What kind of shame do you have to ask others like this?

The so-called: rely on your parents at home and rely on your friends when you go out. In life, who can live a good life without relying on others? So you don't have to care, go your own way and let others do the talking.

Of course, there are faces to ask others, for example: the ancestors are illiterate, which does not prevent the future generations from being required to be on par with the top students. It is certainly right for parents to violate discipline and misconduct and ask their children and grandchildren to change their evil and follow good.

It is better to ask of others than to ask of yourself.

In today's society, face is worth a few cents, and those who become big things are often not confined to small things like face.

If you don't want to ask others, then become excellent and make yourself valuable, so that if you don't ask others, others will rush to help you.

Since you know that you don't have the face to ask others now, it is a good thing to find out the reason and be ashamed, I hope you can turn it into your own motivation and make yourself excellent.

If everybody had such self-knowledge, society would be more harmonious, and my brother read a news story that said that two husbands and wives had a quarrel and lit the gas, causing the tragedy of three deaths and four injuries.

What's wrong, isn't it good enough, face is important, there is no perfect life, the road of life is very long, there will be no bumps, sometimes bending over, it may not be a good thing, as long as you have confidence, everything will be fine.

People are like this, and it's hard to compromise with behaviors that you don't like to see! After going through a lot of things, slowly many problems are not a problem! We can choose to stay away from them, or them! People are divided into groups, and things are gathered by like! The three views are different, and naturally they can't be run-in!

I think the premise of asking others is always that you have a certain amount of capital, not just financial strength, but also your own ability.

Backbone and integrity are also used depending on the situation, and it depends on what is going on and who is right.

Then slowly make yourself better.

How are you? It's also normal that some people are selfish and feel very good about themselves, but they are very others.

If you don't feel like you have the face to ask others, then make some changes.

If you can't do it yourself, you won't be able to make others.

Do not disturb others as you can't.

Self is not to, but Yan begged for people.

When traveling with a leader, you have to restrain your behavior. Because people are your superiors, you have to listen to them for many things. Only when the leader is happy, your life will be better. You should know the truth of officialdom.

Because they think they are right and want others (just like themselves) to be good, they often ask others intentionally or unintentionally, but doing so is often counterproductive. But what is certain is that his intentions are good. If you really can't stand it, you can talk about it, but pay attention to skills, this kind of person is more confident, you don't say he's wrong, I personally think that you can start from "you're right, but mine isn't necessarily wrong." Based on the general character of such people, it is best to end the conversation if the other person starts to "argue", because they are often easy to understand as "quarrel" and the second generation of hostile emotions.

Some are called domineering, some are for you to have a good time, so that you don't have to suffer from it, but you can't experience it when you're young, these are all great sorrows.

People are your superiors, and some things can be endured for a while, so there is no need to tear your face with her.

Because they don't know how to be interesting, they think they're great.

Maybe the person who told you was too lazy, or maybe your dad just came back from work and was a little tired and didn't want to move.

He doesn't care what others do, he's just a superior of mine, and he calls himself a mentor.

This is the reason why officials crush people to death at the first level.

Being careful is of course the best, but it's also an opportunity to perform!

Is it okay for your parents to do what you ask you to do?

Personally, I think that the face of the person who can say this is insignificant in their eyes.

But the one who says this is not a substitute.

In his heart, he really doesn't mind what other people think. A lot of times, people don't necessarily do what they say.

Finally, I would like to say that doing your own thing, you don't have to care about other people's opinions based on the legality of the matter, if it is not legal and immoral, this statement is obviously untenable.

Hello bai, I am willing to answer your questions, I hope to be able to help you

It is precisely because you are so preoccupied with what others think of you that everything you do is done intentionally, not unintentionally. In this way, over time, you live under a kind of high pressure, and everything you do is for what others think of you. Don't say that you didn't do it, but you did it, and everyone around you praised you.

Don't you think it's too tiring to live like this?

It's not that we don't care what others think of us, the main thing is that no one is perfect, and everyone has that. With such shortcomings, we can't do everything and take everyone's views into account. Say; We did one thing right, and a say you're doing a great job.

And B says you're not doing well. What do you do? If the other thing, A says you're bad, and B says you're good.

What should you do?

Society is complex, and if you worry about these things every day, it is inevitable that you will take care of one thing and lose the other, and when you are inconsistent, others will have a worse opinion of you.

It's not that we don't care, it's that we're all mortals, and even great men can't be the same for everyone.

Don't care too much, go your own way, let others do it, as long as we have a clear conscience, why care about other people's opinions, they do better than you.

Don't be too sensitive, try a different way of living, and live a better life!

There is a category in which it refers to things that do not violate morality and good customs, and can be done without considering the attitudes and thoughts of others, and refers to the third party.

That's not to have to take into account the constraints of reality, morality and upbringing.

Keep your mouth shut, don't express your opinion, no matter what they say, you don't take a stand. Do what you have to do. Complaining is a sign of incompetence.

There are angry people, but there are no laughing people. Long live the pitiful mentality of the small people of a weak country, understand.

Because they're too weak, and the gangsters are them.

There is no such thing as a free lunch.

Each of us must have our own bottom line of principles, and don't leave anything to chance. Sometimes, it seems that "fools do stupid things, but often fools are foolish".

