The blind date girl refused me many times, and said that it was best for me not to contact her again

If you chase after it immediately, it is easy to make the other party disgusted, and after a period of time, you will contact again, which is likely to have unexpected effects.

I wish the landlord success o(o

You asked her out twice, and each time you readily agreed and went out, but the blind date girl refused you many times and said that it was best for me not to contact her again in the future.

She could be one of the following two types.

The first type: Maybe she wants to test you, to see if you are sincere to her, whether you really like her, if you continue to chase, win.

The second type: It is a person who is not very disciplined in life, telling you not to contact her anymore, but you have asked her twice in a row and each time you readily agree and go out, not really like you, but also be a fool. Think about how many fools were there before you?

Gave up people not only don t have feelings for you now, but they are already very disgusted with you where there is no grass at the end of the world feelings and everything are slowly cultivated and it is rarely love at first sight so

Personal advice, no need to chase.

If you feel that you will be happy in the future, use your wisdom and show your sincerity to fight for it.

I guess you've provoked her.

Joking! Did you break my red line--

Blind date is a more common way to make friends, not only for men, but also for women, generally not suitable after blind date, will not be contacted, especially women, will do more obvious. For example, after the blind date, the woman directly blocked the man, and some women directly refused with words, but there are also some men who reconnect after the blind date after the woman's refusal, so that some male friends feel confused and don't know what's going on? So why did the blind date woman reject the man and reconnect?

The blind date woman rejected the man's re-contact for these reasons:

1. It may be that the blind date woman looked at some other men after the man, and found that they were not very good, so she thought you were better, and she would recontact you.

2. It may be that you can't stand the pressure of your parents, your parents think you're good, and the blind date girl doesn't want to argue with her parents, so she pretends to reconnect with you, in order to make her parents feel at ease.

For this situation, if there is no object for the time being, and you are more anxious to find a partner, you can try to understand each other first, starting from friends, it is also okay, to see if the other party's conditions and character are good, more in-depth understanding, if you can, continue to chat, and if you find that it is not suitable, you don't need to talk. Of course, if the man can't accept the way of refusal and then contact, he can also directly not contact.

This kind of thing is normal, you can talk to her, see her attitude, if she is not dead to you, then you continue to pursue, if she is completely dead to you, then you should not bother her anymore.

I also had this experience once, we met through a blind date, I also had a good impression of her at first, and then we were together, but not long after being together, she proposed to break up, I was very uncomfortable at the time, so I went to find her to get back together, but she rejected me, and then I gave up and stopped bothering her, but we still chatted occasionally, but I didn't go back to her again, because she was dead to me, so I wouldn't be bored with myself.

You can try to talk to her to see if she still has feelings for you, and if she still has, you can continue to pursue it.

Possible Scenario:

1. Suggest that you reconsider dating.

For example, when the former blind date was with you, she had just started to contact the blind date, with high vision and high requirements, and went around in the "blind date market" and found that you were still very good, so it was a bit of a "change of heart".

2. Complain and find someone to chat.

Maybe your ex-blind date has been frustrated in some aspects, such as work, etc., and just wants to talk to someone to complain.

3. "Care" about you who have been on a blind date.

The "care" here is just the care between friends, it may be that she just wants to know about your current situation, or it may be that she wants to introduce her good sister to you. I didn't have an in-depth understanding at the beginning, but I had a good impression of you, but due to some objective reasons, I didn't have good contact; Now I come back to you and want to re-engage with contact.

Generally, when a girl rejects you and looks for you on a blind date, there are two main reasons: one is that the blind date with the person who thinks it is better than you fails, and the other is that the introducer helps to explain your family situation clearly and impresses the other party. After all, what is special is that there are countless blind dates for girls, but the marriage is not settled, and they suddenly think of your goodness, and then find you.

If you really love her, don't care about other people's eyes, continue to work hard, and don't give up easily. If you don't love her, don't care if she says yes or not, because you've already rejected her, so you can't be together. You have to know that if you don't love her, you won't pursue her, and you won't care if she says yes or not.

So, if you really like her, don't care about other people's eyes, pursue her bravely, and don't give up easily, because she is also worthy of your love.

It shows that the woman doesn't like you very much. After all, you have your own fate, if you really care about each other so much. If you show it again, will he feel disgusted?

If you don't have an objection, you use your strengths to make him feel that you like him very much. If you don't like it that much, it's better not to, because if you meet the next one, the next one will also have a stump in his heart because of this matter. The next one in his mind thinks he's just your spare tire.

I think this is a good sign that love starts with friends, since she promised you to be friends, it means that she has feelings for you, as long as you don't give up, treat her with sincerity, and infect her, you will enter the marriage hall!

It's better to give up, people don't like you, so why force it? You are not Tang Sheng, she is not Sun Wukong, there is no need to spend time and effort in the future to please and move her, changing people is the fastest way to save time and manager, and you can get married faster!!

It's basically fate, don't waste your feelings anymore, that's a tactful refusal.

It's the woman's refusal to copy, it's good to be friends to relieve the pressure of blind dates, and it's okay to be your transition period, suggest, you can contact more, but don't mention the meeting, talk more about other topics, for example, you have recently worked in **, how good is the work, how much is the salary raised, you can ask her to eat, travel, take a walk together in the suburbs, a lot, over time, she feels that you are not bad, and you can talk about some ambiguous topics slowly, are you right?

It's the man who rejects you, don't chase it, it depends on the situation, and you can greet each other at the same time, get to know each other on the Internet, chat more, and promote feelings, okay, personal advice is for reference only, if it helps you, please adopt it? Thank you and goodbye.

There is no grass at the end of the world! Improving your quality is the key!

This should be polite bai to say, that is, to reject du. It takes a bit of effort to pursue zhi, but it doesn't necessarily lead to success.

First of all, look at your inner look at this woman.

Thoughts, want to catch up? Or do you have to catch it? Or do you feel dispensable?

If you want to chase it, you can start with daily greetings, sharing interesting things or news in life, and form regular habits. If you don't feel disgusted, you can continue to talk if you have a response, and if you are disgusted and resist, forget it. After a period of contact, you can contact her in the middle of the period to see her reaction, if she takes the initiative to find you, there may be a play, or confess to her again after a period to see the reaction.

Women don't get emotionally invested so quickly at first, they have to take their time. But once the relationship is recognized, she will be more invested than men after the beginning.

No, people didn't look at you, they didn't look good at first sight

Since they rejected you, it proves that the two of you don't call, so I think you should be friends.