What it s like to have a rush mentality

The rush mentality doesn't need to be shaken off. It's about taking advantage.

So, your second question should be like the first one, and it should be changed to, "How do you use the rush mentality?" ”

The way you ask questions shows that you have a distinctly different tendency to deal with the "unwilling" and "rushing" mentality. Because, you judge, unwillingness is neutral and can be used; And "rushing", it must be bad, so it needs to be gotten rid of.

I don't know how you make that judgment? In my case, when I make such judgments, it is often based on vague intuition, or the influence of other words. In fact, we lack a basic understanding of both states, or even a basic understanding.

If we have observed these two states of mind truthfully, such as what kind of process and what kind of feelings are there when such a situation occurs. In this way, we will find that the mentality of rushing for success also contains strength, just like reluctance. Since it is power, it can be used.

Just like the borrowing force in Tai Chi.

In short, unwillingness is a kind of psychological energy, and being in a hurry is also a kind of psychological energy, and we must do everything possible to use this psychological energy.

First of all, I think it's a bit abnormal to live in an impetuous society as a whole, instead of "rushing". Especially for young people, while facing increasingly fierce competition and a slowing economic environment, while seeing the growth of housing prices and various success stories that have attracted attention by major hype, how can they not be "in a hurry"? I think this is the main reason why no matter how much we crack down on low-level illegal business methods like pyramid schemes, countless college students fall into pyramid schemes every year.

The so-called "knowing and then having a certainty, being fixed and then being quiet, being quiet and then being able to be safe, being safe and then being able to consider, and then being able to get". Focusing on yourself is to focus on making yourself stronger rather than comparing yourself to others, so that you can truly improve your abilities.

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One: Don't think about the result when doing things, but enjoy the process of doing things. Two:

We must believe in accumulation, learn to slow down our work, firmly believe that one minute on stage, ten years of work off stage, and rush to achieve results often do not have good results. Three: Firmly believe that there is no shortcut to success, and there is no small way to make you successful permanently.

There is no shortcut to success, there is just that you are diligent and lay a solid foundation, so that you can reap the success yourself. If you want to succeed too much, you may go astray and think of some crooked ways. When you go down the wrong path, you won't be able to achieve success.

Therefore, if you don't change your mentality of being in a hurry, it will be easy for you to go down the wrong path, and you will not be able to succeed.

All in all, success is to be steady, you must not rush, when you are in a hurry, think about the harm of rushing, and calm yourself down.

It's very normal to be in a hurry, so we should first adjust our own state, don't put too much pressure on ourselves, and first go with the flow and watch the situation develop.

In life, you must slowly grind your temperament, don't always be in a hurry, and always persuade yourself.

If you want to change your rush mentality, you must first set a goal for yourself, and then set a phased goal, telling yourself to take it step by step in a down-to-earth manner.

Let yourself settle slowly, start with small things, try to slow down the pace of things, and don't tense your nerves.

Manifestations of impatience may include the following:

1.Rush to take sides and look for shortcuts. In the pursuit of success, some people may be in a hurry to find a fast track to knowledge, and neglect to improve their own abilities.

They may try to gain advantage by taking sides rather than succeeding through their own efforts. This kind of behavior can easily lead to falling victim in workplace politics.

2.Rush to do things and reflect value. Some people may be anxious to show their abilities in the hope of getting noticed and promoted. They may ignore quality and durability in favor of speed and quantity. Such behaviour can lead to short-sightedness and neglect of long-term gains.

3.Eager for quick success, ignoring character. Some people may do whatever it takes to achieve their ends, even ignoring morality and ethics. This kind of behavior may win some short-term benefits, but in the long run, it will lose people's trust and support.

4.Focus on the present, give up the long-term. People who are in a hurry often only focus on the immediate gains and losses, and ignore the long-term development. They may sacrifice long-term interests in order to succeed as quickly as possible. This behavior can lead to the waste of resources and the stagnation of development.

As a result, rushing ahead can lead to short-sightedness, unscrupulous means, loss of trust and support, and sacrifice of long-term interests. To avoid these manifestations, we should remain calm, rational, focus on quality and persistence, and focus on long-term development, while maintaining morality and ethics.

1. Being sleepy and rough at work is impetuous, not paying attention to the overall situation, ignoring the long-term, and revolving around the leader.

2. Detached from the real Wang Lu intertown, self-respecting decision-making, ignoring reality, blindly doing work, detached from the masses, keen to engage in the "image of the people" and the "political performance project" that is detached from reality.

1.Listen to the classical**, you can listen to some soothing, it is recommended that Beethoven's fate or something should not be listened to, and the march is also, you can listen to serenades or piano music, violin music.

2.You can go and practice yoga.

Impatience, lack of patience, and inability to hold your breath are a bad emotion. This disorder is more common in teenagers who are strong-blooded.

The poet Sadie once said, "Careers are often made by perseverance, and ruined by impatience." It is true that impatience often prevents us from calmly examining the objective conditions and acts arbitrarily, and the result is often to achieve half the result with half the effort, or even to backfire, and to speed up the process.

