although I didn't contribute like those great celebrities, at least let myself live in happiness and let myself have a healthy body and mind.

When we grow up, we have a lot to worry about. Maybe we think it's necessary and not stupid, but who would have thought that we wouldn't think we'd be stupid in a few decades? I thought that if I lived a simpler life now, it would be nice to keep my childlike innocence more!

Many people can't avoid doing stupid things when they are young, because at that time, we were innocent and carefree. We can keep imagining, keep weaving the world in our minds. Although I sometimes think about it and feel stupid, I have to admit that I was very happy at that time.

I hope we all have the opportunity to empty ourselves again and do some stupid things to make ourselves happy.

Because it seems that what I said and did in the past was very naïve, and this naivety is incomprehensible now, so I feel stupid. This kind of naivety is caused by very little previous life experience, after all, when I was young, now after more than ten years of life grinding, I can't say that what I do now will not be very naïve, after all, what I do now is still very stupid compared to ten years or more later. This kind of stupidity should become immature rather than naïve.

The deepest memory is that when I was in elementary school, I used to give other people all kinds of nicknames all day long, but I felt so cool that I didn't estimate the feelings of others at all. These things seem really stupid now. When I was in elementary school, the class was a one-meter-long desk, and then there would be a dividing line in the middle of each table, and this dividing line was drawn on each table, just to prevent the books or pens at the same table from crossing the boundary, otherwise it would be like violating their own territory and beating and scolding, I guess there are many people who will behave more stupidly than mine.

But sometimes I feel that it shouldn't be stupid, it's simple. This kind of simplicity is actually a bit silly now.

In the past, whether it was high school or junior high school, I always couldn't see through the relationship between men and women, I didn't know how to get along with the opposite sex, and I always thought about whether men and women would kiss or not. If you are a little more introverted, then the result is likely to be that your classmates basically have no topic in the process of getting along for a few years, because they dare not talk to the opposite sex, some of them belong to their own inferiority, and they are afraid of being gossiped by others, which is also a very unconfident behavior. These behaviors and psychology seem really stupid now.

But many times I feel that my stupid behavior back then was the result of being very young, very ignorant, having little life experience, and not seeing much of the world, etc., and this result is incomprehensible now, so I feel that what I said and did before was stupid.

Many people feel very stupid when they think of some of the things they said and some things they used to say, and I often do this, often thinking about what I did before, and I want to beat myself, I don't think this is a very negative heart, for me, I understand it as a kind of growth.

At that time, we said that sentence, or did that thing, we were immersed in the scene at that time, and we didn't know what was the right way to do it, but now we look back on the previous things and understand what kind of way is the best way for me to do it.

How can we achieve the best effect, we who are born in such a position have the right to despise our former selves and always feel that our former selves are not good enough.

In fact, this is also a kind of mature testimony, now we are able to understand many things, and we can solve some things well! It's different from my previous worldview and values, after some people and things have been tempered, everyone will grow, but the speed of growth is different.

When we really grow up, we will understand what to do and what not to do, and how we should do things to the best, but we don't understand at that time!

As we grow older, with the change of social phenomena, with the different times, everyone's ideas will change, we will have different choices in different periods, we really don't need to look down on our own choices before, because at that time, I must have chosen the best for myself.

And now our views are in conflict with our former selves, but we must understand that our original intention is to achieve a better goal.

I thought my goldfish were growing too slowly, so I poured a whole bag of fish food for them, and they died because they were too strong, and I cried for a long time.

When I carried a bag and took 200 yuan to Beijing to find my first love, now that I think about it, I really feel very stupid and naïve, 200 yuan in Beijing, even opening a house is not enough.

When I was young, I felt that my understanding of fashion was very unique, and I dyed my hair colorful at that time, and now I think about how stupid I was at that time.

I lost the 100 New Year's money I just arrived, and I still took a ten-yuan one and said in front of everyone that I didn't lose it.

When I was a child, I always felt that I could jump very far, and I always jumped over a small puddle on a rainy day, and never went around it, but once I tripped over a puddle. Directly planted in the mud pit, it hurts to fall, and it hurts to be beaten again when I go home.

I gave up my undergraduate college for the girl I liked, and resolutely followed her to apply for a junior college, but they dumped me in the second semester of my freshman year, and every time I think about it, I feel very stupid.

When I was in elementary school, the principal opened a vegetable field in the school, and repeatedly asked our fifth graders to go to the vegetable field to pull weeds, until one time, we were asked to work, I was in the vegetable garden, wandering around, and my heart was very irritable, until I saw a place planted with white radish, yes, I lay down and gave a bite to the part of the white radish exposed to the ground, but there were so many radios, I couldn't gnaw it alone, so I mobilized all the male classmates, everyone only took one bite of a radish, and all the radishes were bitten once. ‍‍

When I was a child, no one took me at home, my father went to work, my mother worked in the fields, and my grandmother didn't want to look at me because of her patriarchy. In the summer, I was home alone, it was too hot, and I was sweating a lot. My mom just caught a chick, basking in the sun.

I thought to myself, on such a hot day, the chickens must be hot too, so I took a basin of cold water and put them in for a bath. When my mom came back, the chicks were wilting. Ask me and I said I bathed the chickens.

