Is it really better to look out than to be inside, the gap between the outside and the heart

A person's appearance is not important, but now there are many people in society who only look at the appearance, not the heart, the good, evil, beauty and ugliness of a person's soul is the key to determining a person, no matter how beautiful the face will age. Time can change a person's appearance, it can make you old and ugly, how will you feel when the time comes? Think about it, and don't forget that what is lost can never be returned.

Looks are innate, and since God has different arrangements for us with different faces, why bother to change the objective reality! But do you think a person's appearance is really that important? Maybe it's important, but it's not very important, isn't your own business just a list, people's inner cultivation is important, change your own inner thoughts, do yourself, do what you want to do, don't change yourself internally because of the evaluation of society, if the ideas of the people around you are wrong, you should not go with the flow, don't care too much about the eyes of others, judge right and wrong with your own thinking, and go your own way.

Cultivate your heart and make yourself a happy person. Maybe she next to you originally didn't think right, yesterday can't stay, she thought to be your past, what you do now is to grasp your present, meet a better future, don't value your beauty, and find your own happiness. Ability has nothing to do with appearance, and it is inherently wrong for you to measure a person's ability by appearance.

Ability is learned with inner perseverance and hard work, and people's appearance is based on birth, and no matter how capable they are, they can't change their faces at will. If you study hard now, you will definitely become a capable and accomplished person, so that you can prove that you are not inferior to others at all. Some things are easy to think about, but hard to do, go for it!

The first impression of two people who don't know each other when they meet for the first time is their appearance, and they can get to know each other's personalities in the process of talking. It doesn't matter whether you are beautiful or ugly on the outside, what matters is on the inside. Therefore, the heart is more important than the appearance, and in the process of interpersonal interaction, sincerity is more important, and the beauty of the soul far exceeds the beauty of the outside.

A person's appearance is only the first step we take to see a person, and if we want to become good friends with that person, the inner appearance is more important.

To taste life and understand the world, we must be good at looking through the surface and looking inside. A beautiful flower must have a healthy internal structure; A person's thoughts and will can be expressed through a look and an action; A confident person must be smiling and holding his head high on the surface; In a united and strong nation, there must be countless kind, fraternal, and hard-working people. Therefore, when a person stands in front of you, you don't need to pay too much attention to his delicate facial features or tall figure, you just need to observe his eyes, expressions, behaviors and mental outlook.

That River %26am 8226; The ship? The Man illustrates this truth. I read it three times in one breath, not to mention the beautiful words, but the touching and tear-jerking scene of the Wheel of Rana alone shocked me deeply.

The article mentions a small river, which is the only passage between the townspeople and the outside; A small boat is the only means of transportation for the people of the town; An old man who is the only ferryman in this town. The reason why the article moved me was because of the ferryman who was ugly, deaf and dumb by nature.

He had small, godless eyes, a shriveled nose, unkempt hair, and an ugly face. He's really ugly, so ugly that people don't want to look at him. But he is unknown, coming and going in the wind and rain every day, picking up and dropping off the villagers again and again, never stopping.

He was not paid, but he was despised and insulted by the people. Once, in order to rescue a child who fell into the water, he used all his strength to rest quietly in the river ......

People are too concerned about the appearance and ignore the good soul of a person.

Covering the volume and pondering, I thought about a lot, I thought about a person's appearance and heart, what is ugly and what is beautiful. An ugly appearance and a bright appearance cannot be chosen, but only a good heart can decide for itself. Beautiful's appearance, people like it, it is only combined with a beautiful mind, it is the most beautiful thing.

In real life, we can often see that some people are beautiful in appearance, but their words, behaviors and thoughts are annoying, which makes people unable to feel his beauty, but only feel extremely ugly; Although some people are ugly on the outside, but they are very beautiful on the inside, he can always think about others everywhere, sacrifice himself for others, and be able to stand up at critical moments, everyone appreciates him and respects him. You see, how big the appearance and heart are!

In the face of the vast universe, what you see is a black background, dotted with stars, very beautiful. But when you see everything in front of you, praise the beauty of the stars, the legend of the moon, can you understand its true meaning? The stars in front of you are so small, do you think that the heart of the little star is bigger than the moon or even the earth?

When you think about the ferryman, isn't his heart full of the happiness of the townspeople and their hopes for the future? After learning this, when you ** the starry sky again, you will definitely be full of praise for the mystery of the universe, and then your evaluation will no longer be limited to a certain appearance!

How big is the difference between the appearance and the heart? It's an unknown.

In general, people with strong hearts cannot be seen in daily life. I think that people who are really strong in their hearts will not care about the pain in their bodies, nor will they tell others about the pain, because they feel that it is unnecessary, and they will generally not trouble others if they can do what they can do, and they will not let others see when they are sad, but they are the calmest when they encounter real problems, and they will face the provocations of others calmly, and find their own shortcomings and then improve themselves, etc.