Impatience is related to a person's temperament and personality type, and in general, people with bile and blood tend to be more irritable than people with mucous and depressive qualities. For example, people with Type A personality have a strong sense of urgency and competition, which can be seen that they are busy and panicked all day long. But it is often a dragonfly that passes by, and it can't get into it or sink it, so the efficiency is not high, and the effect is not necessarily good.

Of course, in addition to the influence of temperament and personality on the introduction, it also has a greater relationship with a person's acquired environment and education, self-cultivation and understanding. So, how do you overcome impatience?

1. Recognize the harm. Only when we are fully aware of the harm of something can we have the motivation and strength to consciously overcome it. In practice, impatient people are prone to the following adverse consequences:

One is a glimpse of the light, hanging a leak. For example, when reading a book, some students look at the flowers and flowers at a glance, but when they recall it afterwards, they don't know what to do, and they are full of mistakes when doing homework or exams; The second is that it is difficult to ride a tiger, putting yourself in an embarrassing situation. Some people like to say that the wind is the rain, the beautiful name is "vigorous and resolute", once there is a novel idea, regardless of their own host and object conditions, recklessly, do not do a calm and comprehensive pros and cons and feasibility analysis and demonstration.

The result is often to give up halfway, not to do it, or even to let yourself go down; The third is to be emotional, easy to lose temper, speak disrespectfully, recklessly, ignore other people's self-esteem and personality characteristics, and blindly force others to maintain unity with themselves, so that it is difficult to harmonize interpersonal relationships. Sometimes good intentions don't get good results. Fourth, it causes unhappiness and irritability to oneself, which affects physical and mental health.

2. It is necessary to form the habit of being calm and prudent and thinking twice. To see that the world is complex, that it is not possible to all act according to our individual wishes, and that anything can be conditioned by other factors. Sometimes relying on "urgency" cannot solve the problem, but it is easy to mess things up.

Therefore, it is necessary to think calmly, make decisions prudently, comprehensively analyze all possible situations, deal with them patiently, try to avoid some deviations, and improve the efficiency of work. If the conditions are not ripe for the time being, one is to create conditions as much as possible, the second is to wait patiently for the opportunity, and the third is to change the goal or approach for things that are not possible, so as to be thankless.

Being in a hurry will only mess things up. "Why be in such a hurry? You can also ask someone to remind you in time when you find that you are impatient and don't realize it.

In this way, it helps you to return to your emotional normalcy and avoid impatience.

It's generally ambitious. The heart is relatively helpless. It's easy to give up once you encounter a big setback.

Hello, the rush is often due to the worry about the situation that arises in the process of "seeking", and does not want to experience that bad feeling, such as:

1. In the process of asking, because you have not succeeded, while others have succeeded, you have to experience the feeling of weakness and failure.

2. In the process of seeking, you will encounter a lot of difficulties, and you will experience frustration in this 3. In the process of asking, your own identity is inconsistent with reality (because the one I want to ask for, the one who I want after I succeed, is the identity I want), so I have to experience the diffusion of this identity.

There may be other reasons, which I won't list here.

In fact, the mentality of rushing for success is a big taboo on the road to success. This starts from your heart, searching for people who do things, they all want to succeed as soon as possible, but it also depends on what you do, what conditions and abilities you have, otherwise, success is in vain. If you want to get something done, you must not be impatient, the more anxious you are, the easier it is to make mistakes, but it will get twice the result with half the effort, which is not worth it.

You have the drive to do things and the desire to succeed, which is understandable. However, no matter what you sit on, you must be relaxed and orderly, implement it in a planned manner, and adjust it in action, and promote the success of things with what you can do in reality, rather than relying on impatience and hurry. The key to adjusting the mentality of being in a hurry is to have a peaceful mood and have the demeanor of a general who does not sit still.

When you can calm down and focus on what you have to do, you will be able to win and everything will be easier, so that you will enjoy the busy work instead of feeling tired. ‍‍

In your work, whatever you do, you should return to zero with a mindset: empty yourself, have a learning attitude, and see every task as a new beginning, a new experience, and a door to success.

When we can't change the environment, we have to adapt to it. If you can't change others, you can change yourself, and if you can't change things, you can change your attitude towards things. If you can't compare upwards, compare downwards.

This tells us that people can't wait, they have to learn to adapt. We must constantly adjust our mentality with changes in time, place, and environment. Don't say that people don't accept you, don't say that the environment is not suitable for you, don't say that things are too difficult to do, it's just that your mentality is not adjusted well.

In addition, we must learn to forget, to understand, and to be tolerant. Don't let your unforgiveness give others the opportunity to continue to hurt you. Learn to be grateful, appreciative, and giving, so that you feel that everything you do will be a reward for others.

You have to know that any success story is not something that can be achieved overnight, and no one can succeed casually, it is impossible ......Don't be too anxious about everything, be patient and persevering, as long as you work hard, you will definitely be able to do it. Always remind yourself that the world is undifferentiated, modern people are most likely to fall into the psychology of difference, when you can look down on everything, everything should be undifferent, then you will naturally understand the infinite scenery of life. ‍‍