Later, my mother used a hot water bottle to cover the chicks for a long time, but two of them died. Then the whole village knew that I bathed the chicks. ‍‍

I remember when I was in the third grade of primary school, my parents went to work in the fields, and after school in the afternoon, I went to the nearby river with my childhood friends to catch loaches, the weather was relatively hot and dry, and the water of the river was almost cut off, leaving only thick silt, there were loaches in the silt, I remember catching a few loaches that day. When I got home, I put the loaches in a bottle with water, and then I thought it was not right, didn't the loaches live in the silt? Then I had a naïve idea, there was a small mud puddle next to my house, about the size of a table, so I put the caught loach in the small mud puddle and let it live in it, and later, after a week, I wanted to see if the loach had grown up, but I couldn't find it, I don't know where the loach went, and I was sad and bad. ‍‍

I'm afraid the most mentally retarded thing I've ever done was choosing a boyfriend back then! Don't look at each other's families, don't look at each other's hobbies, just care that both of them are in college and love each other! At that time, I believed that love can overcome everything, everything is not a problem, we have a high education, work is not a problem, as long as the relationship is a sip of cold water, it is wine!

As a result, the difficulties and economic embarrassment can be imagined! The ability is consumed in survival, and no matter how much the unit attaches importance to me, I just want to make up for him, delaying myself! The result is not as good as those who care about the economy and family before marriage, he still doesn't care about me, he thinks I should be like this, I am not as good as others in his eyes!

My friends think I'm blind! ‍‍

If you want me to say that what I did when I was a child can giggle for a night, take the most impressive of me, when I was in the 5th grade of elementary school, my sister was two years old, during the day my parents went out to pick up mulberry leaves to feed silkworms, and I could only coax my sister at home, holding my sister everywhere to play, the village was tired of playing and hugged her home, at that time I saw a pile of fresh cow at my door, ouch hurriedly hugged my sister to the cow, lied to her and said to throw her away cow, she was also struggling to escape, The more I laughed, the happier I was about to touch cow, her feet were raised high, the more I proudly lowered the height of my hands, just when I laughed, I let go of my hand without paying attention, and watched my sister sit on top of cow, hehehehehe I stopped playing, hugged her and honestly went into the house to wash my pants. ‍‍

I remember the stupidest thing when I was a child was that my mother married a daughter-in-law, and it happened like this, I remember that I was just in the second grade, and I often played with friends of the same age in the neighborhood, and once I played the game of marriage, of course the groom was me, and the bride was one of my playmates, and we went on a trip according to the plot on TV, and brought the bride home, and then said to my mother, Mom, I took a wife back, and let my wife be filial to you in the future, and my mother died of laughter at that time! Of course, it was just a joke from childhood, but now that we've grown up, we've all gone our separate ways and started our own families! Time flies, think about how many people can maintain the innocence and stupidity of childhood at the moment!

When I was a child, right, that is, a few years ago, I thought I bought a pair of ducks, put them on the ground and eat stones, I thought it was fun, that day I went to hug the ,,,anyway big) stones, hugged the ducks back, when I got home, the first thing I did was cut the stones, put them in their bowls, and then remembered something, and rushed to the pond with a bang, and put them on the pond with a bang, but they plopped and sank, I was very anxious, took off my shoes and jumped directly in, Suddenly I thought that I couldn't swim, and I also sank I struggled desperately, I got out of my head, grabbed the two chickens directly, and flew out, and it seemed that I was holding something behind me, and I stood up, and I climbed up behind me, but in fact, it wasn't much deep, and now it's probably like that in my thighs, what about the two ducks? Of course I died, I held the two ducks and ran home, because I heard that you can come back to life by putting hungry people on rice, but I didn't pay attention to starving to death (well, it's really useless) I put those two ducks in my rice box, and I put a lot of stones in order to be safe, and then I actually forgot, until the evening, when my mother's lion roared, I understood that they were dead, and I knew that it was chickens, and I cried all night that day, and now I think about it is really fun and thrilling.

When I was a child, I bought popsicles on weekends to earn pocket money, took a nap in class on Monday, and shouted "stand up" in the afternoon! I got up and shouted "ice cream--- but the teacher and classmates all lay down!

When I was a child, I was a fan of opera, I especially loved to watch local operas, every time I watched them sing, I watched them sing in colorful and beautiful costumes, especially some gestures and singing, especially in my heart, I watched and laughed, and from time to time I followed along, and my grandfather laughed at me at that time. Before it was time for lunch, I would hang out with my grandfather after watching the play. When I saw delicious food, as long as I wanted to eat, my grandfather would buy it for me, I was still young at that time, I didn't understand the difficulties of life, my grandfather always bought me delicious food, I never ate it, I don't know why, I just feel so happy (*

:*Now that my grandfather has left me and my grandmother has left after him, I was brought up by my grandparents since I was a child, so I miss the time I spent with them.

One night, I had a dream that my grandfather was taking me to the theater again, and my grandmother was at home checking my homework with reading glasses.

I watched the play with my grandfather, I didn't make trouble, I didn't laugh, I watched the play quietly, watched it with my grandfather, for fear that I would wake up from the dream, suddenly there was a problem with the stage, the whole stage fell, everyone ran in a hurry, and I looked at everything in front of me blankly, grandpa he was gone, I was looking around, grandpa was saving a little girl who was about the same age as me, the wooden board on the beam was crumbling, I shouted loudly Grandpa, you go away, but it was too late, tragedy happened, I woke up in a dream, gasping for breath There was no one around. My grandparents have been away from me for years in the blink of an eye......

I haven't seen a play since. Because there are no grandparents around, it is meaningless to watch the play.

My grandparents, may you be well in heaven. Your granddaughter will always be fine.