Not long or instantaneous, as long as you put in the effort, as long as you are persistent and eye-catching, you can do it, remember that your heart is another you.

You communicate with your own heart, and you can break through yourself.

No matter how beautiful the appearance is, there will always be an old day, so we must be strong enough in our hearts, Sister Feng is alive, are our difficulties still a problem, believe in yourself You are the most beautiful, and when we mature, we will understand, in fact, the appearance we like is just virtual, and the pursuit is always a beautiful heart! Only kind people are the most beautiful!

1.Wood has a relationship and does not need to be treated.

2.No, Chinese law does not provide for this.

3.It's both a moment and a long time, and the key is yourself.

Appearances are for others to see.

If you're strong enough, why care about your appearance?

To rely on external objects to frame oneself means that the heart is not strong enough.

If you've been strong on the inside, you don't need to be beautiful on the outside.

It is enough to meet people, dress appropriately, show respect for the other person.

There will always be some people with different looks around us, and many times we are ordinary and ordinary.

The heart is a true portrayal of a person. Appearances are only superficial, but not real. Weigh the choice between the two. Of course, the inside is more important than the outside.

Only with kindness in heart can it last for a long time. Of course, appearance is also very important, and there are very few people who can really not be affected by appearance, this is because ordinary people are fascinated.

It depends on whether you pay more attention to the appearance or the heart. Vanity people pay attention to appearance, and pragmatic and steady people pay attention to the heart.

There is no good appearance who has the leisure to know more about your heart.

It's all important, but it's even more important to have a good heart.

The charm of appearance.

Bai will fade because of the years, but the charm of the connotation du will never fade. But there is no attractive version of the appearance, and no matter how rich the connotation is, there is no chance to be understood and appreciated. Attracted to a person, some people are biased towards appearance, and some people are biased towards connotation.

For the zodiac signs, is it the appearance or the connotation that matters?

Everyone will be inconsistent with the appearance and connotation when entering society, because dealing with people is not something you can do willfully, everyone has more or less your feeling of "always feeling that the appearance prevents others from knowing my inner path", which is very normal, and I have also had it. As the saying goes, Lu Yao knows that the horsepower will be popular for a long time, you don't have to care completely about what others think of you, friends are a long-term thing, and people who are prejudiced against you at the beginning I think they will not and are not worthy of being your friends in the end.

Personally, I would advise you not to care too much about what others think of you, and if you feel bad, be your truest self, what's wrong.

It is certain that there are differences between people, everyone's fingers are not the same length, not to mention people, people are tall, short, fat, thin, men, women, old, young, etc., which can be intuitively different. The differences that cannot be seen are: differences in people's thinking and morality, way of thinking, personal cultivation, degree of education, and genetics, for example, when dealing with the same thing, there are differences or great differences.

You may be rich, but you may not be happy; You may be poor, but you don't have to be sad. There are many rich and miserable people, and there are many poor and happy people, and the key is how you treat your life - what is the purpose of life.

So what is the meaning of human life?

But many, many of us seem to have forgotten this, focusing only on goals and results, and not knowing how to enjoy life itself. There must be goals in life, but that's not all, in fact, the process of life is the most important. As long as you live happily every day, it is more important than anything else.

Because your miserable and troubled days are the same, and your happy and happy days are the same. Whether you are happy or not does not depend on life itself, but only in your mood. You are in a good mood, even if you are poor, you can live happily and happily.

It is not difficult to conclude that man's destiny is still in his own hands. We have to believe in fate, but we also have to believe in ourselves. It's up to you how you want to go!

Some people are busy all day long, and others say that he is a fool, but he himself is very happy; Some people spend all day long, others think he is happy and happy, but he lives a very empty life. Keep your eyes open to wisdom and don't be fooled by the superficial appearance of things. Life can't be repeated, so cherish it, what you really need is not money but a pair of eyes with wisdom!

How to deal with difficulties?

A person with a happy mindset has only two attitudes towards difficult things: first, try to change it. When he has enough ability, he tries to change it, and this mentality is called the character of the knife.

Second, when he feels that he does not have enough power to change it, he tries to adapt to it, and the inventor calls this mentality the water character.

We live in this complex society, some things can develop according to our will, and some things are not transferred by our will. So as a person with a happy mindset, the first thing to do is to properly assess your abilities. Try to choose what you can do and don't choose things that you know are impossible to do at the beginning, this is not called bravery, this is called stupidity.

The above is purely an invention maniac's personal remarks, if it helps you, it can be regarded as an invention maniac has done something meaningful.