You mean to be cheeky and take advantage of others when you are out there, right? In my opinion, the question is: whether you can do what you want, and others will take advantage of you!

Just stay away from these people, and don't let these annoying things think about your feelings.

He lives for others, he lives for face, but he has no ego

People live a Facebook book, and a book lives a skin, depending on the time.

Nothing to be frustrated, just go along.

I also think that morality is used to restrain oneself, not to demand others, but if others do not follow morality and violate morality, then this morality is used to demand from him, which becomes a violation of morality. But more often than not, when a person does something, he takes into account the constraints of morality and does not do that thing, so it is often said that morality is used to restrain himself.

In the final analysis, morality is actually a person's principles and bottom line, so everyone will have their own principles and bottom line, and this bottom line only applies to yourself, others also have other people's principles and bottom lines, and the other is moral mistakes, in fact, they cannot be punished by law, so we can only use morality to restrain ourselves and cannot restrain others.

The ancients said that "to blame others for their own heart, to forgive others for their own heart", this tells that the truth should be similar, we should be strict with ourselves, lenient to others, only when our own virtue meets the requirements, we are qualified to blame others, when we are not up to the standard, what face to blame others?

The so-called morality has always been used to restrain oneself, not to judge others.

Nowadays, Chinese people really have a great misunderstanding of morality, moral self-discipline is not disciplined by others, why do you say that everyone has shortcomings? If everyone is absolutely moral, who would criticize the shortcomings of others? Which is not harmful to smoking, drinking, staying up late, or not controlling your diet?

You can advise others to do less such things, but you excessively use morality to accuse others, this is your fault, things that do not violate the law are used to restrain themselves, for example, some employees will be absent from work, students will skip class, this is of course the embodiment of quality, although some people often do this kind of thing, you can criticize or fire, or you can also educate, but you have no right to deprive him of his life because he has no sense of discipline, but some people just because of some immorality of others want others to die, I think it's really too radical, morality can be used to influence people, but you can't use it to oppress people.

The reason for the existence of this statement, in my opinion, is that in order to achieve effective management, there are two norms of law and morality in society, but compared with the two, the law is mandatory and binding, and if it is violated, it will be punished accordingly, but morality is not as binding as the law, and even if it is violated, it is at most to accept the condemnation of others, so it can be said that morality is more of a constraint on one's own heart, and cannot meet the requirements of others.

Everyone is an independent individual, except for the police, no one has the right to control the behavior of others, if you use your so-called moral standards to ask others to do it, and point fingers at their behavior, it is hypocrisy and trolling.

What's more, we can't control other people's thoughts, the so-called moral requirements are just a mouthful, and if the other party doesn't want to change, they won't listen to it at all.

Therefore, everyone has a scale in their hearts, and it is good to use this scale to strictly restrain themselves. If everyone had this kind of thinking, then the world would naturally be harmonious and beautiful.

Everyone's moral bottom line is different, and using morality to restrain others will only become the "moral emperor" in others' mouths.

Some people think that they should give up their seats to the old, weak, sick and disabled on the bus, some people feel that they are also tired, and there is nothing wrong with sitting, from a personal point of view, these people are right, but if you look at it from your own point of view, you will feel that those who do not give up their seats have moral problems. But it's very likely that she's been busy all day, and she's really too tired to fall asleep sitting in a chair, should he make himself even more tired for the sake of your morality??

We just need to restrain ourselves, morality itself is a conventional norm, as long as we can do it well, this is the best explanation for ourselves.

Morality is relative to the legal level, so it depends entirely on personal quality and upbringing, moral people will self-restraint, but for others, there is no way to force it. This is the difference between morality and law, but moral people are respected, there are many good morals, which are conventional, although they are not as strict as the law, but everyone will abide by them.

I think that is really true.

Ethics and morality are a yellow line that cannot be crossed in everyone's heart, but it is limited to oneself. If you use morality to demand others, it has become a moral kidnapping in the real society, and using your own moral standards to use it on others is actually an immoral behavior.

Therefore, although people do not live to please others, they must not force others.

If the reason for the person's character is removed.

Then this person has no feelings for you anymore.

That is, it's time to break up.

That's why we won't make any demands on you.

There are many possible scenarios for this,1In terms of material, it may be that the family environment is very good, and there is a certain gap between the people around it, and there will be no requirements for others in this case, because others can't do it, 2In terms of personality, it is very likely that he is a very strong person, and he hopes to solve everything through his own efforts, and does not want to owe others feelings or materials, the most common manifestation of this situation is that if you invite her to dinner, she will soon find an opportunity to invite back or ask AA to return to you, or it may be because of low self-esteem, resulting in a good face, I don't want to say anything, or it may be simply thin-skinned, embarrassed!

3. In terms of feelings, maybe he hasn't treated you as his real own, he thinks that what yours is yours, and his own is his own, and he is very clear, and he will not ask you to change anything, nor will he change himself.

If it's a girlfriend, there are two possibilities, it's extreme, 1 it's possible that your relationship is very good, she likes you very much, she doesn't want to make any demands on you, she's afraid of losing you, 2 it's possible that your relationship is not very good, to put it bluntly, she hasn't treated you as her own!